I hate women...(pick me up needed)

[judoguy]

Its getting to the point where all the games, all the bull****, how they have the ****ing pick of the litter, how they put in no effort, how they act like they are the **** because they have a *****, how all they have to do is not stuff their faces and pretty much naturally have nice bodies. Most guys have to either bulk up or cut down for years to have "nice" body.

Yea I am bitter.... why? because I still crave them. When I see one I want them, bad. But you know what, I can't have most of them. Even good PUA's only have about a 20% success ratio. Nevermind the logistics issues that come into play.

Here is the ultimate problem. There is absolutely nothing I can do about it. Even if I cut out my testicles tommorow and become completely a sexual, they will still have all that power because all the other men.

yea, I am getting a good education, will have a good job, and "have a promising future". Great. Noone gives a ****....

How does this help me in the end? Great, I am going to get some over the hill broad who is starting to shift into her less attractive years, finds some dude like me who is stable. Some old ass 30 year old ***** who has taken more shots to the face then Mike Tyson. Most likely bitter and selfish I will probably end up marrying this woman and hating myself for it.

So what are my options?
1. Accept it as a fact of life and stop *****ing
2. Turn Gay
3. Value other things over women, sware off them and become asexual.
4. Masterbait as much as possible and when I get a good job, simply fukk prostitutes for the rest of my life
5. Get really good at this DJ stuff, bang some girls and eventually end up down the same life path, getting married to some hag


I just feel like this is horrible. We have been dealt a horrible card and there has to be something better for us out there. I mean look at us. Spending so much time on a message board, spending $$, wasting away .... for what?

A biological need to ejaculate. I say fukk that, to quote Fight club, "We are a generation of men , raised by women, I dont think a woman is the answer we really need"

FUKk it.... Im turning Asexual LOL....

No but really..... I am just frustrated in putting so much time and effort, getting minimal results while they just sit there... I need a pick me up guys.... Im counting on you all

 

[Forty0ztoFreedom]

Get happy. Nobody wants to be around bitter people. Even if you are 'enlightened.'

 

[jj123]

Pick up is going to be one of the hardest skills you will ever master. It's by far one of the most frustrating skills but if mastered the results are phenomenal. There is always something to learn and if you critique your approaches that didn't hook you ask yourself what if I did this or what if I did that then you start thinking negative and that's just going to bring you down more. Masters get rejected too but what separates masters from the wanna b's or the guys that try it for a few months and quit is that masters stick to it and rejection is one ear and out the other. When you stop caring so much about the outcome and when you really start saying what's on your mind when talking with a girl then that's when you'll see a new light in this art.

 

[judoguy]

phat rabbit.... that is honestly one of the most useful posts I have ever read and I am honestly going to try this. Thank you.

 

[DonJuan11]

Its getting to the point where all the games, all the bull****, how they have the ****ing pick of the litter, how they put in no effort, how they act like they are the **** because they have a *****, how all they have to do is not stuff their faces and pretty much naturally have nice bodies. Most guys have to either bulk up or cut down for years to have "nice" body.

Yea I am bitter.... why? because I still crave them. When I see one I want them, bad. But you know what, I can't have most of them. Even good PUA's only have about a 20% success ratio. Nevermind the logistics issues that come into play.

Here is the ultimate problem. There is absolutely nothing I can do about it. Even if I cut out my testicles tommorow and become completely a sexual, they will still have all that power because all the other men.

yea, I am getting a good education, will have a good job, and "have a promising future". Great. Noone gives a ****....

How does this help me in the end? Great, I am going to get some over the hill broad who is starting to shift into her less attractive years, finds some dude like me who is stable. Some old ass 30 year old ***** who has taken more shots to the face then Mike Tyson. Most likely bitter and selfish I will probably end up marrying this woman and hating myself for it.

So what are my options?
1. Accept it as a fact of life and stop *****ing
2. Turn Gay
3. Value other things over women, sware off them and become asexual.
4. Masterbait as much as possible and when I get a good job, simply fukk prostitutes for the rest of my life
5. Get really good at this DJ stuff, bang some girls and eventually end up down the same life path, getting married to some hag


I just feel like this is horrible. We have been dealt a horrible card and there has to be something better for us out there. I mean look at us. Spending so much time on a message board, spending $$, wasting away .... for what?

A biological need to ejaculate. I say fukk that, to quote Fight club, "We are a generation of men , raised by women, I dont think a woman is the answer we really need"

FUKk it.... Im turning Asexual LOL....

No but really..... I am just frustrated in putting so much time and effort, getting minimal results while they just sit there... I need a pick me up guys.... Im counting on you all

Wow dude, I would love to let you have sex and marry my 22 year old daughter, I'd only be afraid you would choke her to death because you hate women so much.

Seriously dude, why would any women (or guy for that matter) want to hang out with you when you have an attitude like that? You don't sound like a fun guy who can teach a women something, who is educated and experienced with all those swears in one paragraph. You sound like a guy who gets angry when a women doesn't have sex within the first 5 min of meeting him. Put yourself in the woman's place. What does she get to go out with you? To have sex with you? To kiss you? Does she get a guy who hates woman and complains about his life? Or does she get the time of her life because the guy knows all the important people there is know in his city and has connections like President Clinton?

Getting the woman of your dreams depends on how good of NEGOTIATOR you are. She will give up the goods if she GETS SOMETHING IN RETURN. What will you give her in return? A punch in the head because you are so angry at women or the time of her life?

 

[ElCubanito13]

man you gotta just accept as life...(IMHO)

 

[Duffdog]

Well,

You know that there are other options besides being a pick up artist, right? You could become a cool guy who does something fun that attracts females naturally. I think that you would not have much time to hate chics if you were caught up in a hobby that was super exciting and took you places that you actually wanted to go.

 

[EFFORT]

Do some traveling outside of the usa. Meet non americanized women.


http://www.singleabroad.com/

 

[Tazman]

Feeling sorry for yourself is anti-life, it can lead some people to suicide. Honestly, no one is going to care about your problems more than you so you have to actively find ways to over come them.

Learning about human behavior, not just women, was my key to victory. Granted, I have a couple genetic gifts that helped (with women), but also some that hurt me. I found out what I had that I could use in my favor with women and I exploit that as much as I feel necessary.

Nothing beats direct observation and experience, that's how some of the theories I read about came to fruition. Go out there and and get yours.

 

[Prodigy746]

Am i the only one that found this extremely hilarious ???

"I am going to get some over the hill broad who is starting to shift into her less attractive years, finds some dude like me who is stable. Some old ass 30 year old ***** who has taken more shots to the face then Mike Tyson."

As far as advice, people before me did a good job of that so i am not going to add anything.

 

[IsiMan84]

Am i the only one that found this extremely hilarious ???

"I am going to get some over the hill broad who is starting to shift into her less attractive years, finds some dude like me who is stable. Some old ass 30 year old ***** who has taken more shots to the face then Mike Tyson."

As far as advice, people before me did a good job of that so i am not going to add anything.

Haha I have definitely seen less funny things in my lifetime, that's for sure.

 

[judoguy]

so far phat rabbit is the only good advice I have gotten. I know there isnt much to say, but I mean cmon.

"get over it" , "noone cares about your problems but you" , "find a hobby"

all valid points, but none really get to the crux of the problem.

 

[EFFORT]

so far phat rabbit is the only good advice I have gotten. I know there isnt much to say, but I mean cmon.

"get over it" , "noone cares about your problems but you" , "find a hobby"

all valid points, but none really get to the crux of the problem.

I gave you some amazing advice imo, the other advice is great, but like you said not really going to crux the problem. Traveling to places were the women haven't been programmed like american women will really change your life for the better.

 

[Warrior74]

PHAT Rabbit gave you solid advice. You can either take action or whine or shut up. You can choose to be happy with or without women or choose to be miserable with or without women. Those are you choices. It's that simple. Which do you choose?

 

[Interceptor]

Judoguy, you may have to think about allowing people to be themselves, and understanding that they have free will too.
Women dont owe you anything, and youre not entitled to anything of theirs either. Once you understand that and are peace with it you'll do much better in life, including the dynamics of attracting and enjoying female companionship.

Being bitter and resentful has more to do with feeling you havent been repayed for your investment so to speak. And that reeks of that entitlement mentality. If a woman isnt interested in you, you seem to really resent that. When the fact is that youre not attracted or interested in every woman youve ever seen or who may approach you.
Its not realistic to expect you to fall in love with every single female out there and give of all your precious resources to them, right?
Well, that applies to the female population as well.

Women who disqualify themselves should be out of your mind and heart, and not take up any of your attention, and take away your peace of mind.
But if you seem to be swept up by the power of the pvssy, then youll be more vulnerable, and more resentful if they dont reciprocate.
Dont be like that, man.
Dont place such an over investment in these complete, random strangers.
Dont over value some of these females who only look pretty , but offer absolutely NOTHING else to you.
Dont let them own your heart and mind, and emotions just because you need their validation and theyre not giving it to you.

Instead think about the potential woman who wants to be with you, and has given her heart and resources to you, and is making herself available to you.
Think about her. Be concerned with finding her. Not wasting time with these other females.


Dont put them in charge of your self esteem, and make them responsible for it either.
Think about these things, brother.

Good luck.

 

[Nutz]

Here's my $.02 on the matter. The OP is disgruntled because he keeps running into the 98.5% of women out there who are all the same: entitled, self-important, etc. I'd say take a trip outside the states to some place like South/Central America, Eastern Europe, or Asia and get some experience with foreign women, which is very refreshing and I like to do once a year to be reminded what quality, feminine, women are really like. If you don't end up attached to one (or more), then when you're in the States just keep shopping until you find the true gems that are out there. Until then just do what most of us here do and pump & dump. IMO that's all that 98.5% are good for, at least in the USA anyway...