I hope my friends don't tell

[Viper423]

Ok, so me and this girl messed around a few times and had sex, well she told me that I had better not tell a soul, not even my friends what we did. Well, I went about 2 months without saying a word, and last night I told one of my good friends about us and told him not to tell anyone or else I would be in deep ****. Well, the next day another one of my friends comes up to me and congradulates me for fvcking this girl. I let them both know that I was pissed off and they both swore that they wouldn't tell anyone. Well, all of us go to a very small school including this girl, and I'm afraid some how it will come around and they will open their mouths and it will get back to this girl. It's been stressing me out so much lately. I won't be at school the first 2 days after Thanksgiving break so I won't be able to "monitor" my friends, and I'm afraid when I get back on Wednesday it's gonna be judgement day for me, cause I just have a bad feeling they won't keep their mouths shut. The only thing that gives me hope is that I have some dirt on both of them with a totally different girl from our school. They had a threesome with another girl from our school, and one of my friends said that they wouldn't tell about me because I know about what both of them did. So, should I be worrying so much?

 

[whoa]

Yes, you should be. why can't you keep your mouth shut? its not that hard.

 

[Julian]

Dont worry about it man if she didnt want people to know she would have never let you penetrate her snatchh

 

[Viper423]

Well, they kind of knew that something was going between us anyways, they just didn't know how much. Plus my same friend found her bellybutton ring in my car before I told him.

 

[Gold Heart]

Don't stress the past or the future. Just handle the very present moment.

Let it be a lesson for later on: when it's a secret, let it remain a secret.

 

[Viper423]

Well, I am preparing for the worse. I wish I could go back in time so I wouldn't have told my friends, but I can't. I worry about everything anyways so this is just stressing me out so bad, especially since I won't be at school the first 2 days after the break. I'm hoping they won't say anything since I've got dirt on them too.

 

[drixsa]

why do you care if anyone finds out?

u want this girl again, huh?

obviously if your friends tell what you did then u have bigger problems then that b/c your friends suck and are useless

what kinda dudes get in a 3some with 2 guys involved?

there really are weird people out there

 

[McKindley]

Why didn't she want anyone to know?

BTW, its spelled "judgment" not "judgement."

 

[Viper423]

I don't know why, I'm guessing because she didn't want more drama going around a small school. The thing is that I promised her I wouldn't tell and I did. The reason I won't be at school Monday and Tuesday is because I'm on college baseball recruiting trips out of state, and all I can think about is if my friends can keep their mouths shut, especially while I'm gone.

 

[ABM]

Those who can't keep their mouths shut, need it done for them. Beat some ass if they're telling your shlt. What kind of friends do that?

 

[x X x Lifestyle]

At least you've learned some valuable lessons from this. What are they?

1. If something is meant to be kept secret, keep it secret.

2. No matter how close your friends are, 85% of teenagers are AFC, and their lives revolve around drama. There is always a risk.

3. These two guys are obviously c*ck-smearing fiends if they're doubleteaming chicks. I mean, come on. I'm down with threesomes, but only of the mass female on me variety. Never the other way around.

 

[drixsa]

Originally posted by McKindley
BTW, its spelled "judgment" not "judgement."

wow a spelling nazi in the HS forum looks as if your work is cut out for you

 

[Viper423]

Oh yeah, I fully intend on beating both their asses if they tell. But what's worse is that if this girl finds out that I told them, she's never gonna talk to me again, and we sit face to face in study hall, and have every class together in a class of 19, and I don't know if I could handle that.

 

[McKindley]

It sounds to me like she's a drama queen (she doesn't want anyone to know ya'll banged because it'd cause more drama, as you said.) The average non-drama person doesn't tend to have much drama in their lives. When they do, it is more than likely that someone that IS a drama queen put it there.

Its stupid for her to expect a guy not to tell his guy friends that he banged a chick. She KNOWS you're bound to tell SOMEone, so don't sweat it that much.

Chances are she WANTS you to tell your friends and let it get around. Otherwise she wouldn't have told you not to tell them. Everyone knows that trick.

Finally, she asked you not to tell and you told. If your friends tell you can't be any more mad at them than you are at yourself.

 

[Viper423]

Believe me, I'm mad enough at myself as it is, but you made some good points that take away a little stress.

 

[Viper423]

First day of school since I fvcked up is tomorrow and i won't be there

 

[Viper423]

Ok, I'm going home tomorrow but won't be back to school till Wednesday. I talked to one of my friends online from school today, one that doesn't know my secret and is also friends with this girl, and we had a normal conversation. Just asked him how school was today and he said not too bad, so I'm pretty sure none of the guys spilled the beans or else he would have said something about it to me. By the way, OT...I was offered a baseball scholarship by OSU, only a partial one, but still pretty hefty. Not sure if I'm gonna take it or not

 

[LikRetsam]

Hey viper, please excuse my french but get your head out of your ass. If they tell it's your fault. Not theirs. And how can you b!tch at them or beat the sh!t out of them for the same thing you did!?!?!