I have to call this girl for the first time tonight...

[El Duderino]

to set up a date for tomorrow...we've only spoken online for a bit on two separate occasions and have never met eachother but I asked her on a date monday and she agreed...she gave me her number when I asked for it to finish making plans later

I know the convo shouldn't be that long but what else should I say besides confirming the time and place...?

 

[oakraiderz2]

Ask her how her weekends been, how shes doin, what shes doin and stuff like that. THen set everything up and say you gotta take a shower or something.

 

[imnexthere]

Hey man this is THE post on how to set up the first date over the phone. I used it and it worked very well.
read it..

 

[buckwheat18]

Do you know what she looks like?...The reason being is she could be really ugly or even a middled age dude thats a perv. I don't meet people on computers like that though. Good luck with it

 

[Porky]

Give him a break. If it turns out to be a bad experience he'll learn something. You should view everything as a learning experience.

 

[buckwheat18]

I do view everything as a learning experience that's why i replyied "good luck with it." Sorry if it sounded negative.

 

[JSH]

good luck, and as porky said treat it as a learning experiance, although i would not want to meet up with a girl i had only spoken to online twice, but hey.

Keep it short and to the point, so you don't have the time to stuff up too badly and you can keep your mystery intact. Around 5 minutes, make a little chit chat to build up and try not to sound too elated when she agrees as it makes you look desperate.

Do you know what you are doing with her?