I lost my virginity yesterday

[6-heads lewis]

It wasn't that great. No anxiety really, I got hard through making out, then just applied what I'd seen in oh-so-many porno films. I ate and fingered her vagina, it was wet and slippery, and kind of gross. She liked it though.

I nailed her in a few positions, sometimes I couldn't even tell if I was in or out, b/c of the condom. IT was hard to feel anything, I had to ask her if I was in a few times.

I had sex with her again today. Getting a bj was great, I wouldnt mind only getting bjs the rest of my life.

The point is: I obsessed about sex and women and came up with dozens of pages of theories and abstract ideas, yet now at 23, I managed to find a girl on the internet and have sex with her within 1 week, with no hassle.

There's no magic to it. Drink some liquor if you need to loosen up, post good pictures of yourself, and find someone as good looking or worse looking than you. Email them, be reasonably direct about what you want, and reply quickly, no stupid "waiting days" rule. Try to talk every day for a few days before meeting. In general, look for profiles that say "Im not here just to have sex" or "Im not that kind of girl". That tells you she IS that kind of girl, but is tired of being used for booty calls or one night stands.

I feel exactly the same today as I did last week, no 'monkey off my back', no magical feeling. Im the same dude doing the same sh!t, except now I've had sex.

 

[Lockheed]

Still a virgin here, but I've heard that "things arent so different than before".
But still good job dude, just be careful with STD's and stuff, maybe im just paranoid about online dating xD

 

[suavesuave]

nice man nice. congrat!!

 

[FireOnTheMountain]

Good job.


I'm also 23. Hopefully I can lose it before my birthday in July.

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Well, you got the pvssy and thats all that counts. Unless, if you pay for it.. :nono:

 

[6-heads lewis]

Well you need the practice, may as well stay within your bounds at first.

Most guys wouldn't know what to do with the sex-crazed bombshell if they got her, it's good ot get some practice first.

Good luck guys, to be honest, this site didn't help at all, it just added to the confusion. Just do what's natural - be direct, dominant, and confident. If you're not confident, drink enough whisky until you are!

And take your time! this is a big mistake for beginners, they get neurotic about it and rush it. Go very slow, feel her body thoroughly, rub her vagina, etc. Just keep rubbing her body and kissing her until you get hard, then pop the rubber on ASAP and get in there.

I found doggy style to be the easiest to get in, with her on top and mish it kept slipping out, and I couldn't see the hole. In doggy, you can see the hole and slowly get in there, it will be less obvious you're inexperienced if you can get into her slit comfortably.

 

[6-heads lewis]

And remember, women have the upper hand BIG TIME on internet dating especially, along with dating in general.

EVen decent looking women get flooded with sex offers, they're sorting according to looks, social status, money, and SEX SKILL. Right now you're sex skill is minimal, so focus on less desirable women while building your resume.

 

[S.Y.L]

CONGRATS.

I gotta get on it too, but im 16, so its no big deal.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

And remember, women have the upper hand BIG TIME on internet dating especially, along with dating in general.

EVen decent looking women get flooded with sex offers, they're sorting according to looks, social status, money, and SEX SKILL. Right now you're sex skill is minimal, so focus on less desirable women while building your resume.

I already tried the online adult hook-up thing and saw success on it (people willing to meet me if it was pursued), but it wasn't easy as I virtually had to shot-gun virtually every single profile to find someone that connected with me. I managed to connect with a few profiles. That means I have no choice of who I were to hook-up with, other than knowing I was selected by someone. It meant allot since I really wore my heart on my sleve and had a pity-party about being an older virgin hoping to attract sympathy fvcks.

For me, it appears I had a more harsher ride with normal dating as opposed to looking for a hook-up point-blanc. I cant put my finger on it, but it appeared I just had a good-time being on the adult site, while ironically, I had more issues or feelings of rejection on the 'normal non-adult' dating sites. It still feels like I'm resorting to something if I cant use some sort of 'game' and pick up someone and going on an adult site instead. I mean these girls have probably been around ALLOT and you are a conquest to them, or a notch on their bed-post.

 

[DonJuan11]

It wasn't that great.

The point is: I obsessed about sex and women and came up with dozens of pages of theories and abstract ideas, yet now at 23, I managed to find a girl on the internet and have sex with her within 1 week, with no hassle.

There's no magic to it. Drink some liquor if you need to loosen up, post good pictures of yourself, and find someone as good looking or worse looking than you. Email them, be reasonably direct about what you want, and reply quickly, no stupid "waiting days" rule.

Congrats, but when you say

"It's not that great"
"There's no magic to it"
"Do this and that"

Rich people could say the exact same thing about making millions and billions of dollars. I for one can tell you being filthy rich is not that great, there' no magic to it, and once you know the formula just keep doing it over and over and over again. I got more money than ever, and its not that great.

 

[6-heads lewis]

Congrats, but when you say

"It's not that great"
"There's no magic to it"
"Do this and that"

Rich people could say the exact same thing about making millions and billions of dollars. I for one can tell you being filthy rich is not that great, there' no magic to it, and once you know the formula just keep doing it over and over and over again. I got more money than ever, and its not that great.

I hear you man.

I didn't mean to sound condescending, just to tell guys like me who struggled with it that there not missing out on that much, and to try and live their lives comfortably, and not be strained so much by sexual frustration. I know it's much easier said than done. Sex was probably great during the 70s with no rubbers and more openness. I'm no stud or player mind you, at 23 this was the first time I had sex of any kind, hell I haven't even had a conversation with a female in several years.

It's just human nature, we imagine what we don't have to be extraordinary, but once we get it, it's disappointing.

Congrats on the money.

 

[Clarky]

Getting a bj was great, I wouldnt mind only getting bjs the rest of my life.

Got that one right :crackup:

 

[eaglez1177]

I lost my virginity when I was 17. And I disagree with you on some points, sex is fun and should feel great, you shouldnt have a negative attitude and say "its not that great". Give yourself a break, it was your first time, you cant expect to have wild amazing sex. After a few times of doing it it gets A LOT better, trust me.

 

[Raikojo17]

I lost my virginity when I was 17. And I disagree with you on some points, sex is fun and should feel great, you shouldnt have a negative attitude and say "its not that great". Give yourself a break, it was your first time, you cant expect to have wild amazing sex. After a few times of doing it it gets A LOT better, trust me.

I agree with Lewis. Sex is great! but it's not as great as people make it out to be

I lost my V card last year with my gf. We've done it since then to many times to count, but it is not that great

we've had great sex and boring sex. It's not good all the time. I feel it is waaay overrated, because i can think of 10 things more fun than having sex.

I mean really, what is sex? You thrust thrust thrust thrust thrust. she moans, you suck, then you're done. I've actually gotten bored while having sex before when i couldn't finish.

I love sex. But there are much more better things in life then having sex. I've had more fun times with my gf then just fvcking her

 

[Luke Skywalker]

So this girl you lost your virginity with -- is she sticking around to be your gf, or fb or introduce you to other girls who can be your fb or have threesomes with her -- or is this all the whole deal here? What are your ultimate goals? You want to build a harem (i.e. have a network of available fb's -- numbers you can call of hot women available and willing to have sex with you within a momen't notice)? Do you want to be poplular with girls - become a player looking for conquests? Or do you just want someone special as a gf or close friend? I'd be interested on what your goals are with women after you've lost your virginity to someone since obviously losing your virginity is no longer a major goal in your life. What's next?

 

[vitor]

I disagree. Sex is pretty damn amazing it is the main reason why we like women, It sure is hell not for their conversation skills, or the fact that we spend money on them etc.. There is something great about being inside a woman, getting a BJ, having the Juices of a HOT chicks pu**y all over your face. Get out there and get laid.. Do not listen to these people if it was not for sex this board would not be here.

 

[oakraiderz2]

And remember, women have the upper hand BIG TIME on internet dating especially, along with dating in general.

EVen decent looking women get flooded with sex offers, they're sorting according to looks, social status, money, and SEX SKILL. Right now you're sex skill is minimal, so focus on less desirable women while building your resume.

Youd be suprised. This is where good looks comes in handy and makes things EASY.

 

[OTB]

if it was not for sex this board would not be here.

This is one of the greatest points made on this thread!

 

[touge]

You should never pay for it.
Always earn it

 

[6-heads lewis]

Luke, my goal was to have sex, and to feel/taste a vagina. btw vaginas are wet and gooey, the guy who commented about tasting vagina juices, I did that and it felt gross. If you're into that then cool, congrats.

This girl looked like she was salivating from her vagina, it was wierd, but made for very easy entrance for my fingered.

I doubt I'll see here again, afterwards I opened up too much and revealed too many flaws, which turned her off. I advise all virgins or wierdos to keep their mouths tightly shut, at least until they get the sex.

There's no next goal from here, I just wanted to know what sex was like in many positions. The only thing we didn't do was anal, but I jammed my thumb in her butt while giving her doggy. That was kind of cool.