I Hate My Life!!!

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I started off the weekend with two f--- buddies, both which like me,(the second oen has two close friends) two female friends I'm trying to get with, and my best friend, who's cool.

I finger f--- buddy #1 in the morning on Friday, then after my footblal game that same day she yells at me for not having commitment and never wants to speak to me again. F--- buddy #2 starts yellig at me for likgin other girls then her two friends, who are sort of my friends start calling me an ******* and tell me to stay away from all of them.

That's 4 friends down in a matter of 2 hours.

So I still have 2 girls I want. Things are cool right? Wrong. One just got a boyfriend and apparently "never had feelings for me". The other one, MY FRIEND is gonna start messing around with. This girl I like, Hottie, knew my friend first and liked him from the start, and they agreed to mess around. I just met her last week and I just started chatting her up when I offer for me to take her and my friend and some girl for him to see the matrix, and he says "naw, hottie is for me".

I feel like I have NO ONE. Any advice on how to fix my problems?
 

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Comeon mate, i know what you are a capable of. You know whats gone wrong, you have let your emotions control you, as soon as that happens you become reactive, get back in the drivers seat champ.
 

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Sebs- you are a victim of your own Success

i had actually thought that you were more of a relationship kind of guy

i gotta say that im reliveved to hear otherwise:D

of all ppl i cannot belive that you would be hookin up with more than one girl from the same school (correct?)

Girl #1 could def. come back

Girl #2 as well but it hurts that she has 2 friends influencing her decisions

the truth is that these ppl arent really your friends.

they obviously arent the coolest chicks ive ever read about aswell

dude time to meet some new girls. some of the best sarging i did was last yr (my senior yr.)

id just go up and talk to girls that i had seen but never talked to/ or girls that i hadnt seen in yrs.

both groups i think had a certain image of me, and when i went up and talked with them most were pretty suprized and excited that i wasnt the person they had labeled me as.

You are a popular guy in school right? Every girl (espically the 16yr olds) will do just about anythin to find out about you and why you are so "cool"

Don't worry about girls so damn much. just have fun with friends and do crazy **** that the football teams do (off the field).

i dont know about where u live but at my HS the football parties were crazy as ****.

also my "DJ sense" is picking up that you seem a bit too dependant on girls/sex to have fun/be happy
 

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Man, you need to relax a bit.

In your situation I would do either one of the next things:

1)Get a break from chicks for a while. There is life without them too.
2)Get NEW girls. **** those flaky ones you spoke about now!


If you a relationship type of guy like drix thought this is for you:
I always thought I wanted a girlfriend.
"Man it would be cool to have a girlfriend" that's what I thought.

haha, now I see only 2 good things in having a girlfriend. (no STD's).
I could eat ***** as much as I liked. And I could **** her without a rubber.
Those are the only good things I see having a girlfriend right now.

All the emotional stuff is just bullshiit.

If you don't want a girlfriend just get some new chicks.
Freshen up!


I know even the best DJ's get these mood swings. I've had them.
But if you see them as a mood swings yourself you can be that happy, DJ-self getting that fine booty anytime you like in no time!

Cheer up brother!
 

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you got 2 **** buddies at the same time, it went a bit pear shaped, now move on.

You can get through this, just forget about them and move on, simple simple.
 
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so you're letting a couple of girls dictate your emotions? come on bro! they were f*ck buddies. not your girlfriends, not your wives, not your mother...f*ck buddies. You don't get much out of these relationships anyways...you should know these things before you get into a f*ck buddy type of relationship. They just don't work out in the end. Move the f*ck on. They already did.


And that statement about, you feeling like you have no one..GAWDDAMN SON!!!! That's the most degrading sh*t you can say. You didn't have them to begin with bro. You aren't progressing much if you're feeling down over a couple sluts, because that's what they are. And you say you have no one, well you've got us, your siblings(if you have any), your parents, and other friends. From that weak AFC-reeking statement you're saying that you value a couple of mindless teenage girls over everyone else that only want the best for you. You offend me(not really).

Being a DJ means learning how to control your emotions and mood without being dependant on the actions of a female.

I'm not flaming ya, I'm just trying to give you the brutal truth about sh*t. now you can heed our advice if you want, it's up to you, and more power to ya on what you decide to do.
 

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thats not very cool, this guy posts a thread called "i hate my life" and the first thing we see is "i have two f*** buddies" i've never had two f*** buddies! how do you think i feel? or the rest of the world for that matter! you should be thankful that you are one of the topmost eschelon who has multiple f*** buddies.
 

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"One cannot know how nothing feels until he has lost everything."
 

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Originally posted by AC/DC
"One cannot know how nothing feels until he has lost everything."
actually bro, the saying is "only when you have lost everything, are you free to do anything."

You aint lost everything anyway have you, think about it.

You still got you health, still got a home got a computer,parents, friends?

your dtill alive, sort it out!
 

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Originally posted by AC/DC
"One cannot know how nothing feels until he has lost everything."
you are just pathetic

one bump in the road and your testicles fall off??

if you arent kidding then your better not be callin yourself a DJ.
 

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I reccomend that you either grow some balls, or buy a gallon of bleach and chug it. Just kidding.
 

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Originally posted by drixsa
you are just pathetic

one bump in the road and your testicles fall off??

if you arent kidding then your better not be callin yourself a DJ.
Yeah, at this point I agree.
What you really need AC/DC is a smack to your face. :mad:
 

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*scratches head*

You're pretty flaky, bro.

You need to take some time off and stop with the DJing. Might sound radical, but uh, give it a shot.

Read into Taoism and whatnot. Once you realize you have nature, you will realize that you have everything.

:) Good Luck

PS: Your arrogance proceeds you.
 

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Originally posted by AC/DC
"One cannot know how nothing feels until he has lost everything."
Right, and you sure as hell haven't lost everything so stop pretending like you're someone to be sympathized with.

Just to put your situation into perspective: you lost two f*ck buddies. Would you rather have lost your two parents? Your two best friends? Would you rather be blind? Paralyzed? There's a kid at my college who is paralyzed for life because last summer he sleepwalked out of a second story window. He had his whole life ahead of him, including college, possibly the best 4 years of life, and one morning he wakes up and realizes he's never going to walk again. How bad do you think he wishes he was so lucky to only have lost two f*ck buddies?

Come on man, you're one of the most respected posters on the board. Now set a good example for everyone else and stop whining about this stupid ****.
 

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May I join in and post these over-heard, under-rated quotes?

It's only after disaster that we can be resssurected. It's only after you've lost everything, that you're free to do anything.
Sorry to bring you this cliché, but whenever I run out of "options" I remind myself of that, and as soon as you really accept it, new opportunities start to appear to you out of the blue.

BBB
 

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I have huge nuts. :D

I made friends with all of them. Just need to figure out what I'm gonna do with Hottie.
 
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