I just don't get it

[Popwer]

Hi guys been lurking for a while and finally decided to get my ass in gear and created an account. I'm not really here for advice, but always enjoy learning from other peoples experiences. I'm by no means a DJ although I wouldn't call myself an AFC. I've always done alright with the ladies since I am not exactly shy about approaching them, my father more or less raised me by the motto: If you want something go for it. As a result of this I am a rather opinionated individual and can sometimes come across as a little arrogant. I'm hoping to continue learning from these forums.

Anyway I came across a post on the net that I wanted to share with you guys.

I HAD sex with two guys and one of them decided to make a video of it. He then sent it to my fiancé.

I am 24. I was visiting friends and family back in my old home town and I bumped into an old friend.

We went for a drink, then a meal and got talking about old times. I had never had sex with him but always regretted it because I had a feeling he would be really good in bed.

I could tell by the way he looked at me that he fancied me so I propositioned him - we'd had a lot of alcohol by this time and that always makes me feel horny. I suggested we spent the night in a hotel. I said I would ring my aunt and tell her I was staying over with a girlfriend.

He liked the idea and agreed on condition another friend of his could join us.

I was pretty out of it and I think I would have agreed to anything. I suppose I was also missing my fiancé back in Birmingham.

He rang his friend and told him there was something good on and we met up at a hotel. I did feel a bit guilty about my fiancé back home but I was too drunk to think straight and put it out of my mind.

It went OK although it was a bit weird. Only afterwards did I realise the other guy had made a video but I was beginning to feel hung-over and was in no state to do much about it.

I hoped I'd hear no more about it but a few days after I got back the link arrived in the inbox of the laptop I share with my fiancé. I think the guy had just sent it for a laugh but my fiancé opened it and threw a fit.

He said he was disgusted and never wants to see me again. It was his flat so I'm now homeless. I'm dreading the idea my family might get to see it.

She received the following response

Talk to your old friend and get him to explain to his mate how much misery he has caused. He is the best person to put pressure on him not to pass this around any further.

Once stuff is up on the internet it can be near impossible to delete it, though if he's put it on a site like YouTube or Facebook you should be able to get it taken down as pornographic.

If your fiancé took such a hard line so instantly, then it could be his love was always very conditional, but if you know your love for one another has been very strong, he may have calmed down now and be willing to allow you this one (though mega) mistake.

Either way, do learn from this. Getting drunk and having sex with someone you know nothing about is way too risky. It could have been a lot worse than this even.

The post itself was not a surprise to me. However the response did through me suggesting that the fiance didn't love here all that much because he tossed her after he found out is shocking to me.

What are your thoughts on this guys?

 

[Borknagar]

If he didn't dump her useless ass he would have been pathetic. Never let a ***** get away with this. In fact if I were him I would **** someone sle, preferably, someone she knows, and video tape it and send it to her. She deserves it.

 

[sexysuave]

LOL,

first of all, the original story sounds kinda made up to me. I mean, it's possible that it happened. It just seems that this girl was too eager to get this guy to just do her. She "propositioned" him, lol, common, at least she could have acted interested and sent off mating signals, but her actually propositioning him "oh let's go to a hotel and please f*ck me", seems a little far fetched to me. I could be wrong, but usually even the best of players would have to make the move in this situation. Her making one like that just makes her a mega slvt, which of course, is possible .

Anyway, at the response, dont' even sweat it man. Sure it's beyond stupid, and the guy did the right thing if this story is true. NEVER, EVER, EVER stay with a girl who cheats on you. this chick banged TWO GUYS on camera!! LOL common now, you would have to be a mega chump to stay with her. I don't care if she is Jessica Alba in her prime, her ass is getting dumped!! lol

 

[Ease]

The post itself was not a surprise to me. However the response did through me suggesting that the fiance didn't love here all that much because he tossed her after he found out is shocking to me.

What are your thoughts on this guys?

Those are the words of a brainless old feminist woman, that does not understand the way life works. No matter how stupid she is, even she herself would be ashamed of her words after considering what she said.

You receive a video of your soon-to-be wife getting double penetrated by 2 guys, and you continue to forgive and marry her. If there really are guys like this in the world, they would have been killed by natural selection if we were in the wild.

 

[loveshogun]

"Trolololololol."

The response is called "head-in-ass" syndrome. Incurable, and ultimately fatal.

If your grammar wasn't so good, I'd call you a troll. There's no need to discuss the sociopathic post of some anonymous guy from a different message board on this one.

Unless, of course, YOU'RE the fiance. In which case, those guys did you a favor.

 

[Popwer]

"Trolololololol."

The response is called "head-in-ass" syndrome. Incurable, and ultimately fatal.

If your grammar wasn't so good, I'd call you a troll. There's no need to discuss the sociopathic post of some anonymous guy from a different message board on this one.

Unless, of course, YOU'RE the fiance. In which case, those guys did you a favor.

Evening guys

I assure you loveshogun I'm no troll, and as someone else suggested I'm not the fiance either. I just stumbled across this last night while surfing the net, it wasn't the story itself that made me post this but rather the twisted response she got. I dug into it a little more and found out that the guy she was cheating with deliberately exposed her to the fiance. :woo:

After she found out what he did, she threatened to have him kneecapped and that she knew plenty of people back in Liverpool (This is where the incident to place) that would gladly do this for her if she asked them.

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=133668381&p=665187751&viewfull=1#post665187751

Turns out this was some big story on the bodybuilding.com forums a few months back.

 

[Voice]

Where can I see this video?