I know, AFC move!

[mavericks48]

As I posted in my last post...i've been seeing my ex driving around my area and I saw her car driving past my street twice in 2 weeks time. She knows no one around the area. I figured she has been prabably thinking of me.

She dumped me 1.5 yr ago. So I tried a little trick that maybe backfired or worse, just made me feel like an AFC. I texed her today, heres what I said,

"Ok, u got me, congratulations.

Thought maybe she would text back, "for what" then I would say, "because I was thinking of you". Well, no back text yet. So, I just don't understand how a past girlfriend drives around near your home but doesn't want to talk to you. She must be thking of me, I would think? Right?!

 

[AlNess]

Maybe she's met someone in the past 1.5 years who lives in your area, or an old friend of hers now lives near you.

 

[mavericks48]

Afc Move

Maybe she's met someone in the past 1.5 years who lives in your area, or an old friend of hers now lives near you.

I doubt that...but she is married now to a real loser that she left him went to me and went back to him. They have a kid together, she takes care of them.

But im just confused as to why the drive bys and not at least replying somthing to me. I followed her once and she just disappeared that fast. I also got a vm with her saying somthing to someone else in the background, reconized her voice. Just makes no sence at all.

 

[women haze]

WTF dude Move on

 

[Boilermaker]

She dumped me 1.5 yr ago. So I tried a little trick that maybe backfired or worse, just made me feel like an AFC. I texed her today, heres what I said,

Something backfires when it's already on some workable level. This didn't backfire.

She read that text, watched a fruit fly fly by, and she farted. That's what happened.

Indifference, dude, indifference.

 

[mavericks48]

Something backfires when it's already on some workable level. This didn't backfire.

She read that text, watched a fruit fly fly by, and she farted. That's what happened.

Indifference, dude, indifference.

Look, i KNOW WHAT U MEAN...indifference ..basicly she could give a sh***T! Well, I've not been in this situation before, do you think that I ever thought that I would a girl, fall in love or lust whatever you wanta call it, get dumped and take 2 fk***g yrs to get over!? if i would have thought that was gonna happen I would have ran for the hills as soon as I met her.

I did move or thought I did, then I began seeing her car driving around my house and got the mysterious call, then it just set me back thats all.

So I guess all of the hundrens or whatever amount of members on Sosuave this has never happened too, right? I know about moving on and im trying!

 

[Larry Walker]

Look, i KNOW WHAT U MEAN...indifference ..basicly she could give a sh***T! Well, I've not been in this situation before, do you think that I ever thought that I would a girl, fall in love or lust whatever you wanta call it, get dumped and take 2 fk***g yrs to get over!? if i would have thought that was gonna happen I would have ran for the hills as soon as I met her.

I did move or thought I did, then I began seeing her car driving around my house and got the mysterious call, then it just set me back thats all.

So I guess all of the hundrens or whatever amount of members on Sosuave this has never happened too, right? I know about moving on and im trying!

You should have texted her this: "B!TCH why are you driving around my place and calling my #?"

Forget that stupid subliminal game you were trying to play.

 

[Jitterbug]

I struggle to remember the last name of my ex from 2 years ago let alone have her number on my phone. What's wrong with you?

 

[MikeBrown30]

You sound like a teenager, not a 49 year old. Don't give her the statisfaction of you giving her attention, don't fu<king call, don't text, nothing.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

What do you think Eli would think if you found out that Tom Brady texted Eli Manning, "Ok, u got me, congratulations." in reference to the Giants destroying the Patriots perfect season in the super bowl in 2009?

The ONEitis is strong in this one.

 

[Colossus]

WTF dude Move on

What he said.

 

[Johnnyventana]

It's probably a good idea you were not able to use that "line."

 

[Slickster]

Sorry but you must not have much else going on if you are still letting your ex affect you after such a long time.

The way to forget about her is to get out there and meet new women. Focus on that and when you find a good one I guarantee any lingering thoughts about the ex will vanish.

She's not thinking of you Mav. Not even a bit. If she was, she would respond. It was all coincidence and meanwhile you are living in a dream world.

Pull your head out of the sand and get moving forward.

Every single time you think about her nip it in the bud. She doesn't exist!

 

[romangod]

She dumped me 1.5 yr ago. So I tried a little trick that maybe backfired or worse, just made me feel like an AFC.

So, I just don't understand how a past girlfriend drives around near your home but doesn't want to talk to you. She must be thking of me, I would think? Right?!

I read this post a couple of days ago and it disturbed me. I was wondering how to respond without being cruel while being helpful at the same time. It's almost impossible.

If you're really 49 and this is how you think, I need to ask if you've been in a coma for the last 30 years? This kind of AFC mindset is reserved for naive kids who are still wet behind the ears.

She dumped you 1.5 years ago yet doesn't respond to your grovelling text? Surprise!!! :crazy:

She must be thinking about you because she happened to be in your neighborhood, right? Wrong!!! :crazy:

You're grasping at straws to placate your fragile ego. I'd suggest you have more important things to focus on. Like how to be a mature man in your thinking. Your going backwards and time will not wait for you to catch up.


Cheers!

 

[st_99]

It's probably a good idea you were not able to use that "line."

exactly.

 

[ThreeStorms]

Man, you made the first post about this chick nearly a year ago, where you had already chased her for 7 months after the break-up. Please let her go, for your own sanity. She is with this useless Badboy, but that is none of your business. She is immature, and has a kid. Why are you still thinking about her. You can do so much better. Get yourself an attractive, intelligent, high-class 30-something with as little baggage as possible.

 

[Aaron B]

passive-aggressive nonsense that doesn't serve your goals, unless your goal is to make a fool of yourself and get sucked back into a one-sided relationship where she has all the power

learn to love yourself