I keep getting negged by this chick

[Don Juanabbe]

This chick who's probably a 7 overall keeps negging me and I have no idea how to react to it. What's scary is it's kind of starting to work on me as I feel the need to qualify myself to her now! I didn't see it at first, because I wasn't really that interested in her, but damn, this chick is good, she actually has me thinking about her!! I can't believe this sh*t!! It actually works......

 

[Skel]

pimp slap her

 

[Don Juanabbe]

Probably a good idea. She is really annoying.

 

[taqueso]

Just ignore the *****. You don't like her anyway (annoying, right?) so don't get your panties in a bunch over some neg hits. The best part is that you can recognize what is happening. You know what she is doing and what it can do it you. So don't let it happen! Be in control.

p.s. now you know the power of the neg hit first hand

 

[NewMan]

I agree - ignore her. It's a mental game - and you need to be stronger.

 

[romeo203]

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What neg hit specifically did she give you.

I negged hit a chick when she was all happy and smiling to be with me (I kinda liked her but don't care for her that much) like you wear alot of makeup and your jeans are out of style just last night.

I don't know if this type of thing works or not... maybe cause she then told me she could get any guy to do anything she wants! I told her Yeah right!!! The audacity but the truth in which not too many girls expose. I guess she felt she was trying to get at a higher level than my expectations. In a way I guess it worked.

I think a neg hit makes a person feel like they're below you and you know how hot chicks always believe that they're better than you.

 

[Don Juanabbe]

Well, this one seems to keep negging me about how I don't have my life in order (even though she nows sweet f-all about my life) and that I supposedly hang around the pub all the time.

Funny enough, the only time I see her is on Thursday nights when I'm in the pub, and when she's in the pub. Not sure why she cares so much about my life. At any rate, I find it amusing, considering she's in there everytime I'm in there.

She's likely interested, otherwise, why the f*ck would she be so concerned about it. It's just, I like to think I have my life in pretty good order. That's why it bothers me.

 

[Ballistik]

Call her on it. Say something like "Wow, you sure seem interested in my life for all the criticism you give it. Could it be more interesting than yours?" Now you've shown that you know she's interested and neg-hit her back at the same time.

 

[Don Juanabbe]

Originally posted by Ballistik
Call her on it. Say something like "Wow, you sure seem interested in my life for all the criticism you give it. Could it be more interesting than yours?" Now you've shown that you know she's interested and neg-hit her back at the same time.

Brilliant, that's excellent, thanks. It's funny, she just catches me flat footed with these comments every time. She just flops them out on the table and I can't think on my feet fast enough. I swear, she started it 3 Thursdays ago (I go to that pub on Thursday nights) and keeps mentioning it:

The second Thursday after we met she says, "So we meet again on a Thursday." To which I replied, "Yeah, seems that way, Thursday again." To which she said, "I hope you haven't been in here every night this week."

Then yesterday I commented about how nice it is out (I'm in Canada, so yesterday was our first great day of sunshine in a long while, so naturally, everyone talks about it). To which she commented, "Yes, it is very nice out, why are you inside, you should get yourself outside."

Yeah, like she should talk.

 

[Slickster]

Better yet when she bugs you about being at the pub and not having a life you respond with,

"What are you talking about? This is my life. This is where I work. See that girl over there. She's one of my ho's. That one over there too. As a matter of fact the only woman in this place that isn't working for me is you. Here's my card. Give me a call when you get sick of that dead end job you're in."

She sounds sarcastic as hell which is my kind of gal. Give it back to her as much as she gives man. Don't let her talk you down. She's testing you. The more you are able to go toe to toe with her in these verbal battles then the more she'll be attracted to you.

 

[Don Juanabbe]

Thanks for the advice bro.

Yeah, it seems that since I've come to this website I've been able to identify girls who do this stuff. Thing is, with this one, it comes way out of left field, as she's only a 7, and I'm being generous with that number perhaps. It's extremely aggressive behaviour, that doesn't really seem to fit the rest of her persona. After delivering said comment, she generally retreats to her table of friends and deliberately ignores me for the rest of the night. Then the same cycle occurs the next time I see her:

1) Says hi
2) Small talk for a couple minutes
3) neg hit
4) retreat and ignore

I've noticed other girls doing it to me lately as well - I was joking around and one other girl in there said, "And you wonder why you don't have a girl friend." just out of the blue like that.

Hmmmm. Maybe my slow transformation (and it is occurring very slowly) into intermediate DJism is sending these chicks vibes that make them feel like they need to neg me all the time.

I have to admit it though, this is a totally new experience for me, like the tables are turned or something - she's got me off balance here. I must be going through a 'negative cycle', so to speak. Oh well, live and learn I suppose.

 

[Okra]

Wait for her to become the dyke a** feminist that she probably is. Her mistake of being too ****y is a mistake. Who is she trying to be? A Man? F*** her.

 

[BrWnSugaMan]

Don Juanabbe,

I feel your pain when you talk about the neg hits coming out of no where and then no time to react because they either retreat or the conversation changes.

I usually think up of some clever come backs like a day later, but then it is too late.

 

[john]

this is NOT a neg. it's NOT a compliment.

this IS flirting though and being ****y and playful.

when she said the thing about the gf say
" Yeah I have too many girls hovering around me that it's impossible to choose just one."

dont address the statement she made logically. she didnt mean it to be logical, it was PLAYFUL FLIRTING.