I have a problem kissing girls.

[War Against Betaism]

this is where balls are handy

Indeed.

 

[Skepsis]

Fear of success. I think that's what it is.

No, you’re just being a pansy. Take baby steps.

Relax, put your forehead against hers, talk for a few seconds, Eskimo kiss, and close the deal.

That's how I got over my ‘fear of success’ at least.

 

[martinM.]

Fear of success. I think that's what it is.

You'll need to elaborate on this. Fear of success, like you don't want things to esculate further? Or fear of success in the general sense?

 

[Gustav Yavo]

Whoever said baby steps has the right idea. Start with some serious eye contact, get closer do some eskimo kisses (basically rubbing your noses together), start pecking, then go in for the kill (keeps your hands moving while you two are kissing) Just go step by step and you will be fine.

 

[DonJuan11]

I have no idea what's stopping me.

Your ego is stopping you. You can't handle the rejection and would rather leave things the way they are than risk the humilation.

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With no guile, and no game, there's no girl

 

[jazzmaster2]

I've never kissed a girl. I've BEEN kissed, but I've never actually had lip-to-lip action.

And it's bothering me.

Actually, don't force it at all. It may sound cliche but it will naturally come. Plus it's so much better if you don't try to expect or force it. Trust me.

 

[trojanman88]

No, its probably just cuz you haven't done it before, its like cold water man. You just jump in

 

[tsmith2334]

My first kiss came pretty late but I just went ahead and did it. Turned into a full out make-out session. And suprisingly, I was pretty good at it for a first time. I got more aggressive/ sloppy as the years went on.

 

[Obsidian]

Get some cool clothes. Go to a dance party and locate a hor. Grind on the hor, and glide your face over her hair, kiss her on the neck, etc. Then eventually work your way toward the lips (either with the same girl or with someone else).

Make it a gradual thing.

 

[Vice]

My first kiss came pretty late but I just went ahead and did it. Turned into a full out make-out session. And suprisingly, I was pretty good at it for a first time. I got more aggressive/ sloppy as the years went on.

That's exactly what happened New Year's eve LOL

Check out my other thread for details

 

[The Deacon]

My first kiss came pretty late but I just went ahead and did it. Turned into a full out make-out session. And suprisingly, I was pretty good at it for a first time. I got more aggressive/ sloppy as the years went on.

DUDE! I seemed to have gotten worse too. Hahaha, oh man, I thought I was the only one. It's not like you don't know what you're doing, you just don't care so much after the umpteenth time. Maybe I'm just lazy.