I have no interest in high interest women

GreatHornedOwl

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I like to pursue low and medium interest women. It has always been like this. I'm not sure why. Any ideas? As soon as I know a woman is fully into me, it's a turn off.
 

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Yes, cause dealing with an easy lay is a burden.
Seek help!
 

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If I have an 8.5 that's showing high interest, wants to meet and hookup, I'll do it. But, I won't meet up with her again. I'll pursue the 7 that won't put out on the first date, makes me wonder if she's interested and keeps me guessing.
 

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It’s the thrill of the chase, you’re a predator, it’s normal.
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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If I have an 8.5 that's showing high interest, wants to meet and hookup, I'll do it. But, I won't meet up with her again. I'll pursue the 7 that won't put out on the first date, makes me wonder if she's interested and keeps me guessing.
The types of girls that I'm attracted to are the types you wouldn't see with black guys lol. I feel the same way tbh lol. I wouldn't want to be with a mudshark regardless of how hot she is.
 

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"I refuse to join any club that would have me as a member."
- Groucho Marx

It could be a thing where you think any girl who actually likes you must be a slvt.

It could be that you pick up women for the sense of pride and accomplishment, which you don't feel if you don't have to try.

It could be that you're such an Alpha Giga Chad that getting women is easy and therefore boring.

I'm glad I don't have this problem.
 

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The types of girls that I'm attracted to are the types you wouldn't see with black guys lol.

I feel the same way tbh lol. I wouldn't want to be with a mudshark regardless of how hot she is.
I relate to the first part because I like Asian girls.

I don't relate to the latter part because having high interest in me is my favorite part of a woman lol.
 

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I like to pursue low and medium interest women. It has always been like this. I'm not sure why. Any ideas? As soon as I know a woman is fully into me, it's a turn off.
I have similar feelings in that high interest becomes annoying, but I don't feel drawn to the prude 7 over a high interest 9. Valuing low interest over high interest sounds like a dysfunction, it shouldn't turn you on unless you identify as trash.

I just don't give a fuuck if they're not interested. The high interest ones are the only ones I talk to, and they have to be at least 8s. Then I filter for compatibility and only accept anything serious with those that are into being part of a harem.
 

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Im with @Pierce.Manhammer on this one. Sometimes the thrill of the chase is more enjoyable thant the lay itself. Its not about the destination, its about the journey.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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You must really love uphill battles.
It's like applying for 100 jobs and getting 99 rejections.
But having that 1 win after 99 losses feels satisfying for you.
Please do not entertain the thought of gambling in a casino. Guys like you would go broke real quick!

You sound incredibly young.
The older you get, the quicker you reach burnout from all the BS you have to deal with in the dating scene.
 
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The types of girls that I'm attracted to are the types you wouldn't see with black guys lol. I feel the same way tbh lol. I wouldn't want to be with a mudshark regardless of how hot she is.
Girls with race fetishes are usually beyond fked up
 
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