"I HAVE REALLY POOR SELF ESTEEM"

[Sho-No-Luv]

No, not me let me explain.

There's this fairly cute female cashier at Wal-Mart up the street from where I live that I chat with from time to time. She's very nice to me, smiles often and occasionally stares at me. I've thought about hitting it, but haven't ever really made a move on her, so here's the weird part.

Me: Hey, hows it going you been busy today?

Her: No not really its been kinda slow.

Me: You've been here for quite a while huh?

Her: Yes

Me: Whats it been two years or so?

Her: No its only been about a year and a half or so..

Me: Well, that's long enough for me to suggest to someone to give you a raise perhaps even promotion to management right?

Her: No, I have really poor self esteem

Me:

I was damn near speechless, never had a female tell me this ever in my life that I can recall. And for some reason the attraction I felt for her kinda dropped down lower.

Anybody ever had this happen? I'm not sure what it means, needless to say she probably would be an easy lay, but I don't like to screw females at places that I frequent often. For example, I've never had sex with a female coworker.

Any comments.

 

[Red Legg]

You won't have sex with women at places you frequent even ? why the hell would you have that policy?

 

[Serenity]

That made you speechless and lose attraction? It would be entirely opposite for me, I would be intrigued by such an unusual and straight response. Possibly even more attracted, because of the irony in that statement. Think about it, what person with low self-esteem would say this as their instant response? Nobody, because admitting it just like that is evidence of the opposite being true. She just checked your intelligence and you failed by not seeing through it.

I would say I don't believe her or at least ask her why.

 

[narcissist]

She was ****ing with you

 

[AlphaNate]

She was trying to get out of a conversation with someone who creepily brought up how long she's worked there.

 

[Reykhel]

Learn to get a girl to hook in a conversation then close.

You're asking stupid, boring question and your cringingly seeking rapport.

Learn to break rapport and get her to invest.

 

[lizardking82]

Learn to get a girl to hook in a conversation then close.

You're asking stupid, boring question and your cringingly seeking rapport.

Learn to break rapport and get her to invest.

I don't even need to be there, I am imagining the whole scene and her boring face and how uninterested she was in the convo LOL just by the way he describes it.

 

[Suspens]

She was trying to get out of a conversation with someone who creepily brought up how long she's worked there.

Don't use that BS word ever, thanks.

 

[sazc]

when people tell you who they are, listen to them
this female just basically told you she has issues. never invite anyone and their issues into your life.

you have choices...
A) pump and dump (but this option further leads to her personality disorder decline)
B) befriened her or try to LTR her and white knight her and try to fix her (please never white knight a female, or male, it will only lead you to misery)
C) walk away and dont look back. this option allows said 'space' in your life to be filled with the next person of quality that passes by.

C is the option that says "I have standards"
She needs a lot of fixing and you are not licensed to do that.
Choose C.

 

[Sho-No-Luv]

when people tell you are, listen to them
this female just basically told you she has issues. never invite anyone and their issues into your life.

you have choices...
A) pump and dump (but this option further leads to her personality disorder decline)
B) befriened her or try to LTR her and white knight her and try to fix her (please never white knight a female, or male, it will only lead you to misery)
C) walk away and dont look back. this option allows said 'space' in your life to be filled with the next person of quality that passes by.

C is the option that says "I have standards"
She needs a lot of fixing and you are not licensed to do that.
Choose C.

Ah, option C, please!

Thanks, yours was the only sensible reply here, thanks you give good advice. I just found what she said odd, because its very unusual. Back in the day the old me would have pounced on it, hit it and quit it, but nowadays pvssy is not my top priority anymore, lol!

 

[Mike32ct]

I agree with sazc.

I think this girl was being honest with you about her low self-esteem issues.

Option C is best here.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Learn to get a girl to hook in a conversation then close.

You're asking stupid, boring question and your cringingly seeking rapport.

Learn to break rapport and get her to invest.

How would you suggest one goes about doing these things? Say in this specific case for example.

 

[Trump]

needless to say she probably would be an easy lay, but I don't like to screw females at places that I frequent often. For example, I've never had sex with a female coworker.

Love guys who use an external factor as an excuse NOT to sleep with a girl. It has nothing to do with their dress, look, speech, confidence, hair, or job. It has to do with them needing to go to the same place every other day to get some milk.

Bro I don't think any female coworker would have sex with you with that type of conversation. I think you are trying to convince yourself you could easily sleep with her, but deep down you know you can't.

Me: Hey, hows it going you been busy today?

Her: No not really its been kinda slow.

You: I hate for a pretty girl like you to be stuck here all day. Why don't we get together after you are done and grab a bite?

Me: You've been here for quite a while huh?

Her: Yes

Me: Whats it been two years or so?

Her: No its only been about a year and a half or so..

Me: Well, that's long enough for me to suggest to someone to give you a raise perhaps even promotion to management right?

Her: No, I have really poor self esteem

Me:

Sorry to say but that is brutal conversation.

this female just basically told you she has issues. never invite anyone and their issues into your life.

Or she could be playing him, see how much of a white knight he is. Get some money/use out of him.

you have choices...
A) pump and dump (but this option further leads to her personality disorder decline)
B) befriened her or try to LTR her and white knight her and try to fix her (please never white knight a female, or male, it will only lead you to misery)
C) walk away and dont look back. this option allows said 'space' in your life to be filled with the next person of quality that passes by.

C is the option that says "I have standards"
She needs a lot of fixing and you are not licensed to do that.
Choose C.

You don't need to be 'licensed' to fix someone.

If she is attractive I would choose option A. It's not HIS responsibility to fix her personality disorder decline. His job is to sleep with her. Anything else is fair game.

 

[Sho-No-Luv]

I agree with sazc.

I think this girl was being honest with you about her low self-esteem issues.

Option C is best here.

Yep, that's my assessment of the situation too. But again like I said really only brought it up because I thought it was weird. Also I had only a passing interest in her. And I've caught her staring at me from a distance several times too, but its no biggie. Thanks for the feedback!

 

[Reykhel]

Love guys who use an external factor as an excuse NOT to sleep with a girl. It has nothing to do with their dress, look, speech, confidence, hair, or job. It has to do with them needing to go to the same place every other day to get some milk.

Bro I don't think any female coworker would have sex with you with that type of conversation. I think you are trying to convince yourself you could easily sleep with her, but deep down you know you can't.



You: I hate for a pretty girl like you to be stuck here all day. Why don't we get together after you are done and grab a bite?



Sorry to say but that is brutal conversation.




Or she could be playing him, see how much of a white knight he is. Get some money/use out of him.



You don't need to be 'licensed' to fix someone.

If she is attractive I would choose option A. It's not HIS responsibility to fix her personality disorder decline. His job is to sleep with her. Anything else is fair game.

^^ Exactly man.

If I live the rest of my life sleeping with attractive women who have low self esteem I will not be complaining.

Besides, I highly doubt this female has "low self esteem". I cannot remember one single case where a woman with low self esteem turned around to me and said "I have low self esteem". Especially one that I barely know. I reckon she has to have a certain level of confidence to retort back with this line and it is a line that simply reflects back his stupid line that he gave to her...

I mean it probably sounded slightly patronizing to her:
Me: Well, that's long enough for me to suggest to someone to give you a raise perhaps even promotion to management right?

Does he really expect her to take the bait and hook with a corny slightly patronizing azz kissing line like that.

So she responds: (I suspect sarcastically )

Her: No, I have really poor self esteem

And he has no response because he has no ability to think on his feet ( Sign of very low level game, someone who cannot improvise and think on their feet)

....and then the buffers kick in. "it must be her because it obviously cannot have anything to do with my game. If it had anything to do with my game it might mean I would have to self reflect and actually do something about it. Nah I wasn't really interested anyway"

Yeah good the way that old weasel works in the mind.

Avoid the supplication frame gents.

 

[JohnChops]

Lol, she was joking. You guys over analyze and are too literal. Relax.

 

[Reykhel]

Lol, she was joking. You guys over analyze and are too literal. Relax.

You got it.

Buffer against rejection kicking in from the guy, was all.

 

[Sho-No-Luv]

You got it.

Buffer against rejection kicking in from the guy, was all.

Dude who the fuuck do you think you are son? You don't know me and if you did you watch your mouth. Have you ever had a women buy you a car, clothes or pay your bills, rent and cook and clean for you? Ever had women follow you home while you are out exercising? I have!! I've ran up to six women at a time with four of them constantly buying me gifts clothes and musical equipment.

I been screwing beautiful women since before you were in diapers and graduated to wearing panties, all you have is a bunch of theories you are a keyboard jockey. yea a very toxic bytch made type of fella, and if we ever met I'd slap you with my dyck for your disrespect! Obviously you assume alot about people with out knowing facts. This female is just someone I see from day to day, I have no real interest in her. I dated some very gorgeous women in my life much better looking than her. What you don't realize is that the game gets easier after you been at it for years and I don't need fancy lines because I an very aesthetically pleasing to the eyes and know how to attract all types of women, even when I'm not trying.

So lets do this the proper way post pictures of women you dated and I will do the same, either put up or shut your freaking piehole!

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Dude who the fuuck do you think you are son? You don't know me and if you did you watch your mouth. Have you ever had a women buy you a car, clothes or pay your bills, rent and cook and clean for you? Ever had women follow you home while you are out exercising? I have!! I've ran up to six women at a time with four of them constantly buying me gifts clothes and musical equipment.

I been screwing beautiful women since before you were in diapers, all you have is a bunch of theories you are a keyboard jockey. yea a very toxic bytch made type of fella, and if we ever met I'd slap you with my dyck for your disrespect! Obviously you assume alot about people with out knowing facts. This female is just someone I see from day to day, I have no real interest in her. I dated some very gorgeous women in my life much better looking than her. What you don't realize is that the game gets easier after you been at it for years and I don't need fancy lines because I an very aesthetically pleasing to the eyes and know how to attract all types of women, even when I'm not trying.

So lets do this the proper way post pictures of women you dated and I will do the same, either put up or shut your freaking piehole!

It's normal...

 

[Reykhel]

Dude who the fuuck do you think you are son? You don't know me and if you did you watch your mouth. Have you ever had a women buy you a car, clothes or pay your bills, rent and cook and clean for you? Ever had women follow you home while you are out exercising? I have!! I've ran up to six women at a time with four of them constantly buying me gifts clothes and musical equipment.

I been screwing beautiful women since before you were in diapers and graduated to wearing panties, all you have is a bunch of theories you are a keyboard jockey. yea a very toxic bytch made type of fella, and if we ever met I'd slap you with my dyck for your disrespect! Obviously you assume alot about people with out knowing facts. This female is just someone I see from day to day, I have no real interest in her. I dated some very gorgeous women in my life much better looking than her. What you don't realize is that the game gets easier after you been at it for years and I don't need fancy lines because I an very aesthetically pleasing to the eyes and know how to attract all types of women, even when I'm not trying.

So lets do this the proper way post pictures of women you dated and I will do the same, either put up or shut your freaking piehole!

You'd do nothing, boy.

Funny little keyboard tough guy.

Save that talk about your little guy for the fagg0ts you fvck, filthy degenerate.

So according to the garbage you wrote you must be about 60 or 70 years old. Hopefully you don't get too triggered again old timer, that little weary ticker may just give out. Has been.

Oh your pm is on it's way. I'll await your validation. It means a lot to me. Really.

Do something about your grammar. No excuses.