I Like Ya Friend

[In10se]

Spinning plates, keeping active and having solid results lately. Ran into a situation last night that I need some input on. Me and my close friend invited these two girls over to play some beer pong. He had already ****ed one of them 2 weeks ago and she's pretty into him. Her friend and I made out once, but I find her to be far more attractive.

Me and the attractive girl ended up winning game after game and she suggested that we strip so she was in bra and thong...I was just shirtless. We were blatantly flirting in front of them, rubbing chests and she was feeling up my chest and I pinched her ass. Yet I still kinda felt the vibe at the end of the night was expected that my friend would go off with her and I would get stuck with the boring average chick. And lo and behold despite all the blatant flirting, grinding and sexual energy btw me and the hot girl, her and my friend went upstairs and fooled around. I completely cold shouldered the busted girl and made them leave bc I "had work today" hahah its Sunday.

So the hot girl texted me a couple times last night asking me like why I wasn't hooking up with her friend. I ignored it...today I want to hit her back up and say "not feeling her, I find you more attractive" should I text/call?

Please don't give me **** about my friend already ****ing her, he has been family friends with her his whole life and he can't really be doing her anymore because if their families found out he would be disowned.

 

[Johnnyventana]

I want to hit her back up and say "not feeling her, I find you more attractive"

Why not tell her you want to marry her while you're at it?

Keep her guessing. How about, "Because I have my eye on someone else."

Much better response.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

So you want some used up pu$$y your homie was already in. Is the game that slow for you that you want that?

Just don't mess with the average chick. Get a hot girl. But not this one because obviously your friend is still hooking up with this broad. Don't c0ckbl0ck on the homie brotha.

 

[In10se]

I knew I would get a response like that ^^^
A. she is not "used up" they ****ed twice...wow big deal
B. he is away at school and I'm home with her
C. she is cute with a very nice body

I prefer responses that are actually constructive ways to approach what I want, not people to tell me that I shouldn't act/do what I want to do.

 

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D. she was in her thong grinding up against me and literally scratching my chest and abs...my friend gave me the OK to go for her and said he thought I was going to end up with her last night

 

[Iceberg]

So the hot girl texted me a couple times last night asking me like why I wasn't hooking up with her friend. I ignored it...today I want to hit her back up and say "not feeling her, I find you more attractive" should I text/call?

Telling a woman that you haven't boned that you want to bone her takes all the spontaneity and anticipation out of sex. It's like telling someone how a movie will end.

You've played "strip beer pong" or whatever, and fondled each other. So just continue down the path of sexual touching. Maybe you're at a party, you're grinding on each other, you're drunk, and you end up making out. Something like that. Massages. Ass-grabbing. Whatever touching that demonstrates how you want her sexually. Your actions will show this, not your words.

Just be prepared for her to throw the "But what will (your friend) think if he finds out?" excuse. Women are predictable that way.

 

[In10se]

Its not likely that I'll see her at a party or anywhere for that matter because of the age difference. Also funny enough she told my friend that "I'm an ******* for not hooking up with HER friend" after a night of flirting with me. My friend is done with her and I know she is attracted to me, so any CONSTRUCTIVE input is welcome. Thanks.

 

[backbreaker]

I knew I would get a response like that ^^^
A. she is not "used up" they ****ed twice...wow big deal
B. he is away at school and I'm home with her
C. she is cute with a very nice body

I prefer responses that are actually constructive ways to approach what I want, not people to tell me that I shouldn't act/do what I want to do.

you knew you would get the advice because it's the right advice.

dude, your boy already has dibs on that ****. he's planted the flag. i would be pretty fvckign hot if one of my friends was talking to a girl i JUST fvcked i don't care how hot she is and i don't' care how long i have been away. that's childish.

also it shows you have zero options. there is no girl in the world hot enough for me to talk to her if a good friend of mine is doing his thing with her. whatever his game is is his game. you have nothing to do with it

and you think women don't know this ****?

she is clearly, i mean, clearly telling you she doesn't' want you. when a girl ask you why you aren't hitting on her friend, she's telling you in so many words i'm not available to you. women who like you do not tell you to date their friends. under ANY circumstances.

you come here, you think you have game and you don't, you think this girl likes you and she doesn't, she's clearly telling that you aren't ugly but i'm into someone else and you need to take the clues, and you come here bad mouthing people giving you sound advice because it's not what you want to hear.

when i was in my late teen's early 20's i had 2 best friends. we all had girls or a girl. mand some of the girls my friends would pull would absoutle dimes. they would lie to the girls about them not seeing anyone else,. they would not pick up the phone when they called, they woudl tereat them "bad" and they would sometimes call, beucase we all would hang out all the time and they woudl confide to me why such and such is acting this way.. never, did i try to use that as an excuse or take advantage of the girls or bad mouth my friends. if antyhing i was pimping my friends game for them while they weren't there and out doing what they do.. "girl that dude is crazy about you, we were over here talking about you the other night" lol lying my ass off. by the time i was done with them they would be in love again. becuase that's what friends do.

i've had girls that my friends have dated show up at my house and make clear and blatant moves on me and i would tell them they need to go. i don't roll like that.

but i guess ***** is so scares nowadays that it's every man for himself.

where i am from we have names for people like you and it's not very flattering. dude my friends and i were so close i could tell a girl that i hadn't even fvcked yet to meet me over my friends house and i woudl be there in 30 minutes and i would know beyond a doubt that he isn't going to touch her. you on the other hand have like a 5 fvck minimum or something. pathetic. just pisses me off the young generation of guys these days. you don't respect the game man. there are rules to this ****. and your buddy, regardless of how hot she is or how many drinks you played, has dibbs. and she's clearly playing by the rules. you are the only one that isn't.

prettyboy knows what the f he is talking about. you don't. you clearly don't. no girl worth a fvck wants to fvck the dude that has to scavenge off his boy's tail. you just need to accept the fact that this set of girls, it didn't work out for you. there are times that we would go out and there would be 2 girls and 3 of us and ii would be the odd man out.. but i would not pout i played my role. my time woudl and did come enough and they did not pout, they played their role. that's how the game works. if you don't like the avg chick go find someone else because this other girl isn't happening. there are times you just got to take one for the team. your friend has a nice piece of ass on the hook. help him tag that **** and it will come back to you tenfold when the time is right.


hell.. when it came to my friends hot girls, not only did I not hit on them or get jealous.. hell I wanted him to fvck them. hell when you talked to any of us it was 3 on 1. if one of the girls ilked one of my friends she would have him and me and our other friend all in her ear trying to ssssssssssszsget HIM laid. i remember one day i was seeing this chick who was married and she showed up at my house like an hour before i got off work, my 2 best friends had keys to my house and were playing video games in my living room.

Not only, do they not hit on her. by the time i walk through the door she has the ssbiggest smile on her face ever. they have done coctued so much bull**** i had to call the plummer lol. the next day we were over my house crying laughing at some of the lies they told her.l they had her convinced that i wanted her to leave her husband. she was so happy she showed up at y place the next day and cooked dinner and bought me a pet bird lol (which actually just died last year, RIP Micky ). not only did they not hit on her i got a freaking ****atoo out of it lol. that, is friendship. that is what friends do for yo9u when you don't try to naijl every piece of ass that they have that is half decent.

 

[roman81]

SPOT ON!!!! Well said backbreaker.


Go find some more girls man, Maintain integrity and never, never lose dignity.

 

[LostAndConfused]

It seems like you really aren't friends with this guy. No self respecting ally would try to game a girl a friend just started boning, unless he's given explicit permission to do so.

Being completely honest, you come off as a piece of shït. The whole fact that you were flirting with her in the first may have signed your failure.... It doesn't give you a fvcking right to keep flirting.

The brothers in above posts have said similar. But haven't you noticed that friends' girls ALWAYS flirt with the friends? That's just human nature dude, don't think your so special that you have this cute girl flirting with you when your friend had already opened her up to himself, and yourself as an extension of being a friend.

Know this. When a friend of yours opens a girl and he does well, by inferences she makes about YOUR OWN character, she'll be opened for you as well, naturally. Two of my best friends are in LTRs that will most likely end up in marriage. BOTH girls have flirted with me blatantly at different times. Does that mean that I keep plowing and go for the lay?

You throw away loyalty to a friend and you might as well tuck your dlck between your legs and cluck like a hen.

With that being said, you the end of the situation very well. I think you overflirted with her, as in, even though she's giving good responses, you're hitting on her too much and not giving the other girl attention. From a game standpoint, you did well, but I'm guessing that's the real reason why she didn't fool around with you instead.

Finally, DONT GIVE IN TO THE TEMPTATION TO SHOW INTEREST. Don't text her back. She wants your friend anyway. You don't want this average girl. What's the point of texting?

And as further justification, one thing that the brothers above haven't really touched on......


...I dislike you because not only did you swing your **** around a friend's girl, but you ALSO sent them home early on the excuse that you had work.

While the people above said you lost it because you were hitting on a friend's girl in the first place, I think the situation got even worse when you sent them all home!!!!

That's fvcking pathetic bro, and it reeks of butthurt. As a college age guy, I see this shlt happen all the time, and let me warn you, you're the loser in this situation. Honestly if I were your friend, I probably would have made a couple of jokes at your expense with the cute girl laying next to me, naked and freshly fvcked, given your atrocious behavior. I don't care how much out of the "matrix" you get, or how deep you immerse yourself in game, it all goes to waste when you lose that one virtue that separates men from women.

"BAWWWWW I didn't get cute girl so I'm gonna send them all home!!!" To this extent, I think her texting you the next day wasn't anything about her friend, it may have been more about "why the fvck did this guy send us all home?"

but i guess ***** is so scares nowadays that it's every man for himself.

Chillingly true.

Haven't you noticed it recently? The post feminist movement has essentially removed a third of viable mates for men, while most guys are still intact.