Hey all,
Its been a while since the last time i was around here, but I really need to get this off me.
I'm just back from a second date (im almost 20, and it is my FIRST 2nd date... ) so, im pretty pissed off at my self cause i lacked the balls to do finish the date with a kiss ( my 1st kiss without alcoholic influence in both participants), the date was great, I took her home, walked her to her door, and she didnt say like a quick good bye, but stayed and chatted with me . So i got a little more balls and y kind of hold her with my arm around her , we keep talking and y start to play with her hair....men....the oportunity was right there, but i didnt make the move...... and then her mom came out and well.... the date ended .
Im pretty sure that she likes me (or at least is interested in me) so my doubt now is
a)the next time i go out with her , should I say something like look at her eyes, hold her hands and say"Hey, there's something I really wanted to do the other night ..." and give her the kiss? cause that's pretty much what my gut is telling me to do, like, i got to show her that I can do it and im not a AFC.
or
b) should go through out the whole 3rd date and END it with the kiss.... i just dont feel easy about this option. I feel like i left something unfinished and it needs to be fixed as soon as posible ...
if you want to, drop your opinion, I may go with my gut feelings at the end (if I dont chiken out again.... but i dont think i will let my self do that again...i would beat me up if did so)
Thanks for reading, i just really needed to let it go, and right now everyone home is asleep.
Saludos from Mexico
Its been a while since the last time i was around here, but I really need to get this off me.
I'm just back from a second date (im almost 20, and it is my FIRST 2nd date... ) so, im pretty pissed off at my self cause i lacked the balls to do finish the date with a kiss ( my 1st kiss without alcoholic influence in both participants), the date was great, I took her home, walked her to her door, and she didnt say like a quick good bye, but stayed and chatted with me . So i got a little more balls and y kind of hold her with my arm around her , we keep talking and y start to play with her hair....men....the oportunity was right there, but i didnt make the move...... and then her mom came out and well.... the date ended .
Im pretty sure that she likes me (or at least is interested in me) so my doubt now is
a)the next time i go out with her , should I say something like look at her eyes, hold her hands and say"Hey, there's something I really wanted to do the other night ..." and give her the kiss? cause that's pretty much what my gut is telling me to do, like, i got to show her that I can do it and im not a AFC.
or
b) should go through out the whole 3rd date and END it with the kiss.... i just dont feel easy about this option. I feel like i left something unfinished and it needs to be fixed as soon as posible ...
if you want to, drop your opinion, I may go with my gut feelings at the end (if I dont chiken out again.... but i dont think i will let my self do that again...i would beat me up if did so)
Thanks for reading, i just really needed to let it go, and right now everyone home is asleep.
Saludos from Mexico