"I have male friends. They are less drama"

[logicallefty]

She actually said he's "kind of a beta"? I'm just wondering because I don't think I've ever heard a woman use the word "beta" before. I've heard them use the term "alpha male" on occasion. This pickup terminology must really be catching on.

Yeah interesting. I've heard women use alpha & beta referencing animals, but never men.

My GF sometimes says to me "Why do I love you so much?". One of my many responses is "Because I am an alpha a$$hole and you can't get enough of it". She never argues with that, ever.

 

[Malcontent]

Last night I heard "I am more logical and less emotional than women, so I get along better with guys as friends. I can't relate to how emotional women are."

What do you think? Same thing?

Of course she also mentioned she has a boyfriend back home in her country, yet seemed very interested to get to know me.

 

[logicallefty]

Last night I heard "I am more logical and less emotional than women, so I get along better with guys as friends. I can't relate to how emotional women are."

What do you think? Same thing?

Of course she also mentioned she has a boyfriend back home in her country, yet seemed very interested to get to know me.

Give her the classic "your a$$ looks fat in those jeans" and let's just see how "less" emotional we are! :crackup: :crackup:

 

[Malcontent]

Give her the classic "your a$$ looks fat in those jeans" and let's just see how "less" emotional we are! :crackup: :crackup:

 

[sodbuster]

No female friends is always a red flag. USUALLY means that she's such a b1tch that other women can't stand her

 

[Malcontent]

Same thing,should be an easy lay

Yeah, seemed that way. But she wanted to go dance and I didn't, so I passed.

 

[goldengoose]

No female friends is always a red flag. USUALLY means that she's such a b1tch that other women can't stand her

She has all the time in the world to control the beta man and keep him all to herself as well as entertaining all her male friends. Problem is, you never know which guy she fvcked or not that's still hanging around.

A lot of guys believe orbiters aren't a threat and they couldn't be more wrong. It's true that some don't get sex, those are typically the worst kind, they have trouble with any woman.

Yes they get sloppy seconds, but they don't care, it comes with the territory. Women are cunning as hell and can communicate in a very subtle manner with another man right in front of you. They play off your ego as well, if you're her "main" you want to believe she'd never do something like that and you ignore it or misjudge another guy believing he'd never have a chance, all the while he's become a new d-ck-in-a-glass (break in case of emergency).

You guys have an argument or falling out, guess who she's seeing behind your back when she pulls away and/or cuts off sex. That or she's spinning plates, since men make it so easy for them to do so.

Solid posts.

Not only that, these guys are her "friends", so during the course of your relationship she will be telling those guys everything going on in your relationship both the good and the bad. Those guys will be her "go to" guys for advice and you know they won't be telling her the truth when they want you out of the way. They will fill her head full of sh1t.

When one of those guys don't like you, they will do anything they can to cause a break up. For instance, if you were out late with your buddies and she ges a little curious or insecure she will tell her "guy friend" that you were out late. He would hint that you might be cheating and up to no good. Since he is a "good friend" she would be likely to believe him when he says "I know that guys cheat and I don't want to see you get hurt" then you have a problem on your hands. I've seen this happen before with these oribters and guys they dated before wrecking relationships.

I'd never take a woman seriously with all those "guy friends" hanging around. Guys who get into relationships end up feeling foolish after they brushed a side all the red flags and suspicious behavior thinking all things were fine.

 

[DonGorgon]

"I only hang with guys" = "I am a huge slut that does not give a damn about anything and I love to be surrounded by men who want to F me and who I can F at anya time"

the reality remains that no matter how good or innocent or different a female seems she will have a few other dudes she flits with and has sexual chemistry with and who she will F while she is with you

 

[Sik]

She actually said he's "kind of a beta"? I'm just wondering because I don't think I've ever heard a woman use the word "beta" before. I've heard them use the term "alpha male" on occasion. This pickup terminology must really be catching on.

Yes, those are the words she used. She's a sharp cookie, reads a lot of books, cruises the interwebs and understands Alpha/Beta behavior. I think her game now is to keep a beta boyfriend as a provider and get drilled by an alpha when she needs it. She's also early 20's and PUA/Red Pill theory is more prevalent than in upper age brackets, though by no means mainstream.

This raises a moral question. Guys who are willingly AFC's and suck up to females are the enemy of mankind moving forward. So then, is it immoral to pound out their women? Are we not doing them a favor by exposing their flawed allegiances?

Also, a few of the posters above talked about the girl exposing the relationships dirty laundry - this is absolutely my experience. Any girl I spent time with, who had only male friends, was quick to denigrate their current or previous boyfriends.