Gonna keep this short and sweet. Been hanging out with an ex who recently admitted to still liking me, missed me very much, but says her life is such a mess right now that pursuing a relationship would be stupid. The next time I saw her she was very nice and cordial but somewhat cold as well. Is this hot and cold behavior and does anyone have any advice?
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I like you, I miss you, but....
- Thread starter Ackles
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Drumzarecool
Don Juan
Don't do it.
MOTU
Master Don Juan
Yea dude. You know where things end with this chick. Why waste your time? Go find some new chicks that you don't have the bad history with.
Now, if you can emotionally stand, you could use the ex as an occasional cvm dump, but most guys find too much comfort in the familiar and catch feelings again. Be careful.
Now, if you can emotionally stand, you could use the ex as an occasional cvm dump, but most guys find too much comfort in the familiar and catch feelings again. Be careful.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
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Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I'd say that 95% of the time you can negate anything a person says before the word 'but.'
Lozboss
Master Don Juan
OP
I'm in exactly the same position. My ex phrased it as 'I'm getting to know you again and I want to take it slow' after saying all this shot about how in so important to her.
Her reason was the same (a lot of **** going on-which is true but it doesn't change things)
Know what I did? Yesterday I went NC and moved on. Anybody who makes excuses needs to be NEXT. Stop hanging with her and move on with your life, NC for the win.
I'm in exactly the same position. My ex phrased it as 'I'm getting to know you again and I want to take it slow' after saying all this shot about how in so important to her.
Her reason was the same (a lot of **** going on-which is true but it doesn't change things)
Know what I did? Yesterday I went NC and moved on. Anybody who makes excuses needs to be NEXT. Stop hanging with her and move on with your life, NC for the win.