It happens to the best of us. Regardless of how good you give it to her, if she has it in her mind that she wants to cheat, then she's going to cheat.
Things happen! One moment you'll think "it's no way in the world my girl (whom loves me) would cheat on me" then it happens. Everything around you comes to a stand still as if you were performing a monologue on stage in a theatrical play. The only thing that repeats it's self in your mind is that moment your whole world came crashing down. You don't know whether to cry or laugh it off.
You don't have any backup plans to get revenge with because you eliminated them due to the fidelity that you had in the relationship. Insecurities are running wild and you're willing to forgive her rather than being alone. Even though she cheated, somehow she finds a way to manipulate the situation and blame you for her actions.
After the argument, she leaves you alone for hours while you waist countless hours trying to reach her on her cell phone that goes straight to voicemail. After many unsuccessful attempts trying to reach her, you grab your keys and drive by places she frequent looking for her car. Her car is nowhere to be found so you either call her friends or even her family.
The whole time this is going on, the thought of her being with the guy she cheated with again, increases the heart-rate that pounds the inside wall of your chest as if you there wasn't anymore room in your chest cavity.
Once reality sinks in, the world that you once roamed is somehow different, from the way it looks, to the way it smells. The status of your relationship is a big question so you turn to the Internet guidance.
(For beginners) You google advice on how to save your relationship and you find sosuave. Your first thought is that this will never work, but something about it sit has you craving for more. You lurk and you lurk until you decide what the H3LL and join up. Once you become a member this site is what you make it.
I Digress
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You've been here for five years, it just goes to show that regardless of how many tips you've learned to how many girls you've laid and how much advice you've given to other people you can still get cheated on.
Cheating is like an STD, no one is immune to it.