I hurt some girl I love by being insecure and needy.

[mdj]

Hello guys, I am not really sure if this is the right place to post such thing, this is my first post, so bear with me. thank you in advance.
I'm a 20 years old male, I've been in a LTR with a girl, we had a good connection online through whatsapp and facebook.
As a jealous man, I did the most stupid thing, I made a fake account to see if she's loyal. she ended up knowing it, now I lost the girl, she was hurt now she doesn't want to talk with me.
I tried the no contact challenge, but it only make it worst.
I want to go to her college so we can talk, but I am afraid I will only make things worst, so yeah you got me guys, I want my ex back.
I don't want this to end here. thank you.

 

[mdj]

Yes She was, she actually told me everything I wanted to hear, then she changed the way she talks, like, wait, please stop this game, I know who you are. then she sent me a message on my other account, to tell me how childish it was, man I feel so guilty, I ****ed up.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

You ever meet her in real life?

 

[mdj]

You ever meet her in real life?

Yes man I did. twice!

 

[mdj]

yeah you did. Just back way off, when in doubt do absolutely nothing.

I really don't know,

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Yes man I did. twice!

Your posts make me skeptical

Two times is not enough to really know someone that well. Just don't care by forcing yourself to think about other things and actually doing other things too.

 

[Tomlin6]

You did something wrong, so you should apologize if you haven't already and tell her why you felt the way you did. If you don't know, start with that before trying to date women.

 

[mdj]

You did something wrong, so you should apologize if you haven't already and tell her why you felt the way you did. If you don't know, start with that before trying to date women.

Yes, exactly, I'm not thinking about dating someone right now, but I want to talk to her, I know she isn't going to stop falling for me right away So I have my chance to take this to a serious level..
I just don't know, I don't feel like explaining myself, cause girls don't read long texts after they got their heart broken.

 

[C00lAF]

Yes man I did. twice!

Oh G.....man come on you are 20 years old now...did u kiss her atleast?if not,dafuq are you so attached to then?

 

[mdj]

Oh G.....man come on you are 20 years old now...did u kiss her atleast?if not,dafuq are you so attached to then?

we kissed in the second date

 

[Roober]

In the words of someone here... you dont mean anything to her until you have had sex...

You went from nothing to whatever is less than that...

Chalk it up as a learning experience...

 

[AlphaNate]

No one here is going to give you the answer you're looking for, since you have expectations of what you want to happen.

Learn from it, move on.

 

[Glassguy]

This post has troll written all over it.

 

[nikkisixx]

enough about one-on-one women love every girls type: literally

 

[Alvafe]

she is not you EX, she is a girl who you meet online(not a good start) and freaked her out with this kinda of thing, you both had nothing and you make this much effort to see if she is cheating you (wonder how any of this could be)there was nothing to it, nothing

learn from this and go out, meet REAL woman close to you, 20 years you should be in college studing and having fun when possible, serious that much effort from a girl you don't even know, from what any of us would know could ahve a real BF close to her and you was just for validation purpose

I also ask since you find this forum and read the DJ bible, learn from it, take advantage youa re still young enough to learn it fast and put it to use as soon as possible

 

[RangerMIke]

Your problem isn't what you did, it's taht you cared too much to even consider doing it. My advice to you is go date as many girls as you can and let them worry about you. When you lock into of chick like this you become a weak @ss b!tch.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Yes man I did. twice!

Met her twice and now you want to get your "ex" back.

Sorry but it's not happening. She's met you twice. And in those two meetings, you've already shown some sketchy characteristics.

Accept it as a lesson learned and move on. Not what you wanted to hear, but life's just tough sometimes.

Best thing to do would be to try meeting other girls. Any way, any how. This one's over.

 

[bigneil]

Hello guys, I am not really sure if this is the right place to post such thing, this is my first post, so bear with me. thank you in advance.
I'm a 20 years old male, I've been in a LTR with a girl, we had a good connection online through whatsapp and facebook.
As a jealous man, I did the most stupid thing, I made a fake account to see if she's loyal. she ended up knowing it, now I lost the girl, she was hurt now she doesn't want to talk with me.
I tried the no contact challenge, but it only make it worst.
I want to go to her college so we can talk, but I am afraid I will only make things worst, so yeah you got me guys, I want my ex back.
I don't want this to end here. thank you.

You don't want what to end here?

Actually, it hasn't ended - your stalking her that is.

If you only saw her twice and only kissed her once this is not a Long Term Relationship. Did you mean Long Distance Relationship?

How exactly can a girl you've never really dated be loyal?? This takes expecting a commitment to a new level.

Also, it's "make it worse", not worst.

 

[marmel75]

Hello guys, I am not really sure if this is the right place to post such thing, this is my first post, so bear with me. thank you in advance.
I'm a 20 years old male, I've been in a LTR with a girl, we had a good connection online through whatsapp and facebook.
As a jealous man, I did the most stupid thing, I made a fake account to see if she's loyal. she ended up knowing it, now I lost the girl, she was hurt now she doesn't want to talk with me.
I tried the no contact challenge, but it only make it worst.
I want to go to her college so we can talk, but I am afraid I will only make things worst, so yeah you got me guys, I want my ex back.
I don't want this to end here. thank you.

An online relationship?? Give me a break dude.

 

[mdj]

An online relationship?? Give me a break dude.

Not really online, but nevermind, It's over!