Boricua_33015
Master Don Juan
This happens alot but I never asked about it because I never really sat down to think about it until today.
When Im talking to a girl, or just to anyone, often I will lose my train of thought while Im speaking, and then Im in mid sentence, and I pause.... forgetting what the hell I was supposed to say next, and then I continue again. It happens more when Im nervous, less when I am at ease.
Most of the time the pause isn't too long so I can make it sound natural and make it look like I just pause for a reaction, or just to add suspense.
But sometimes, its like Im on HIGH or something. Ill be talking, and then I forgot what Im supposed to say next and then I pause for a long time and I usually say "wait I forgot what I was gonna say". My mind just blanks out.
Even though it doesn't happen alot, in fact it happens more when I am talking to girls who I am not interested in. Even though its rare, and only happens when I am talking to girls I am not interested, it still isn't good AT ALL. It shouldn't happen.
Usually when I talk to a girl I like I get the same problem but it takes on a different form. Ill forget what I was going to say but since I am a little more nervous I tend to add in words unconsciously that are not close to what I wanted to say, thus I say something different, OR I speak something incoherent and jarbled and even I won't know what the hell I was trying to say until I find my train of thought again.
I think it all has to do with my nervousness. I am confident and everything, but STILL I get fvcking nervous no matter what.
Please give me advice! Any type of losing train of thought is not good!!!
When Im talking to a girl, or just to anyone, often I will lose my train of thought while Im speaking, and then Im in mid sentence, and I pause.... forgetting what the hell I was supposed to say next, and then I continue again. It happens more when Im nervous, less when I am at ease.
Most of the time the pause isn't too long so I can make it sound natural and make it look like I just pause for a reaction, or just to add suspense.
But sometimes, its like Im on HIGH or something. Ill be talking, and then I forgot what Im supposed to say next and then I pause for a long time and I usually say "wait I forgot what I was gonna say". My mind just blanks out.
Even though it doesn't happen alot, in fact it happens more when I am talking to girls who I am not interested in. Even though its rare, and only happens when I am talking to girls I am not interested, it still isn't good AT ALL. It shouldn't happen.
Usually when I talk to a girl I like I get the same problem but it takes on a different form. Ill forget what I was going to say but since I am a little more nervous I tend to add in words unconsciously that are not close to what I wanted to say, thus I say something different, OR I speak something incoherent and jarbled and even I won't know what the hell I was trying to say until I find my train of thought again.
I think it all has to do with my nervousness. I am confident and everything, but STILL I get fvcking nervous no matter what.
Please give me advice! Any type of losing train of thought is not good!!!