I hate her friends

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So I finally met a gal worth keeping. But her friends are whiney elitist snobs who get on my damned nerves! Only problem is they have been pals since childhood and I dont wanna be a d!ckhead about this.

How do you guys handle this BS?
 

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Just try to avoid them as much as you can I guess.

My dad always tells my mom how much he hates her friends and even her sisters yet my mom always says he is the sexiest man she has ever met.:D
 

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you must destroy them... one by one...
mess with their minds...

be super nice to them one time, then another be a cold fish to them...

together we will crush the rebels who want to control us. order is better than chaos.
 
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Elitist? They have money! Do they look down on you because of your garbage picker status?

Why not challenge them with your wit and bring them down to size! Make sure you win though!

When they are around your girl stay home!
 

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Well if she is such long friends with them, then you are out of luck. You are an outsider to their group so either learn to live with her and the friends or NEXT.
Just remember ifyou piss off her friends and they start to dislike you they will eventualy turn her against you. Not saying you gota suave all of them, just that you gota at least keep neutral feelings between each other or else ...
 

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Originally posted by Don Ronny
So I finally met a gal worth keeping. But her friends are whiney elitist snobs who get on my damned nerves! Only problem is they have been pals since childhood and I dont wanna be a d!ckhead about this.

How do you guys handle this BS?

why do you want to be around her friends anyway? In fact why do you want to be around a womans friends peroid? Women are more then happy when you are not around. In fact, let your girl tell them everything and let them discover very little about you. Stay a mystry to her friends. All it takes is one nasty ***** (and most girls have a friend like that) that doesn't like you or is jealous and you can forget about the relationship.

Do your own things. In fact, do manly things in lieu of hanging out with her friends. For example, Go lift some weights or or drink some beer.

in other words take some advice from the DJ bible. "GET BUSY!"

Her friends mean nothing to you! get that in your head. They are just stupid hoes. The only girl you care about is yours anyway.
 

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That sucks man, i had a problem like that not too long ago. Her best friend was a total ***** with self esteem issues.

All her other friends loved me and even tried to hook up with me after we broke up :D

Here's some advice my mom gave me at the time, hope it helps:

Just imagine if you got married to this girl, and had to see her sociopathic friends every day of your life.

Is she really worth it?
If she hangs out with these types of people, it reflect poorly on her own beliefs.
 

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well, its defiantly not what Jake a intitor said.

See guys, we have to learn how to stop running from our problems. If your girl hangs with this type of crowd, first you have to decide one thing, is their something wrong with the crowd itself, or am I just making a big deal about this?

You tell me which one you think it is....and reply, and I will tell you what to do
 

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Did i say running away from our problems?

I said he should think about whether this girl is the type of person he would like to spend the rest of his life with.

If not, there's no reason to continue a relationship with her unless he just wants some puzzy.

Yes, i'm selfish but that is the definition of a jerk... you are a nice guy and your philosophy is to to eat puzzy no matter how dirty it is.

Keyboard Jockey PE strikes again.
 

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It is possible that they don't like you because you're taking their friend away from them. I would be nice to them, and it might drive them crazy. Theres something in the Bible about reaping hot coals of fire on peoples head, and how they won't be able to stand you being nice to them. I guess kill them with kindness kind of thing.
 

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i became really good friends with my gfs friends which worked to my advantage. i didnt really like them but tried to get on. i would some times go over to see them instead of my gf or go out for drinks with them if she was busy. this made her really jelous and always told me i was stealing her friends, eventually she stopped hanging around them as much which worked out better for me except for the fact that the gf always wanted to spend time with me and started to anoy my friends. maybe you could try getting close to her friends, if not i know a hit man that can solve many problems ;)
 

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Originally posted by 00Kevin
why do you want to be around her friends anyway? In fact why do you want to be around a womans friends peroid? Her friends mean nothing to you! get that in your head. They are just stupid hoes. The only girl you care about is yours anyway.
Good advice Double-O. This is pretty much what I do, and thankfully I don't see them that often. the problem is that we are living together now and I hate it when they come to MY domain and I have to deal with their bullsh!t. They actually like me since I make their friend so happy, but before we hooked up they were total snobs and I can't stand people like that. I really don't understand what my GF sees in them. I have a feeling this may make/break our relationship...
Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Elitist? They have money! Do they look down on you because of your garbage picker status?

Why not challenge them with your wit and bring them down to size! Make sure you win though!

When they are around your girl stay home!
They look down on anyone who is not in their circle. Stupid wh0res are not even rich or that good-looking so I don't understand the reasoning behind it...nor do I want to. All they do is complain non-stop..I just want to smack the sh!t out of them sometimes. So far I just avoid them and try to be civilly polite when they are around.

Originally posted by Jake-inator
If she hangs out with these types of people, it reflect poorly on her own beliefs.
This is my feeling. I am starting to question her values and it sucks because of all the girls I have dated, she has treated me the best and we have a very tight friendship. I already told her how I feel (not the full extent) and she understands, but these dumb hoes are like family to her...how can I argue with that?

Originally posted by darthsidious
you must destroy them... one by one...
mess with their minds...together we will crush the rebels who want to control us. order is better than chaos.
Yes, fear...hatred...anger growing stronger! Must construct laser-sword to vanquish Stupid B!tch Alliance!

Okay, maybe that's a little extreme...perhaps I should just bring some of my obnoxious friends by the house so she gets a taste of this as well...hmmm. The Dark Side is calling me.
Originally posted by duttylove
i became really good friends with my gfs friends which worked to my advantage. i didnt really like them but tried to get on. i would some times go over to see them instead of my gf or go out for drinks with them if she was busy. this made her really jelous and always told me i was stealing her friends, eventually she stopped hanging around them as much which worked out better for me except for the fact that the gf always wanted to spend time with me and started to anoy my friends. maybe you could try getting close to her friends, if not i know a hit man that can solve many problems ;)
Wow. Not bad at all! How much does he charge?
 

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You can always plant a seed of doubt in your gf's mind if she is really into you.

Be charming to her friends and pay closer attention to them then her when you all get together. Later on tell her that you think one of her friend's is being "extra nice to me for some strange reasons".

As we all know by now women friends are alot less loyal then male friends and are at a higher risk to backtab their friend if it means getting what they want. Your gf probably knows this and therefore she will try not to mix company next time.
 
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