So, me and a friend were out tonight watching the Packer game.
Cute little waitress was working our table. Its RARE, we usually get the worst in the place wherever i go.
She is 20, and working and going to school full time studying nuclear medicine.
So, I make some joking comments about how she sat with every other table in the row at some point but not us. (I actually think she did, but I'd forgotten at the time I said it, so I went with it.)
I picked on her a little, complimented in a sarcastic way too.
She busted on me for eating slow at one point and something else.
Well, I said something to her, that we were planning a Super Bowl party and recruiting people and asked what she was doing in 2 weeks.
I KNOW, prob a dumb question for a 20 yr old. Well, she of course says she has no idea, that she doesn't know what she's doing tomorrow.
Then a few minutes later, we're closing out our bill, and I made a comment that my friend had to get home to his wifey. My friend chimed in some comment to confirm.
Then she looks at me with a big smile, and says, "So, what about you, where is your wifey?" It wasn't overly flirty on her part, but seemed somewhat, and she was VERY busy.
I smiled back and told her that I hadn't met her yet. I maybe could have been funnier here, but I'd already been funny, and was still being funny, so it wasn't that big a deal. She commented more than once about how we were her most fun table or whatever all night, etc etc.
So, I let it go at that point. Then later, she's back by a few times, and I again, say, so I'm gonna let you know about the party, but I need your number to contact you.
She says, how about i give you my email address. She said she checks it all the time so that was a good way to reach her.
So, I'm not sure if she was just being nice, or blowing me off, or not.
Maybe her question about my "wifey" was an "inquiry" on her part more than the sum of the question itself.
Thing is, I may not even be having a superbowl party. Several of my "people" are gonna be out of town that day.
So, how do I handle this to maximize potential??
Any thoughts?
Cute little waitress was working our table. Its RARE, we usually get the worst in the place wherever i go.
She is 20, and working and going to school full time studying nuclear medicine.
So, I make some joking comments about how she sat with every other table in the row at some point but not us. (I actually think she did, but I'd forgotten at the time I said it, so I went with it.)
I picked on her a little, complimented in a sarcastic way too.
She busted on me for eating slow at one point and something else.
Well, I said something to her, that we were planning a Super Bowl party and recruiting people and asked what she was doing in 2 weeks.
I KNOW, prob a dumb question for a 20 yr old. Well, she of course says she has no idea, that she doesn't know what she's doing tomorrow.
Then a few minutes later, we're closing out our bill, and I made a comment that my friend had to get home to his wifey. My friend chimed in some comment to confirm.
Then she looks at me with a big smile, and says, "So, what about you, where is your wifey?" It wasn't overly flirty on her part, but seemed somewhat, and she was VERY busy.
I smiled back and told her that I hadn't met her yet. I maybe could have been funnier here, but I'd already been funny, and was still being funny, so it wasn't that big a deal. She commented more than once about how we were her most fun table or whatever all night, etc etc.
So, I let it go at that point. Then later, she's back by a few times, and I again, say, so I'm gonna let you know about the party, but I need your number to contact you.
She says, how about i give you my email address. She said she checks it all the time so that was a good way to reach her.
So, I'm not sure if she was just being nice, or blowing me off, or not.
Maybe her question about my "wifey" was an "inquiry" on her part more than the sum of the question itself.
Thing is, I may not even be having a superbowl party. Several of my "people" are gonna be out of town that day.
So, how do I handle this to maximize potential??
Any thoughts?