History:
I am 21, shes 22, shes a mom and has a 5 year old son. Baby's father (lets refer to him as BOB) is still around he's starting to take care of the kid more and more. She used to talk about all the sh1t she went through with BOB but now doesn't talk about it anymore, Except when I went to dinner with her and her family, we where talking about a local college and she said "bob goes there he's taking business". I asked her last time she hung out with Bob and she said about 6 month's ago and it was just for the sake of the kid (this is when he beat her up). Bob also has another child with a different girl lol. I popped the question asking her would she ever go back to him, her response was she could never go back to him with all the sh1t he put her through and she know's that after a week or two they would be up all each other throat's.
Question 1: Should I be worried about him?
I met her at the club, she was the one giving me IOI's so I went up to talk to her
She fell very comfortable with me after first date.
She persisted that we go into a relationship, I accepted. We been dating for a month and a half now.
She tells me that I need to treat her like a woman and not some 19 year old child and to quit playing games. Question 2: How do I need to treat her??
She also told me what she expects from me, To cuddle with her and to spend time with her. Sex is great and happen's quiet often, she tells me how I drive her crazy in bed. Question 3: Am I her pet because I do cuddle with her most of the time I am at her house, I never sleep over if she falls a sleep she always wake's up with me missing in bed ( except on firday/saturday nights )
Not to long ago I said something wrong over the phone and she used it to her advantage. She texted me after the phone conversation and asked me if our relationship was weird, I was currently high on chronic at the time but she didn't know and I was saying some stupid sh1t with txting. None the less I talk to her and she said that I dont show that I care enough for her and she think's its weird because she calls me all the time tells me she misses me tells me literally that she cares about me blah blah she says I never do that for her. Question 4: Do I need to open up more for her or what?
AFC = Average frustrated chump correct? Well I treat her great, take her for dinner, movies, and so on she alway's thanks me for this. Question 5: Will she eventually get bored of this?
Some say that it's important to play ur girls emotions, is this done through fighting or do unexpected things for her?
Her friend that I met before her well I tried hooking up with her and she blew me off a few times so I stopped chasing her. I now hooked up with the mommy that I am with right now ( I had no idea they knew each other ), so when ever mommy talk's about me the other girl gets all depressed and puts her head down. My girl noticed that and she always question's me about her friend what exactly happend between us and if we still talk blah blah. I keep telling her that there's nothing going on between us. Question: I don't really talk to this girl but should I start talking to her to keep the mommy on the edge?
Me and her already established that she doesn't need me to take care of her son nor to raise him, she doesn't need me to support her or her son financially because he has a father that needs to do that.
I am 21, shes 22, shes a mom and has a 5 year old son. Baby's father (lets refer to him as BOB) is still around he's starting to take care of the kid more and more. She used to talk about all the sh1t she went through with BOB but now doesn't talk about it anymore, Except when I went to dinner with her and her family, we where talking about a local college and she said "bob goes there he's taking business". I asked her last time she hung out with Bob and she said about 6 month's ago and it was just for the sake of the kid (this is when he beat her up). Bob also has another child with a different girl lol. I popped the question asking her would she ever go back to him, her response was she could never go back to him with all the sh1t he put her through and she know's that after a week or two they would be up all each other throat's.
Question 1: Should I be worried about him?
I met her at the club, she was the one giving me IOI's so I went up to talk to her
She fell very comfortable with me after first date.
She persisted that we go into a relationship, I accepted. We been dating for a month and a half now.
She tells me that I need to treat her like a woman and not some 19 year old child and to quit playing games. Question 2: How do I need to treat her??
She also told me what she expects from me, To cuddle with her and to spend time with her. Sex is great and happen's quiet often, she tells me how I drive her crazy in bed. Question 3: Am I her pet because I do cuddle with her most of the time I am at her house, I never sleep over if she falls a sleep she always wake's up with me missing in bed ( except on firday/saturday nights )
Not to long ago I said something wrong over the phone and she used it to her advantage. She texted me after the phone conversation and asked me if our relationship was weird, I was currently high on chronic at the time but she didn't know and I was saying some stupid sh1t with txting. None the less I talk to her and she said that I dont show that I care enough for her and she think's its weird because she calls me all the time tells me she misses me tells me literally that she cares about me blah blah she says I never do that for her. Question 4: Do I need to open up more for her or what?
AFC = Average frustrated chump correct? Well I treat her great, take her for dinner, movies, and so on she alway's thanks me for this. Question 5: Will she eventually get bored of this?
Some say that it's important to play ur girls emotions, is this done through fighting or do unexpected things for her?
Her friend that I met before her well I tried hooking up with her and she blew me off a few times so I stopped chasing her. I now hooked up with the mommy that I am with right now ( I had no idea they knew each other ), so when ever mommy talk's about me the other girl gets all depressed and puts her head down. My girl noticed that and she always question's me about her friend what exactly happend between us and if we still talk blah blah. I keep telling her that there's nothing going on between us. Question: I don't really talk to this girl but should I start talking to her to keep the mommy on the edge?
Me and her already established that she doesn't need me to take care of her son nor to raise him, she doesn't need me to support her or her son financially because he has a father that needs to do that.
