So last week at work,they let us out an hour early,10 instead of 11,and it was cold and snowing. Some people needed a ride, and I offered them one. Now,this guy I work with,who has been a freind of my dad's,and has helped me out a few times at work,prevented me from getting fired cause I was in the break room too much,so anyways, he took me aside,and asked me,why am i giving them a ride? And I told them they need one,he asked,would they do the same for you? I said,yeah,I'm, pretty sure.
And he said to me,You're too kind hearted. He also goes on to say,what if there is an accident,one of them breaks there leg,and I get sued. He then went onto say the people here don't care about you,meaning everyone as a whole,not just me,and how his wife was in an accident,the guy who hit lied,and how he,my freind,not the guy that hit his wife,is going to be getting an ass kicking,and how anyone needs to look out for themselves,a view reinforced on the site.
He also went on how I,or anyone else,learned this from there mothers,to be good,kind,caring,etc. And what he said certainly got to me,in a good way. He said its the natural order of things,the mother raises the kid(s). Obviouisly,some of you see where I am going with this. Aside from the fact that no one likes a doormat,the whole "afc" thing. About how most guys raised by mom are afc's,and looking back on it,i probably spent more time with my mom than my dad. Why,I don't know. Looking back,I never asked either parent about how to handle women/girls,etc. And they probably are the best advice givers,yet I never listened. So,what do you think? I sometimes have this problem figuring where I stand as well.
And he said to me,You're too kind hearted. He also goes on to say,what if there is an accident,one of them breaks there leg,and I get sued. He then went onto say the people here don't care about you,meaning everyone as a whole,not just me,and how his wife was in an accident,the guy who hit lied,and how he,my freind,not the guy that hit his wife,is going to be getting an ass kicking,and how anyone needs to look out for themselves,a view reinforced on the site.
He also went on how I,or anyone else,learned this from there mothers,to be good,kind,caring,etc. And what he said certainly got to me,in a good way. He said its the natural order of things,the mother raises the kid(s). Obviouisly,some of you see where I am going with this. Aside from the fact that no one likes a doormat,the whole "afc" thing. About how most guys raised by mom are afc's,and looking back on it,i probably spent more time with my mom than my dad. Why,I don't know. Looking back,I never asked either parent about how to handle women/girls,etc. And they probably are the best advice givers,yet I never listened. So,what do you think? I sometimes have this problem figuring where I stand as well.
