I just realised how much I hate...

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Too much make-up, makes her look like a doll.

and do you hate relationships or do you hate being reminded of your ex?
 

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Probably being reminded of relationships with my ex. If I enjoyed it, she wouldn't be my ex.
 

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:up: I'm not going to assign her a number, but she is definitely cute!
 

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I've refused to be in a relationship since my last one ended in July of 2008. I've upset many girls by refusing but I've benefited greatly by making this decision.

Maybe later on in life I will reconsider.
 

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I was pretty wrecked when I made this thread :trouble:

She's British, yes. Half Irish and half English, we're both originally from LONDON BRUV :rockon:
 

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Wow, so youre actually broken up and shes still controlling you?
So you'll never be in a relationship again, just because she hurt you?
So..she now controls your mind, your heart, and your body, even apart??

Wow, thats heavy, dude.
 

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Interceptor said:
Wow, so youre actually broken up and shes still controlling you?
So you'll never be in a relationship again, just because she hurt you?
So..she now controls your mind, your heart, and your body, even apart??

Wow, thats heavy, dude.
Once an intelligent person gets burned by the hot stove they will never touch a hot stove again.

The unintelligent, the retards and the insane however enjoy receiving third degree burns over and over again because they are optimistic that next time things will be different.

A fool and his money may soon be parted but its clear for all to see a pseudo zen pimping feminist shame spouting morality crew marauder will never let go of his deep seated ego investment that relationships and marriage are the only way to lead a normal life and that there are no possible other ways in the world to live happily ever after such as say the player life of pump em and dump em.

Morality crew bozos need a relationship or a marriage because they need their surrogate mommy to tuck them in at night because their relationship with the real one was obviously lacking.

Call your mothers morality crew members.

Let them know how you feel. :yes:
 

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Moneytalks said:
She didn't hurt me, relationships are just constricting.
Oh, ok. Then knowing that , why did you agree to a relationship with her?
 

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KontrollerX said:
Once an intelligent person gets burned by the hot stove they will never touch a hot stove again.

Hmm, I know the intelligent person would just put on oven mittens.

The unintelligent, the retards and the insane however enjoy receiving third degree burns over and over again because they are optimistic that next time things will be different.


Or they're just ignorant and dont want to learn, or cant learn I think. Why would anyone think that learning how to be a better person and live a better life is bad or undesireable?


A fool and his money may soon be parted but its clear for all to see a pseudo zen pimping feminist shame spouting morality crew marauder will never let go of his deep seated ego investment that relationships and marriage are the only way to lead a normal life and that there are no possible other ways in the world to live happily ever after such as say the player life of pump em and dump em.

Good grief! What kind of person is that? Have you seen such a person??
How close minded is that??!



Morality crew bozos need a relationship or a marriage because they need their surrogate mommy to tuck them in at night because their relationship with the real one was obviously lacking.

Hmm, Im not understanding what Morality has to do with a person who needs a 'surrogate mommy'.




Call your mothers morality crew members.

Is this in Ebonics or something? Can you translate this please?

Let them know how you feel.

I feel pretty good right now. How about you?

:yes:
:D :)
 

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Here's how your reply would've been less assh0lish interceptor.

And less openly agenda driven...

Example of a good Interceptor response to the topic take 1:

"I logged into my photobucket account after a long time and found pictures of my ex. It made the idea that I hate relationships really sink in."

Yeah relationships can be tough but thats why as men our jobs are to persevere!

We take the hits that life gives us and we pick ourselves up, dust ourselves off and we keep on going!

I mean think about it.

You're a young guy, you look in pretty good condition, there will be plenty of new and better opportunities for you just around the corner.

Don't give up on relationships yet, you are just getting started!

[/end fake interceptor post that was better than the real one

The lesson to be taken from this?

Positivity pimp interceptor is better than..."Wow, thats heavy, dude"...condescending assh0le interceptor who tries to make a point via the mockery of feminist shaming response. :yes:

Also the kid just said the picture made him hate relationships and you jump to all these wild conclusions that she's still controlling him, hurt him deeply, and also controls his heart, mind and body?

WTF man???

When we all actually got his real answer he only said he hated them because they could be constricting.

He hated them because they took his freedom away but your morality crew relationship agenda feminist mindset was hitting him with all sorts of shaming culminating in the mockery of "thats deep man" after your string of wild accusations.
 

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KontrollerX said:
Here's how your reply would've been less assh0lish interceptor.

And less openly agenda driven...

Maybe the OP should have used a different term than "HATE"?? I didnt use that term, he did. So I took it that only if he experienced EXTREME pain could he look upon his former relationship in that kind of light. My agenda is to make Men THINK, and Be AWARE. Be aware of what we are saying, choosing, doing, thinking AND what kind of beliefs we are spreading to other men who may be more naive and impressionable, and susceptible to following poor role models. In addition, to heloping men make their own decisions and QUESTION ACTIVELY Why they are choosing what they are choosing. Does that clear this up for you?


Example of a good Interceptor response to the topic take 1:

"I logged into my photobucket account after a long time and found pictures of my ex. It made the idea that I hate relationships really sink in."

Yeah relationships can be tough but thats why as men our jobs are to persevere!

We take the hits that life gives us and we pick ourselves up, dust ourselves off and we keep on going!

I mean think about it.

You're a young guy, you look in pretty good condition, there will be plenty of new and better opportunities for you just around the corner.

Don't give up on relationships yet, you are just getting started!

[/end fake interceptor post that was better than the real one

The lesson to be taken from this?

Im not sure, but it looks like youre saying that MORALLY, I should have taken the MORAL HIGH ROUTE and posted like you, but youre against MORALITY. Huh..thats funny. Youre anti Morality, you hate me for my morality, yet you seem to be implying I should have approached this in a moral fashion. Not that I wasnt anyway, but I cant seem to reconcile your statement now.
Positivity pimp interceptor is better than..."Wow, thats heavy, dude"...condescending assh0le interceptor who tries to make a point via the mockery of feminist shaming response. :yes:

First of all, the 'mockery' was a wake up call. To make him take a good hard deep look at himself and see his wording,and what he's presenting to the forum. Basically "I HATE relationships." and one can only wonder...WHY?
So I put across some ideas that may have happened, in order to get him to question HIS reaction. Thats how I work. I try to make one QUESTION one's own beliefs. So yes, I DO challenge them. If it came across as too hard, then I over estimated this man's ability to handle pressure. That can be a mistake though. Its possible it happened here. Although I find it strange you are 'defending' him?? Not particularly characteristic of you.


Also the kid just said the picture made him hate relationships and you jump to all these wild conclusions that she's still controlling him, hurt him deeply, and also controls his heart, mind and body?

Yeah, because of his use of the very powerful word "HATE". From just a picture. A picture!
It was a method of getting him to LOOK at his past experience and SEE firsthand how HE is reacting and by his way of expressing it in this post.
He didnt elaborate further, other than he felt that relationships were 'constricting'. Yet, having that knowledge he was in one anyway!!



WTF man???

When we all actually got his real answer he only said he hated them because they could be constricting.


Understood...NOW. But when you see man after man after man reacting unconsiously, they all start to seem like theyre all brainwashed, zombies acting in a checked out manner. I was wondering if he was , or was he aware of his outlook.


He hated them because they took his freedom away

Uh, excuse me?? How do you know? and WHO is 'they'? And if he had a previous relationship and it too was constricting, WHAT made him want to be in one with this woman knowing this information???
Are you saying he was abducted and forced into this relatonship??
Dude, NOW who's making wild assumptions???
Please.



but your morality crew relationship agenda feminist mindset

This is actually funny to me. Im fascinated by how you project what you hate onto me. Interesting.
Oh, BTW, you're making incorrect assumptions about me, just so you know. I have to shake my head in disbelief at that one.
But I do find it pretty humourous though.


was hitting him with all sorts of shaming culminating in the mockery of "thats deep man" after your string of wild accusations.

I admit it was to get a reaction. He sounded like every single guy who blames women and LTRs because they dont know how to handle being in a relationship, and they get angry and frustrated at an intangible inanimate object like a relationship instead of examining who they are with, what they want, and what they will and wont tolerate from a partner. If they dont know that, theyre making a mistake in blaming women and something like a relationship for their woes.
If you dont want to be in an LTR, then dont be in one. But do so for the best possible reasons. THATS ALL Im trying to get across. And if you do want an LTR then go in with the best information and skills to handle it. If youre not ready, then, you may want to examine why, and what do you want from a relationship, and WHY DO you want a relationship in the first place?
TOO many guys get into relationships when they dont REALLY WANT ONE!
This has to stop.

If you DO want one, you MUST KNOW WHY.

And if you bash LTRs , then have at least a decent, intelligent and beneficial reason for it. Not everyone will agree with it, but if it truly makes your life better and happier, then no one has the right to stop you. But be careful of spreading propaganda and mind control on others for your personal choices.


Men HAVE to be prepared and informed, and KNOW what they want.
I dont give a fvck if you pump em and dump em, what I want to get across is how men can be strong, and make the BEST most informed decisions based on their internal strength, not because of some paranoia or irrational fear.
Have a great night.
 

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You guys have got it WAY wrong. I broke up with her, she didn't break up with me.

She did not hurt me.
I am not getting over her, I am over her.

It just so happens that I just realised how much I hate relationships. I was a little drunk when I posted this thread.

Ya dig, dawg? :up:
 

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Moneytalks said:
You guys have got it WAY wrong. I broke up with her, she didn't break up with me.


This appears like youre implying you had self control. Which is good.
But you dont elaborate on the circumstances though.



She did not hurt me.

That is good news.

I am not getting over her, I am over her.

This is confusing since you had such a strong reaction. It takes time to get over a past partner and be able to freely move forward.

It just so happens that I just realised how much I hate relationships.

The issue I take with this is that you express this but you neglect to elaborate on it.
Thus, by leaving this gap, other people arent sure what to do about it. SInce this is a forum most men use to gain knowledge and wisdom to help them deal with these kinds of issues, it makes it difficult for them to navigate and make the best possible decisions without the necessary information.
Unfortunately, your post just then comes across essentially as "All women are b*tches, and hos!!"
And when that dynamic happens, whether its intentional or not on your part, you set the stage for a lot of distortions and not so beneficial perceptions.
And many men will then make some conclusions based on these kinds of things that will only end up biting them in the ass in the long run.


I was a little drunk when I posted this thread.

Well, this is what occured.Cant change the past.
And we all have to reexamine this later and see if it does serve us best and our fellow man.



Ya dig, dawg? :up:
Good luck to you.
 

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KontrollerX said:
Here's how your reply would've been less assh0lish interceptor.

And less openly agenda driven...

Example of a good Interceptor response to the topic take 1:

"I logged into my photobucket account after a long time and found pictures of my ex. It made the idea that I hate relationships really sink in."

Yeah relationships can be tough but thats why as men our jobs are to persevere!

We take the hits that life gives us and we pick ourselves up, dust ourselves off and we keep on going!

I mean think about it.

You're a young guy, you look in pretty good condition, there will be plenty of new and better opportunities for you just around the corner.

Don't give up on relationships yet, you are just getting started!

[/end fake interceptor post that was better than the real one

The lesson to be taken from this?

Positivity pimp interceptor is better than..."Wow, thats heavy, dude"...condescending assh0le interceptor who tries to make a point via the mockery of feminist shaming response. :yes:

Also the kid just said the picture made him hate relationships and you jump to all these wild conclusions that she's still controlling him, hurt him deeply, and also controls his heart, mind and body?

WTF man???

When we all actually got his real answer he only said he hated them because they could be constricting.

He hated them because they took his freedom away but your morality crew relationship agenda feminist mindset was hitting him with all sorts of shaming culminating in the mockery of "thats deep man" after your string of wild accusations.

Interesting... I think KX's real problem is that he sees the world so negatively that any positivity goes against his beliefs. Like putting a cross in front of Draculas face, positivity forces KX to react.


His dislike of Interceptor, the morality crew and positivity pimps etc are only symptoms of his own internal struggles. I'm sure KX will see things differently in time. :)
 

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She's cute man,

I mean she isn't a 10 by any standard, but definitely cute, I hate assigning numbers to women to begin with anyway, it just seems to arbitrary, plus everyone has different tastes so it's difficult to judge someone on a shearly numerical scale.

Don't hate relationships, relationships have their ups and downs, I'm sure you've seen/heard about eternal sunshine of the spotless mind.

The whole premise of the movie is that he wants he memories of his ex girlfriend erased and half way through the procedure he realizes that it's the memories and experiences that have defined him as a person.

-Kevin
 
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