"i just dont like u like that"

[Ronny_Neumonic II]

Originally posted by -XL-
that sounds like the one for me since ive already agreed to go with her lol..thanx

omg omg omg NO!


YOU goddamn AFC. Go to the bible NOW and read everything by POOK as a starter. Then read Anthony's (MoAF) post on being a MAN OF ACTION. My God I implore everyone to stop replying to this guy, because our minds are wasted on him. We tell him something and he just wants to go against it and do his own thing anyway. He's not a man, he's a chump...who is probably about to look stupid cause of a girl

 

[-XL-]

Originally posted by Ronny_Neumonic II
omg omg omg NO!


YOU goddamn AFC. Go to the bible NOW and read everything by POOK as a starter. Then read Anthony's (MoAF) post on being a MAN OF ACTION. My God I implore everyone to stop replying to this guy, because our minds are wasted on him. We tell him something and he just wants to go against it and do his own thing anyway. He's not a man, he's a chump...who is probably about to look stupid cause of a girl

dude wtf if u dont have anything to help me then get the fvck out of my thread right now im sick of ur bullshyt so just dont read anything i post ever again if it makes u that mad..

 

[Escalade]

Ronny is right though, eventhough he should of been negative about it. IMO your throwing this away, you made one good move but unless you know for sure she wants to be more than friends then why the fvck are you going on dates with her. She's probably using you if thats the case.

 

[Ded_Skin_Mask13]

yeah man you've got to be like smart and stuff, because she could wisen up and drop your ass like its on fire.

 

[maosrdbf]

I don't agree with your notion either XL.

Think about it for a second:

You want to go out with her as more than a friend, so what is the point of going out with her when its understood that it's strictly based on a friendship and nothing more?

Lay it to her straight, we date or we're done.

 

[MoAF]

So, XL, you've got the balls to put up with the F word [friends, for those keeping score] for the few minutes it'll take you to re-evaluate your relationship with this random hottie? I'm glad.

Heres the deal, you need to throw off her bytch shield. This is very easily accomplished, call her up before you date, chitty chat for like 2 min, about basic garbage, tell her you're a lil busy today and might be a few min late to your get-together. as you hang up the phone "Alrite I should get going... see you later... make sure and dress sexy <click>" dont wait for her response, just hang up. If she calls you back, don't answer.

Dress sexy, classic pre-date stuff, get ready to confuse the hell outa this girl.

Show up 5 minutes late. When she gets there exchange pleasantries then "Wait... I thought I told you to dress sexy?" [this should only be said if she actually did dress sexy]. "Anyways... you'll never guess what happend not 2 hrs ago! <devulge into a story, even if its a lie, taht is fun and entertaining>"

Blablalblablalbalblalblablab keep talking, yadayadayadayada, fun fun, alkjgakghahgdjkadlfjlakjfga

Use kino, but keep it VERY light... just simple brushes of the arms/hands against hers, sparingly. Use C+F, shes one of your buddies, make fun of her.

Ok, you are looking for signs of the bytch shield being broken, you will just feel it when its gone, but somethings to look for:

She kino's you
She smiles for no reason
She holds eyecontact [for more than a few seconds]
She acts defensive when you C+F

Once the barriers gone, treat it like a normal date, regular kino, kiss close and all... with one little exception: KISS HER BEFORE THE END OF THE NIGHT! After telling a joke, or holding eyecontact, or a sly smile, just lean in and kiss her. Soft, short, just lips [no tongue], and then lean back with a shocked look on your face/tincy grin. If she looks shocked/embarissed/happy/confused/unsure LEAN IN AND KISS HER AGAIN. If she looks angry/slaps you, hey, at leased you tried.

The reason you dont wait till teh end of the night is because @ the end of the night women naturally plug their bytch shields back in [on friendly gettogethers] to keep themselves from doing things they were not planning on before the date.