I hate every one of you.

[ReallyGood]

Yeah so the first thing you think 'OMG TROLL ADKHADHIADHI" Shut up.


Listen to me. I lurked this forum for a long time. I see the worst advice that don't really help the person. Only the situation.

Here's how you get women and become a happy individual:

You must have hobbies you enjoy doing to blow off steam (bonus points if the hobby can be applied to the workforce)

You must be comfortable with oneself. (Easier said then done, we all have flaws. This is where hobbies come in. To priorities your pros rather then your cons. Sitting around asking for 'advice' on this forum only focuses you on your cons)

PUA's are douchebags. Don't be one.

You must adapt physical activity and maintaining personal health. (Work on your core if you arent the most strongest individual. You must incorperate and control your diet.)


Being in the environment that you were so used to will only gradually pull you back to your bad habbits. (Don't cut off the internet, but make the effort to make new friends. Take up hobbies/ a job)

Getting a job isnt as hard as you think. (You make a resume that shows your skills, lie if you have to. You have skills that can apply anywhere, just ****ing think. Then you go to a place that interests you. My dream job is in a Diner/Sit in Restaurant. Hand them your resume then go to another place similar.)


Cant think of anything else. Women arent hard or intimidating. When you get a life then you can start thinking about women the right way. All these "PUAS" they are just Douchebags. Really, they are just that.

Fix your life, when you are on the road of your life being great then women will be a piece of cake.

Ill answer any questions because I didn't cover or detail what I did cover the best I couldve.

 

[HeyPachuco!]

Huh?

You've said whats already been said countless times.

Self-evaluation/ love - regarding job/ hobbies/ inner-game. Everybody knows that helps, it doesn't mean you're or you will be succesful with women.

 

[ReallyGood]

Huh?

You've said whats already been said countless times.

Self-evaluation/ love - regarding job/ hobbies/ inner-game. Everybody knows that helps, it doesn't mean you're or you will be succesful with women.

"Inner-game"

Made me think your post is bad.


No, being successful with women is not hard at all. You have to be successful for YOURSELF.

BUT, people are doing it because of WOMEN.

**** women! They arent useful to you until you grow older.

 

[kingy]

this post just sounds angry,

you are attaching negative meaning to pua words like 'inner game' it doesnt matter how you describe something, words are abstract from essence.

i think most people on here no that you need to work on your life, also if you dont have experience talking to women, humour, confidence, social calibration then you need time in field.

everything in balance, i resent the all puas are douchbags - i think you just need a cuddle and some time on the tit xx

 

[HeyPachuco!]

You can have all the success you like in yourself and still be the average nice guy women don't love. I don't see how that hasn't been explained here?


When I say ''inner-game'' - I'm talking about making females run after ''you''. You can't have all the success's and be a robot and turn around and think you'll get women of your dreams. I'm sure the majority of guys here don't all want to be PUA's either but want to be successful WITH women, not for them.

Your rant is horsedung.

 

[ReallyGood]

this post just sounds angry,

you are attaching negative meaning to pua words like 'inner game' it doesnt matter how you describe something, words are abstract from essence.

i think most people on here no that you need to work on your life, also if you dont have experience talking to women, humour, confidence, social calibration then you need time in field.

everything in balance, i resent the all puas are douchbags - i think you just need a cuddle and some time on the tit xx

You sound like women are complicated. They aren't.

You people obviously like to overcomplicate easy subjects about life. **** WOMEN. DO NOT CHASE AFTER WOMEN.

If you actually have a decent, respectable life. Women that actually matter (hint, ones that are attracted to you) will become more an d more apparent.

Oh, PUAS are douchebags.

You can have all the success you like in yourself and still be the average nice guy women don't love. I don't see how that hasn't been explained here?


When I say ''inner-game'' - I'm talking about making females run after ''you''. You can't have all the success's and be a robot and turn around and think you'll get women of your dreams. I'm sure the majority of guys here don't all want to be PUA's either but want to be successful WITH women, not for them.

Your rant is horsedung.

What the **** is this?

Are you so unfulfilled that you need girls to run to you? Do you really desire having the entire female population want your ****?

Obviously compensating for something that you avoid mentally.

 

[KarmaSutra]

All these "PUAS" they are just Douchebags. Really, they are just that.

Fvcking bare-knuckled truth here.

I like this guy. Not afraid of admitting the world isn't fantasy fvcking pickup land.

 

[Nygard]

I don't get it buddy. Why do you care? Don't you realize that most of the people here WILL NOT lift a finger to help themselves? They're here because they want somebody ELSE to "fix" them.
Give them a program, a way to help themselves, an structured plan and they won't even consider it. Give them an inspirational speech and they will cry in glee because somebody might have fixed them (Man! Awesome words!!; You're my hero!!; So very true!!; I'll internalize this precious wisdom!), but they quickly find out that nothing really happened.They will just hate themselves a little more and wait for the next speech...or they can post a thread about how much of a failure they are in order to get some attention nobody is giving them.

 

[Tyson420]

My assumption is what PUAs do is follow a set game plan.

People with Natural game just go up to a girl say what's on their mind, PUAs approach a situation with a gameplan in their minds and through trial and error they use what works and what doesn't.

For this reason I think PUAs are quite sad. How hard is it to ask for a girl's number, you go through all these little plans in your head say quirky and gay things. (Probably because most PUAs are white people and they deal with white girls.) Just to get a ****ing number.

Just ask for it, no tell her to give it to you. "Give your number." That's it, she says no then walk away. You don't need an opener you find on the internet, what are those? Like pick up lines?

Lol. PUAs probably get rejected more than normal dudes do.

 

[Jitterbug]

One of the amusements of this place is that everyday, a new guy signs up and proceeds to tell everyone that they're all losers & he has the answer to all problems, then says the exact same things as every other guru before him or the DJ Bible.

Why do they do this?

 

[ReallyGood]

One of the amusements of this place is that everyday, a new guy signs up and proceeds to tell everyone that they're all losers & he has the answer to all problems, then says the exact same things as every other guru before him or the DJ Bible.

Why do they do this?

Because you people ARE losers and I DO have the answer.

 

[xdreamz]

the only thing ur reallygood at is showing how much of an idiot u are, how do u have the answer if there's no question... if u think that's the way to get girls then everybody in this world should have a girl then! PUA's don't deserve to be called dbags at least they have some ideas concepts that work.

 

[MyBloodyValentine]

i think its good advice. in my experience over the past year its the most important thing to do to get a sense of self confidence, self worth....and well, a fun life! that being said, i think there are still things guys, such as myself, will need to learn about women in social situations. just having a nice car or a successfull career wont do it all for you. i agree about PUA's but there is still good information.

if i followed your path i would be exactly where i am now but i still wouldnt know **** about kino, eye contact, approach anxiety etc.

 

[ReallyGood]

if i followed your path i would be exactly where i am now but i still wouldnt know **** about kino, eye contact, approach anxiety etc.

Thats just you not being confidient with yourself.

How do I explain something so simple to someone over complicating it?

JUST TALK TO HER

 

[DonJuan11]

Here's how you get women and become a happy individual:

You must have hobbies you enjoy doing to blow off steam (bonus points if the hobby can be applied to the workforce)

You must be comfortable with oneself. (Easier said then done, we all have flaws. This is where hobbies come in. To priorities your pros rather then your cons. Sitting around asking for 'advice' on this forum only focuses you on your cons)

PUA's are douchebags. Don't be one.

You must adapt physical activity and maintaining personal health. (Work on your core if you arent the most strongest individual. You must incorperate and control your diet.)

Being in the environment that you were so used to will only gradually pull you back to your bad habbits. (Don't cut off the internet, but make the effort to make new friends. Take up hobbies/ a job)

Getting a job isnt as hard as you think. (You make a resume that shows your skills, lie if you have to. You have skills that can apply anywhere, just ****ing think. Then you go to a place that interests you. My dream job is in a Diner/Sit in Restaurant. Hand them your resume then go to another place similar.)

Cant think of anything else. Women arent hard or intimidating. When you get a life then you can start thinking about women the right way. All these "PUAS" they are just Douchebags. Really, they are just that.

Fix your life, when you are on the road of your life being great then women will be a piece of cake.

Your advice is logical, but you can't be this blunt when you are dealing with people who have had problems with women their whole lives. Guys have had hobbies, great personal health, good job, good education, but when they don't know how to relate to women or touch them, there is a bigger issue at hand.

You can't generalize and say "Women aren't hard or intimidating". That's akin to Trump saying "making money isn't hard or intimidating" to a jobless guy or Tom Brady saying "football isn't hard or intimidating". It's all about perspective. Just because you are good at getting any sex from a girl doesn't mean the next person has to be. There are deeper more profound issues at play that you are not aware of.

 

[Dante420]

You sound like women are complicated. They aren't.

You people obviously like to overcomplicate easy subjects about life. **** WOMEN. DO NOT CHASE AFTER WOMEN.

If you actually have a decent, respectable life. Women that actually matter (hint, ones that are attracted to you) will become more an d more apparent.

Oh, PUAS are douchebags.




What the **** is this?

Are you so unfulfilled that you need girls to run to you? Do you really desire having the entire female population want your ****?

Obviously compensating for something that you avoid mentally.

Yes. Got a problem? :trouble:

 

[getready]

Thats just you not being confidient with yourself.

How do I explain something so simple to someone over complicating it?

JUST TALK TO HER

So true

 

[ReallyGood]

Your advice is logical, but you can't be this blunt when you are dealing with people who have had problems with women their whole lives. Guys have had hobbies, great personal health, good job, good education, but when they don't know how to relate to women or touch them, there is a bigger issue at hand.

You can't generalize and say "Women aren't hard or intimidating". That's akin to Trump saying "making money isn't hard or intimidating" to a jobless guy or Tom Brady saying "football isn't hard or intimidating". It's all about perspective. Just because you are good at getting any sex from a girl doesn't mean the next person has to be. There are deeper more profound issues at play that you are not aware of.

Justifying his fear and laziness.

 

[eaglez1177]

Lol yet another idiot who signs up on this forum just to give themselves an ego boost. No one cares if you have all the answers because they've already been said a million fvcking times on this forum. Anyone with half a brain would "know all the answers" if they lurked around on here.

Stick to your dream job in a fvcking diner. Lmao

 

[Just a Shot Away]

Justifying his fear and laziness.

Actually, DonJuan11 was pretty spot-on with his post. You can't tell someone that an act isn't hard or that it isn't easy, because everybody is different. Talking to girls is obviously easy to you, but that doesn't mean that it's easy to everyone else.

Playing Beethoven's "Waldstein" sonata is fairly easy to me, but it's known to be one of his harder works. Does this mean I get to walk up to you and say, "Playing technically complex piano works isn't hard or intimidating. JUST PLAY IT!"

Sounds absurd, doesn't it. See what I'm getting at here?