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backbreaker

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I don't read alot of PUA type books. This forum is pretty much it for me. But, there was one book I read before I came here, which was probably the best book on women I had ever read, by a cat named authur gordon. how to get girls was the name of the book. Now, most of the info in his book can be found here. But there is one thing that he said, that stuck with me and I have found to be true to the core that doesn't get any pub. There are three, distinct type of women. You have a freak, you have a hoe, and you have a good girl. NO woman is EVER 100% of any type, but most are predominately one type. Freaks you play with, hoes you pay with, but good girls you stay with.


The majority of the this boards problems, imho, stem from not being able to separate the three women. None of them are BAD, all have their place, even the woman who wants you for your money. But the key is first figuring out what type of woman you have on your hands. Too many guys here, mistake some good sex and that new rush feeling you get for a good girl when you really have a stone cold freak who likes the rush of a new relationship, then get butthurt when she does what she has always done.

You game all three differently.


Anyway I say that to say, you take a successful man, that's exactly what a hoe wants lol. She wants the money. But a freak, probably wouldn't be as inclined to play ball, she doesn't give a damn how successful you are, that's not what she is out for. Rock her world, make her feel alot of feelings, she wants the rush. This is the one, the freak, that probalby would dart the other way. In part becuase you make her feel bad, in part becuase well you just don't do it for her. A good girl, it would help, but it's not the end of the world. But like I said no girl is all three. My fiancee for instance is probably, 85% good girl, 15% hoe llol. She likes money more than she would ever admit, but she isn't out for it if that makes sense, though the hoe in her would never let her settle down with a guy who could not take care of her, that much I am sure of. My oneitis that brought me here, is probably 85% hoe, 15% good girl. She had some good girl qualities, she would nt cheat under any circumstances, because she knew that would **** up the money lol. Her Best friend the girl that introduced me to her, was probably 98% freak, 2% hoe. My first real GF as a man was probably 40% good girl, 50% hoe and 10% freak. Heather, the girl I was talking about earlier was probably 95% good girl, 5% freak.

You can present the same scenario to all three, and you will get three different responses depending on the type of girl it is. A girl that is majority hoe she finds out you have money, she figures "game time!". A girl that is majority freak yo tell she has money she probably thinks "okay... why do I care" or "so can we **** in your benz?" A girl that is majority good girl would think "well at least I know we can have a stable feature and he can provide for his family"
 

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I’m with Backbraker and Jophil28 on this one, some girls considering themselves lower status will bail on you. I think because they assume you will trade up at some stage. Too often we assume that the girl is super confident, many of them are not confident at all and so they sometimes date down.

A girl split with me once after she said, “I just don’t feel I am good looking enough for you.”

It is exactly the same situation where a guy (most of us) will self-disqualify ourselves if we think the girl is just too smoking hot and we will ultimately not be able to hold her.

I was thinking about rejection the other day, and of course nobody likes this. But as guys we do a huge amount of the rejecting mainly along looks lines. We rejected more girls through a 10 minute visual filter than the number girls that will ever reject us in a lifetime.

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I agree with OP, but I think most guys are fairly unlikely to be overqualified for any specific girl and shouldn't worry about it.

It's like having a shlong that's too long. Is it possible? Yes. Is it likely? Not especially.
 

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backbreaker said:
Then it hit me like a ton of bricks. Why I was thinking of this I have no idea but I did . you can be overqualified for a woman. She might not come out and say it, but she may feel that she can't keep you around becuase someone better might come along and take you, so why bother.
This is where good old qualification comes into play. You've got to make her feel like she won you over and is "worthy". Also, doing so creates massive investment on her part when done correctly.
 
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