"i kind of want you right now"

[pua1989]

what do you say to a girl who sends you that txt message? i was passed out by the time i received it so i didnt bother responding this morning but was wondering what i would have said if i was still up

EDIT: i probably would have said "kind of?"

 

[nabster]

I'd have said "then come get me gorgeous"

 

[Cableguy]

I would've said "I'm kinda busy."

 

[TheBucketOfTruth]

I would've said "I'm kinda busy."

Unless the girl is a true attention ***** and you know she won't fool around with you, this seems like you'd be playing too hard to get (assuming you aren't actually busy).

To each his own. I probably would have said "you kinda should do something about that," or some variation on that theme.

 

[Faded Image]

I'll say "Well I kind of had something planned but I'll see what I can do."

 

[Lil Game]

Again, I always admit I've got alot to learn but this seems to be a situation where you take advantage and let the panties hit the floor. I woulda sent something back like, "Well, I'm chillin if u wanna come thru". As opposed to, "Get over her right now, I can't wait!" Which would reek of desperation and make her seem like the prize instead of yourself. I see nothing wrong of taking advantage of a girl being horny, again, they're human just like us and have urges just the same. Like a previous poster said, unless she's revealed herself to be an attention wh*** in previous encounters, it would be time to put those condoms to use my friend.

 

[pua1989]

Unless the girl is a true attention ***** and you know she won't fool around with you, this seems like you'd be playing too hard to get (assuming you aren't actually busy).

To each his own. I probably would have said "you kinda should do something about that," or some variation on that theme.

that fits my style perfectly.....on another note STOKED cuz shes a chill ass DIME thanks for the responses

 

[axxo]

DELAY answeing the text by at least one hour.. and answer all you want.

 

[daygameguy]

We can come up with a lot of responses, but the fact is, what works best is what goes with the moment.

I could have said, "I know you do. So what's on your mind?"

 

[Allurre]

I would've teasingly replied "How bad?"

 

[shaunuk]

all the 'teasing' and standoff-ish replies are all very well, but to *me*, there comes a time when you should stop farting about and just be normal. That's assuming you actually want to fvck her.

She's saying she wants to fvck you, she's not saying she wants some ****y response humiliating her for making a move. So stop being a ****y fvck and go shag her.

That's just how I deal with it.

 

[Lust]

"well do something about it."

Edit. Oh didn't read the TBOT's reply.

shaunuk is right, you don't have to come up with some masterpiece of a response. don't make too much of a deal about it. just give her the opportunity to jump into your world, if she takes it, great. if not, her loss.

 

[Cableguy]

I'm used to women saying "I want you right now", not "I kinda want you right now". This ain't rocket science. Women know exactly what they are doing when they say this stupid ****. They want you to respond with the lame ass crap that most guys do. And guys wonder why these chicks never show up.

If a woman says "I kinda like you, I kinda want you" i.e. anything intentionally meant to keep you guessing, blow her off. Period. If she really does want you, telling her you're kinda busy won't stop her from coming over and staining your sheets.

Chicks try this shyt with me all the time. It's deliberate. And who gives a rat's ass if you miss an opportunity with some c0cktease when you have a bullpen of women willing and waiting to gobble your knob.

Real men who are out getting real pvssy don't have time to play silly games. I don't know what kind of chicks you guys are meeting, but the ones I meet don't use the words maybe, sorta, or kinda when it relates to them wanting to bone.

 

[Cableguy]

Erm, did you think that maybe the girl is a little nervous? Sometimes they say stuff like "I kind of like you" instead of being more direct because they are a little uncomfortable/nervous. I mean, she's being direct enough like that. I don't know man, but I wouldn't blow her off.

Of course you have to take into account things like that. In my original response I said I would've replied that I was "kinda" busy. I wouldn't ignore the text totally unless I was with another girl.

The jist of what I'm getting at is chicks love to keep you guessing or lure you in to sending them umpteen texts, only to send you one last one saying "ok..I'm off to bed now." You have to guage the chick sending the texts. If she's an AW, it's likely she just needs the attention.

A few weeks ago I got a late night text from a chick that said "I'm kinda horny!" I wasn't impressed. I sent her one back saying I was "kinda busy." She immediately called wanting to know what I was so busy doing as to not get all giddy that she was "kinda horny." If a chick is "kind of" something, it also implies that she "kind of isn't."

Women are used to guys blowing their shyt up when they send out texts like this. It reeks of desperation on the guy's part IMHO. If you meet a new chick and she sends a message like the OP got, I'd keep my reply short and sweet. I most certainly would not engage in sexting for any length of time, especially when I have women that I know want to bang. I've been on an A-Hole kick lately and I must say it works beautifully.

 

[romangod]

"i kind of want you right now"


"Then kind of come over right now."


Cheers!

 

[Prodigy746]

Unless the girl is a true attention ***** and you know she won't fool around with you, this seems like you'd be playing too hard to get (assuming you aren't actually busy).

To each his own. I probably would have said "you kinda should do something about that," or some variation on that theme.

I like that.. thats prolly the right response IMO.