i hooked up with this beauty yesterday but i still aint happy? I want to f***

[hb]

yesterday, this girl invited me to the movies, she said that her friends would be coming.... So i went and when i got there noone was there except for her..... so we bought the tickets and went in.
10 minutes into the movie, i ASKED her for a kiss. she told me "you cant ask for a kiss." So i "took" a kiss. Now we were making out....... and i had my hands on her hips.....so i slowly and gently, in a rythmn started moving them up from her hips, into her shirt and then i touched her tits..... At first she was ok with it and then she stopped me the second time...........
so i kissing on her whisperin in her ear, tellin her "i want you to come over my crib after the movie. At first she was hesistant, she said no, what if your parents go over while we're there alone, and her mom knows my mom. So i reassured her that noone would be there, so she said ok but i had to promise not to tell anyone. At this point i knew that she was a horny little chick and i was probably gonna end up bangin her. Then she changes her mind, she said she can't. So now i got her in a situation where shes not sure if she should go or not and in the end she didn't come over.

i remmember a time in my life when I wouldve felt proud because i hooked up with a girl, but that **** doesnt turn me on. Now I was soooo close to gettin her to come over but i failed.
What would you guys do in a situation like that? what would you tell her?

im maaad

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

Patience, grasshopper.

 

[numlock]

i think the tit grabbing thing may have been too much

 

[InLawsHateMe]

Should of worked on her right thur in the movies. *shrugs*

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Stop asking and telling her everything that you want. Asking her for a kiss, bad... Telling her that you want to take her home after the movie, even worse.

Consider this, whenever you give a woman time to change her mind, she probably will!!! You got by with the kiss but giving her time to consider going home with you was not a good move. Leaving for your house in the middle of the movie is very spontaneous and women enjoy that (remember, she said that you shouldn't ask for a kiss).

Start being a bit more forceful and the chances of her following her emotions will be higher than if you give her a chance to reconsider your intentions.

 

[chlywly]

Dunno about the tit grabbing and asking for a kiss was extremely lame.

 

[dionysius_d]

lol this thread is funny, but good!

It would work better if u just watched the movie then made out someplace else like your or her house.. then when you're in the middle of it, what the hell u can go further.

You can only go so far in a movie theatre.. and scaring her with 'come over to my crib' ain't gonna work.

 

[hb]

i asked for the kiss because i dont wanna overstep my boundries, at first i wasnt 100% sure if she was feeling me or not.
so i asked her for a kiss, to make sure.............. then after i knew she was feeling me, i just did what i wanted.
I talked to her on the phone today and she said "sorry i didn't come over yesterday, i just didn't feel comfortable going over your house, i still didn't even go over my boyfriends house and we've been together for 8 months"

 

[princelydeeds]

Women always wanna act innocent. They want to believe things "just happened." Women are stupid remeber that. I had a chick, I was about to bone a few weeks ago ask me "why do guys always just have condoms, what do you do carry them all the time?" As simple and naive as that question sounds, in this chicks head she thinks that when she gets laid "it just happened." In my mind I knew from the moment I laid eyes on her that I wanted to fvck her.

Never ask for a kiss, and Never ask a girl to come over specifically for sex. If she comes over your house, she wants you to believe shes just coming over, but not coming over to have sex. If the sex goes down she wants to believe that "It just happened." So the point is that even though you both know you're gonna fvck when you get to your house, she wants to act like it was never on her mind or planned. I think its part of the antislut defense.

Now if you've been banging the broad for a while and shes comfortable with the whole sex thing then by all means ask her to come over. But patience is a virtue don't be satisfied until you get what you want. Keep playing the game and evetually you will get what you want.

 

[bugsquish]

Dingdong, did I hear "boyfriend"?

But yea, get her over to hang out not just to have sex. Or so she thinks

 

[becker]

Originally posted by princelydeeds
Women always wanna act innocent. They want to believe things "just happened." Women are stupid remeber that. I had a chick, I was about to bone a few weeks ago ask me "why do guys always just have condoms, what do you do carry them all the time?" As simple and naive as that question sounds, in this chicks head she thinks that when she gets laid "it just happened." In my mind I knew from the moment I laid eyes on her that I wanted to fvck her.

Never ask for a kiss, and Never ask a girl to come over specifically for sex. If she comes over your house, she wants you to believe shes just coming over, but not coming over to have sex. If the sex goes down she wants to believe that "It just happened." So the point is that even though you both know you're gonna fvck when you get to your house, she wants to act like it was never on her mind or planned. I think its part of the antislut defense.

Now if you've been banging the broad for a while and shes comfortable with the whole sex thing then by all means ask her to come over. But patience is a virtue don't be satisfied until you get what you want. Keep playing the game and evetually you will get what you want.

Great point, and I agree, that most women will never say they want something like sex, because of the social stigma attached to it. Too bad, they need to eliminate that stigma.

Key is, you have to be able to take signals and act on those. There is rarely an explicit invitation from a woman to do anything that might make her seem overly aggressive (with exceptions, of course, such as black women, who seem more aggressive by nature, I don't know, I never dated one, but I've seen one in action).

 

[Frankfurter]

Every chick secretely fantasizes about a guy taking advantage of her -- having his way with her. It's the whole alpha-male dominance sh!t she's attracted to. It's hard-wired in that tight body of hers.

So, take charge! She wants to feel innocent and helpless. Don't ask for permission. Just go for it. She'll feel like less of a slut. She'll see you as more of a man. If she truly isn't up for it, respect her decision and play it cool. Don't get all huffy.

In the end, you'll be able to say to yourself "at least I gave it a shot. I'm not left wondering..."