imo bros before hos is very important. but, again imo, a key part is that is for the guy to be your BRO. a buddy. a close friend. a brother. not some random shmuck off the streets. you know? is this guy REALLY your bro, or just some dude?
imo the line should be drawn at marriage. getting involved with a married woman will put a hell of a lot of heat on your ass. the last thing you want is some hell-bent, middle-aged husband kicking your door down and aiming a shotgun at your dome, 'cause he found out you were boning his wife. if she has a ring, their relationship (in general, should be) important enough for you to stay away.
that being said, realize that a vast majority of the women you'll meet will have boyfriends. whether theyre in a long-term relationship, or just keeping some poor afc sap around for fun, theyll be in a relationship. a lot of women would rather have an... armpiece boyfriend; even if he his a chump, hes someone to buy them things, and show off to their girlfriends. they have this silly little idea in their head, that if they dont have a bf to show off, theyre losers. theyre less than whole. theyd rather keep ANYONE around, than be alone.
but tell me now - if you're the man, are you going to let some OTHER guy ruin it for you? keep in mind - when a DON JUAN comes along, its a special opportunity for a girl. YOU are doing HER the favor of taking her on the thrilling ride of seduction. youre going to tell her things never told, show her things never seen, and **** her like shes been dreaming of being ****ed.
so, as i said, are you going to let some dork stand in your way?
SLB