I like my sister's friend, need help.

[WingHead]

So, here's the story:

The other day, I had to stay after school to work on some stuff. My sister is on the dance team, and has dance practice after school on most days. She asked if I wanted a ride home, I said yes. She told me to meet her at her car at 3:00. So, 3:00 rolled around and I made my way out to my sister's car.

When I was waiting for her at her car, I saw a good looking girl over by the steps. She was obviously waiting for a ride. And due to what she was wearing, it was obvious she's on the dance team.

After a few minutes of standing around, I see my sister heading my way. The good looking girl goes up to my sister and I see it's obvious that they're friends.

After a brief conversation, I saw my sister wave goodbye and start walking towards me. She got in the car, we went home.

Well, I've never met the friend before, never even saw her before that day. Don't know her name, nothing.

I want to talk to her Tuesday...but I don't know what to say. How to approach, etc.

I have to stay after again, so I was thinking of waiting for my sister at the steps and when the friend comes over (I assume she waits for a ride there every day), I'll say something. I just don't know what.

[You might be wondering why I don't ask my sister. I don't want to because it'd be awkward and not something I want to do. Besides, I'd prefer to keep it my business.]

Anyways, yeah, I'm just looking for advice on what to say.

Sorry that this is long, I just wanted to explain in full. Thanks for taking the time to read this.

 

[eaglez1177]

If shes gonna be waiting for a ride there every day then that should be a great opportunity for you to strike up a conversation with her. Its as simple as just standing nearby her, and then trying to make some eye contact with her so you can give her a smile (or you could just be like "hey whats up?")

Be cool and comfortable, and as the days go by you should be able to get to know her better and better (just make sure you dont fall into the friend zone though!!!).

Ask her stuff about dance, school, ya know just like everyday conversational stuff so you can get to know her.

 

[Mr. Red]

You could easily say "hey, you're friends with my sister right?" and then ask her what classes she's taking and what her favorite class is. You can also talk about dance and see what else she's interested/involved in.

Remember, even though she's waiting for a ride everyday you can't just do small talk everyday. Get some friends together and invite her out to do something fun with you guys.

 

[WingHead]

I'll give it a shot. Thanks, guys.

 

[nicelife]

yea man like what the other guy said, use your sister's friendship with her to your advantage..

"Hey im _____'s brother, whats your name?"

"Your pretty good at dancing"

then ask her a few open answer questions.. your sister will prob end up coming over, hopefully ur sis will help you out abit later on when the girl asks her about you, cos she will ;p

just keep it casual as, your just being friendly

cos its a practice ur going to, you've got alot of opportunities, just dont leave it too long to ask for her number

i'd prob ask the 2nd time you talk to her eh

just say hello n **** the 2nd time, little bit of convo, then before your sis comes just pull out your phone and be like "hey whats your number?"

9/10 shes going to give it to you unless you make a really bad impression the first time, but you wont, cos your a friendly guy, and your chilled out

then wait a day or 2, give her a txt asking what shes up to blah blah blah, then after a couple of msgs just be like hey you wanna do something fun next week (or whenever suits you)

a) she'll say yes and you'll make arrangements
b) she'll say no and/or give you some bull**** excuse (you've gotta decide wether its plausible or not)

Its all good if she says no the first time, just keep talking to her when you get the chance at the practice, just dont act needy or anything like that, your just chillin out waitin for ur sis, havin a bit of convo to pass the time

and if she downright rejects you then **** it, im sure theres a few more hb's on that team ;P

 

[eaglez1177]

It actually might not be a good idea to mention that your her friends brother. Simply cuz she would probably get a little worried that your sister would get mad at her if she found out you guys were together ya know?

 

[Dedication]

My opinion: Do mention it. Girls fall in love with the brother of thier friends. It just "happens".

Talk to her like this plot-line: Hey aren't you a friend of my little sister? <Inserst sisters name here>. If you are a friend you must be pretty anoying as well.

Ask what her favorite class is. High five her because you like the class aswell. Then ask her what her least favorite class is and push her away because its your second favorite class. Then mention a funny story that happened to you and your friend (Don't brag just a fun story). Then you have to CLOSE MAN. Run the train if you have to everyday you meet her again. Run the train.

 

[WingHead]

Thanks again for the replies.

Well, I've been talking to her. My sister gave me her myspace. I know what you're thinking--that's weak. Yeah, but there isn't dance practice for 3 weeks and I didn't want to wait, so this will have to do for now. We're talking right now.

What sucks is, even though she's single, she keeps going on about her stupid ex and $*#&...talking about how she's "trying to work things out with him."

I don't know, I've successfully steered the conversation away from him. I don't know, maybe she'll start to like me. So far, things are going smooth. It helps that she really likes my sister.

:wave: