I hate my girl friend's mother

backseatjuan

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My girl is a worthy person, beautiful, and such a nice personality, and over the past 10 months she proved to be a faithful and very promissing partner. She was pregnant, DNA still has to tell if it was mine or not, I'm betting on the latter. We went to Uzbekistan to give birth and frankly to leave the baby there. Her mother was ok with her leaving her baby to her (her mother), she even talked her out of abortion and out of leaving the baby at the hospital. So we went there and gave birth with plans to leave the baby to her mother. I do not blame my girl for leaving the baby, nor does it score any negative points with me.

Before we continue let me say that my girl is nothing like her mother. The only trait that she gotten from her mother is smoking cigarrettes, the rest is from her dad. Her sister is like her mother.

Her mother is a piece of sh`t. She had an ex husband which she divorced from because she got borred with him, and her ex husband (papA) is the coolest and most hard working guy I ever met. Her present husband (papB) is a cool guy too, but a bad boy. She left her hubby for a bad boy. Offtopic, buy ironic, papA now lives a nice life with a car and better appartment, while papB has no car and a sh`tty and small appartment.

As soon as we met she started putting bull sh`t on me. I got cautious. Then my girl gave a birth. Her mom started putting more bull sh`t on me, telling me that it is my baby. First by trying to tie together time lime, and she was wrong, then by suggesting that, get this, because we f'cked for so long 90% of DNA in that baby is mine. Got it? Doesn't matter if the baby is not from my sperm. I called her bull sh't out. Things become clear that this kind of sh't is not gonna happen with me. She started blaming me for her daughter leaving the 'poor' and 'defenceless' baby to her. Again I call her bull sh't out, and say YOU WANTED HER TO LEAVE YOU THE BABY, YOU WERE AGAINST ABORTION, YOU WERE AGAINST HER LEAVING THE BABY AT THE HOSPITAL.

Things got even more intense. She'd come to our place (we rented in Uzbekistan) and start throwing out provacations at me. My girl would go to her place and come back all tired and not wanting to have sex (bj) or do anything but sleep. Eventually I told my girl, either you coming here feeling alright, or you not going over to your mom, or I pack my bags and leave. She tried to come home feeling ok, but still I could see it was taking toll on her. Her mom f'cked her brains too.

It's the night before we fly (plane 7:40 am), we had to wake up at 3:00 am. Provacations grew expotentially. Her mom comes in and says point blank, why you need him, just leave him, cursing and yelling, and the baby is crying. My girl said enough, stop. They go outside, as my girl had to stay at her place for the night, to leave the baby. Her mother comes in, starts yelling at me, tells me I now leave you to GOD, blah blah, bloo bloo. I tell her point blank. LISTEN B'TCH, YOU TOLD YOUR DAUGHTER TO LEAVE THE BABY TO YOU, YOU TOLD HER TO NOT DO THE ABORTION, YOU TOLD HER TO NOT LEAVE THE BABY AT THE HOSPITAL, YOU SAID YOU GOING TO CARE FOR THE BABY. Don't blame me, I'm not in the wrong here. Then I shoved her out of the appartment and told her to get lost.

That evening there was more crap. She decided to keep her daughter's passport so she don't leave. Then she said she'll call her mafia friends and have me killed. My girl had to leave in tears from her place and come to me. Eventually I said ok we'll take the baby. Mother demanded that I leave her money for the feeding formula, I gave them $100. She got her passport and we left.

Of course I lied that I'm going to keep the baby. Not entirelly of course, I'll do a DNA test to see if it's mine. If it's mine, chances of that are f'cking slim, I'll keep it. If not, then no. I don't even worry that my girl would want to leave me if I say sorry honey, I want to raise my own children. This will never happen, she's too f'cking in love with me, IL 99%. But if the baby is mine I'll keep it - chances are slim because my girl said she was 1 month pregnant when we met. We met 22 December, she gave birth 10 August :crackup:

So anyway, in Russia we have Odnoklassniki, similar to facebook, only more involved IMO. Now that b'tch is talking sh't on there. I blocked her, and left her couple of messages. First telling that she put a bad eye on me and my gf, shaman had to burn more than one candle of get it off, and suggesting that she put a bad eye on the baby as well. :) Then I called her bullsh't on the mafia hit, suggesting that because she lied her own people would do her and burry her somewhere in the wide expanses of Uzbekistan. Third I told her that she wanted to keep the baby, and that she suggested her daughter don't do abortion and not leave the baby at the hospital, and since she said she'll care for the baby, I told her to do just that, and stop talking sh't, nobody wants to listen to her, nobody is scared of her.

That's what it is. I can't stand that b'tch.

What advice can you give me?
 
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She is really very strict to her daughter who is my girlfriend and i don't like that someone harsh to my love.
 

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#1 - Go get a DNA Test
#2 - If the baby is yours, decide whether to keep it or not
#3 - If you don't keep it, give it up for adoption to ANYBODY but her mother.
#4 - If you're fed up with both the baby drama and the mother drama, either move out of the country with your gf or leave her. You don't need this much 5hit in your life.

That child should be everyone's first priority, and it's getting passed around like a 5hitty diaper that nobody wants. In my opinion, none of you are worthy of being parents.
 

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backseatjuan said:
....Before we continue let me say that my girl is nothing like her mother. The only trait that she gotten from her mother is smoking cigarrettes....
I find that rather hard to believe. I bet if you spent many years with your girl, you'll find she and her mom have a lot more in common than you think. The best way to know a woman is by getting to know her parents.
 

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truth is, you want to see how you GF will be at future, look at her mom, if her mom give you that **** now you can bet you girl will give you that **** in the future, call it dna, call it living with the *****, truth is she will give this kind of **** to you, myself I would don't even get close to her for she being preg and would next her on that sole info, also the fact she don't care for teh baby is a red flag for me for personality issues, she will only create problems and let to someone else solve then, in case you,

do what desdinova says, but I would dump her before any more problem
 

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Uzbek citizenship is so treasured you made sure the kid was born there? Kinda like a Mexican in the US going back to El Ranchito, Sh1taloada to give birth: makes no fvcking sense at all.

The gf has a fine character, just that she's a slvt who got knocked up from a random pr1ck, found a random idiot to play wannabe daddy, and wants to have an abortion, or leave the newborn at the hospital, or dump it on the grandparents. Oh yeah. Fine character.

The mother lacks emotional control. Hmm. That's a common symptom of being inbred. In a culture with no concept of incest, I have to wonder if the gf has been used as a cvm toilet by her male relatives, and if one of them is the baby daddy. That would nicely explain the histronics they put on for an outsider like you.

The unilateral BS trip of:

suggestion --> putative promise --> broken promise

is pretty common from that part of the world. It goes hand in hand with the abusive BS of inventing something in the future that hasn't happened, blaming you for [not] doing it, and dumping on you for all of its ramifications. You know, like not raising your baby (in the future, which hasn't happened yet).

Your azz is being herded like a goat. Get to fvck away from the whole clan and especially the family cvm toilet you've been eating out.
 

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Desdinova said:
#1 - Go get a DNA Test
#2 - If the baby is yours, decide whether to keep it or not
#3 - If you don't keep it, give it up for adoption to ANYBODY but her mother.
#4 - If you're fed up with both the baby drama and the mother drama, either move out of the country with your gf or leave her. You don't need this much 5hit in your life.

That child should be everyone's first priority, and it's getting passed around like a 5hitty diaper that nobody wants. In my opinion, none of you are worthy of being parents.
this is like 100% off topic but i was at the store like 3-4 days ago getting tooth paste and stuff or what not and you know how like allt he medical stuff is grouped together

did you know you can get a paternity test from the store for like 10 dollars? that **** blew my mind. they sale it in a little box

i actually took my wife / then GF to the doctor when she was pregnant with our son. had i known this i would have came out ahead

there is no reason for a man not to get a paternity test. it's like literally the same price as a medium sized pizza
 

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backbreaker said:
there is no reason for a man not to get a paternity test. it's like literally the same price as a medium sized pizza
You're not neglecting all his sissy opinions and feelings about why he shouldn't do one. Those are infinitely more important than self respect and all that.
 

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You may want to double check that paternity test. The $10 is just for the kit, processing is extra. But you should be able to get one under $100.
 
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