I have been masturbating for 8 years and now... i have a trouble about nofap.

[RickTheToad]

I know man. But I just thought I shouldn't do that for a months maybe. I don't know. It's like a drug for me now.

It's only a problem if it prevents you from living life. If it's not preventing you from doing something in life, then it's okay.

 

[Bible_Belt]

It's only a problem if it prevents you from living life. If it's not preventing you from doing something in life, then it's okay.

I've always wanted to visit San Diego.

 

[Travel memoir21]

The thing with No Fap, is you can do it on your own. You gotta have God Consciousness with you or some sort of spiritual faith to keep your will strong. I don't care if you're a Buddhist, muslim or a Christian...have something working for you. And also have a good support system- Nofap.com, check out their forum and talk to some of the guys there for advise and support.

 

[RickTheToad]

I've always wanted to visit San Diego.

I still believe, if a dude is not getting it, he should at lease do the knuckle shuffle a few times a week. Prostate cancer is a b!tch.

 

[New_Journey]

What is it that you are trying to achieve with nofap? Just the ego boost like many incels in this forum "Hey guys listen, I do nofap, I haven't masturbated in months and years!!!" so everyone can validate him so he feels good about his miserable life, but hey at least he doesn't masturbate, while his finances are $hit, physique is $hit, no friends and no women.

I don't know any successful guy who said, I succeeded because I didn't masturbate. I have a beautiful life, achieved all my goals, I never ever stopped masturbating when I needed to. While I agree with the benefits of nofap, that alone won't get you anywhere.

There was a point in my life where I was masturbating because I didn't want to call any woman, I didn't want to spend money on women, time taking them on dates. I just wanted to get the horniness out of the system.

There were other times when I wanted to fvck women, but I was in a dry spell. I used masturbation as a reward for being courageous. If I was horny as fvck and wanted to masturbate. I took the opportunity to try and fvck women, if that didn't work, I always had my hand available.

I was being very bold with women, I didn't fvcking care if they said no, I had a plan B, I wanted to fail, I didn't want to spend time taking women on dates, I mean it was nice and $hit, but that was not my goal. You know what happened? There mere act of acting like I did, with the attitude of take it or leave, made me fvck more women.

So, they question you need to ask yourself is this, what is it that you want to achieve?

 

[MatureDJ]

You should check your testosterone levels. Masturbating is fine and also helps reduce the chance of prostate cancer. A mixture of sex and a knuckle shuffle never hurt any dude.

Ejaculation Frequency and Risk of Prostate Cancer: Updated Results with an Additional Decade of Follow-up - PubMed

We evaluated whether ejaculation frequency throughout adulthood is related to prostate cancer risk in a large US-based study. We found that men reporting higher compared to lower ejaculatory frequency in adulthood were less likely to be subsequently diagnosed with prostate cancer.

pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

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Ejaculation frequency and prostate cancer - Harvard Health

Research into the connections between sexual activity and prostate cancer....

www.harvardprostateknowledge.org

https://bjui-journals.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1046/j.1464-410X.2003.04319.x

Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer: CAPLIFE Study - PMC

To evaluate the association between ejaculation frequency (EF) during four stages of life and prostate cancer (PCa) according to tumor aggressiveness, PCa stage, and urinary symptomatology. A total of 456 incident PCa cases histologically confirmed, ...

pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

I'm waiting for some OF chick to give JOI sessions for the sake of cancer prevention.

 

[SW15]

What is it that you are trying to achieve with nofap? Just the ego boost like many incels in this forum "Hey guys listen, I do nofap, I haven't masturbated in months and years!!!" so everyone can validate him so he feels good about his miserable life, but hey at least he doesn't masturbate, while his finances are $hit, physique is $hit, no friends and no women.

I don't know any successful guy who said, I succeeded because I didn't masturbate. I have a beautiful life, achieved all my goals, I never ever stopped masturbating when I needed to. While I agree with the benefits of nofap, that alone won't get you anywhere.

I am a long time practitioner of no porn and no masturbation. I think it is a very good seduction practice. That said, it's not everything and it has limitations on what it can achieve.

The NoFap practice won't go as far if a man has a subpar to average physique, subpar to average finances, and no friends.

I have said many times that attraction and seduction is looks, money, status, and personality. It's important to see how NoFap will affect all of these.

NoFap might raise testosterone levels, enhancing looks. It's possible to get perceived as more attractive. However, NoFap without a healthy diet and exercise won't go as much. NoFap can help with discipline, which is important in diet and exercise. There's an argument that NoFap is good for looks indirectly.

NoFap might help with money if it helps with testosterone, confidence, and risk taking. It might help a man perform better at work, get a promotion, perform better on job interviews to change jobs and increase salary. It can also help with interpersonal interactions at work, which are important in white collar work. There's a case that NoFap can help with the money aspect of seduction, but it's another indirect case.

Status is often aligned with money. I don't think NoFap and status have much of a relationship.

NoFap is best for creating a better vibe in interpersonal interactions with women, so the most effect will be felt on the personality variable. It can help with confidence, aggressiveness, overall persona, and presentation skills. Social skills are relevant, but I've always felt that they've been less relevant than looks and money.

The best way to attract and seduce women is to be 6'0"+, physically fit with some muscle definition, and have a good enough personality. When I use the phrase "good enough personality", I use it to describe a scenario where a man's personality doesn't lead to a woman losing attraction. She doesn't subtract points off of his SMV, which will often be determined mainly from his looks and his money.

 

[super_soaker]

You should check your testosterone levels. Masturbating is fine and also helps reduce the chance of prostate cancer. A mixture of sex and a knuckle shuffle never hurt any dude.

Ejaculation Frequency and Risk of Prostate Cancer: Updated Results with an Additional Decade of Follow-up - PubMed

We evaluated whether ejaculation frequency throughout adulthood is related to prostate cancer risk in a large US-based study. We found that men reporting higher compared to lower ejaculatory frequency in adulthood were less likely to be subsequently diagnosed with prostate cancer.

pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

.

Ejaculation frequency and prostate cancer - Harvard Health

Research into the connections between sexual activity and prostate cancer....

www.harvardprostateknowledge.org

https://bjui-journals.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1046/j.1464-410X.2003.04319.x

Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer: CAPLIFE Study - PMC

To evaluate the association between ejaculation frequency (EF) during four stages of life and prostate cancer (PCa) according to tumor aggressiveness, PCa stage, and urinary symptomatology. A total of 456 incident PCa cases histologically confirmed, ...

pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

The differences in the rates of cancers between those who abstain and the turbo coomers are so minor it barely makes a difference. if you go through the original study you'll see that they divide them into 5 groups, and between the ones who ejaculate the least (0-3 times a month) to the ones who do it the most (more than 21 times a month) the absolute rate of developing prostate cancer is 11.2% (0-3 times a month), 13.3% (4-7 times), 12.4% (8-12), 10.8% (13-20), and 10.3% (more than 21 times a month).
LOL technically the ones who don't ejaculate at all have lower odds than the ones who did it 4 to 12 times month. the association is entirely correlation and not causation. men who have a lower libido tend to just be unhealthy overall, but emptying out your prostate constantly won't do much to prevent cancer.

 

[Bible_Belt]

There is a long standing belief among Chinese people that anything coming out of your body is a healthy process. Pooping, peeing, popping a zit, all of that is a positive in regard to health. It only stands to reason that wackin it in San Diego (or elsewhere) would be healthy.

 

[RickTheToad]

The differences in the rates of cancers between those who abstain and the turbo coomers are so minor it barely makes a difference. if you go through the original study you'll see that they divide them into 5 groups, and between the ones who ejaculate the least (0-3 times a month) to the ones who do it the most (more than 21 times a month) the absolute rate of developing prostate cancer is 11.2% (0-3 times a month), 13.3% (4-7 times), 12.4% (8-12), 10.8% (13-20), and 10.3% (more than 21 times a month).
LOL technically the ones who don't ejaculate at all have lower odds than the ones who did it 4 to 12 times month. the association is entirely correlation and not causation. men who have a lower libido tend to just be unhealthy overall, but emptying out your prostate constantly won't do much to prevent cancer.

I beg to differ, but what do I know.

 

[Scaramouche]

Hi Nellyses,
There's an old Joke,What's the difference between an unwanted erection and a light switch?...Well you can't turn off a boner!...So true,for every Human foible including Onans crime one may draw a Bell Curve,it seems you are at one extremity on this one....The only worries I see,are excessive guilt and nutritional deficiency....Know that Sperm contains Nine elements of the PIXE spectrum: zinc, copper, calcium, sulfur, chlorine, potassium, titanium being seven...As you are perhaps overdoing things a bit,your repletion of these elements will restore your energy levels...Being a Medical student you will work that out...As the years dim your enthusiasm,then you will morph into a real Stud....Find Circassion or Uzbek Ladies,they have a great reputation as formidable lovers.Back in the day,they were sought out as Lovers for the Harems of your horny Sultans.

 

[soulforge]

I am a long time practitioner of no porn and no masturbation. I think it is a very good seduction practice. That said, it's not everything and it has limitations on what it can achieve.

The NoFap practice won't go as far if a man has a subpar to average physique, subpar to average finances, and no friends.

I have said many times that attraction and seduction is looks, money, status, and personality. It's important to see how NoFap will affect all of these.

NoFap might raise testosterone levels, enhancing looks. It's possible to get perceived as more attractive. However, NoFap without a healthy diet and exercise won't go as much. NoFap can help with discipline, which is important in diet and exercise. There's an argument that NoFap is good for looks indirectly.

NoFap might help with money if it helps with testosterone, confidence, and risk taking. It might help a man perform better at work, get a promotion, perform better on job interviews to change jobs and increase salary. It can also help with interpersonal interactions at work, which are important in white collar work. There's a case that NoFap can help with the money aspect of seduction, but it's another indirect case.

Status is often aligned with money. I don't think NoFap and status have much of a relationship.

NoFap is best for creating a better vibe in interpersonal interactions with women, so the most effect will be felt on the personality variable. It can help with confidence, aggressiveness, overall persona, and presentation skills. Social skills are relevant, but I've always felt that they've been less relevant than looks and money.

The best way to attract and seduce women is to be 6'0"+, physically fit with some muscle definition, and have a good enough personality. When I use the phrase "good enough personality", I use it to describe a scenario where a man's personality doesn't lead to a woman losing attraction. She doesn't subtract points off of his SMV, which will often be determined mainly from his looks and his money.

I haven't watched p0rn in over three years.. It's a liberating feeling, not being a slave to pornography. I don't even miss it.

I also practice no fap.. I don't mind waiting 2-3 months without ejaculating.

My focus is on work, and fitness.. And I approach females like crazy.. My approach game is solid since I quit porn and stopped fapping.

 

[corrector]

The NoFap practice won't go as far if a man has a subpar to average physique, subpar to average finances, and no friends.

That's the understatement of the year. If one was to compare a line from 1 to 10, and you said does not go as far, then you would be comparing a 1 to a 10, rather than an 8.5 to a 10. In my case, likely a 1. When you are 49 years old, you already naturally lower libido, if you are not established, caregiving and have a low paying job, and as we've even seen with my attempts at no faps in the past, it has yielded no results, and will continue to yield no results. Other than maybe hopefully this will turn in a reset spiritually again.

I'm currently putting any fapping under a strike and have any types of porn under a severe type of restriction, so in other words, I've just started this no-fap like thing again. You'll take a case like mine and have to conclude that no fap does NOTHING for me.

 

[self_is_an_illusion]

You guys read right. I have been masturbating for 8 years.
I worked out, lost weight, was a virgin and had sex with a girl and when I didn't feel anything I realized how bad it was(this was months ago). I am still praying that I can get an erection.
It hadn't even occurred to me that this was related to masturbation. On the contrary, I had started to lose interest in girls. I literally didn't want any girls.

After this, I fell into a ridiculous depression, I distanced myself from my friends and had almost no close friends (because I never went out) and within months I gained 30 kilos again and became 120 kilos.

I dropped from 120 to 90 and my life got much better. Now I'm 120 again.

I decided to stop this and started dieting and exercising again, but this time I realized how bad masturbation was. I'm literally addicted. 15-20 a week...

Then I decided to do Nofap for a while, but after 2-3 days I became a completely different person.
I already have a few friends and they say I'm very nervous and have changed. Besides, while I thought I didn't want any girls, now even my normal friends started to interest me.
Yesterday, she showed me an outfit. Even her cleavage started to interest me and to be honest, I was a little shy about Nofap. Is it always going to be like this?

Has anyone ever done Nofap or experienced this? Do you think I should do it?

Your worth is not tied to how often you masturbate or how quickly you lose weight. You deserve compassion, balanced self-care, and professional help if you need it.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Here's how it works OP:

jerking it will make you blind but if you abstain, your third eyes opens and you gain true vision, even more so than post-nut clarity.

You see things for how they really are, kinda like the guy from They Live but better.

You can envision anything you previously believe to be impossible, you can see in the dark, you have x-ray vision, you can see colors previously unseen on the spectrum, anything you imagine will manifest.

All of the visionaries and mystics of yore did this.

If you can do this while fasting even better.

If everyone did this with true love in their hearts, then world peace can be achieved.

This is the way.

 

[Bible_Belt]

NoFap = a 20% higher risk of prostate cancer.

Why more sex may lower prostate cancer risk | Harvard T.H. Chan School of Public Health

Frequent ejaculation has been linked with decreased prostate cancer risk. One reason may be that frequent ejaculation may help clear potentially cancer-causing substances from the prostate, according to Harvard Chan School's Lorelei Mucci.

hsph.harvard.edu