I hardly ever see girls when I go out

[flipflip]

Do I need to move to a bigger city? Some of the places I go are, parks, stores, restaurants, coffee shops and malls

 

[Jack22]

Do I need to move to a bigger city? Some of the places I go are, parks, stores, restaurants, coffee shops and malls

Usually they prefer the richer parts of town, some locations just like what you described. Friday afternoon and in the weekend I see the most girls around our age. I'm by the big apple though, so might be a little biased. Definitely the bigger cities.

 

[Billtx49]

Do I need to move to a bigger city? Some of the places I go are, parks, stores, restaurants, coffee shops and malls

A town of under 100K usually doesn’t cut it for casual day approaches. Social and religious circles is where it’s at in a small town. You didn’t mention bars/clubs/taverns/lake shore venues, beaches, have any of those up there ?

 

[biggoal]

A town of under 100K usually doesn’t cut it for casual day approaches. Social and religious circles is where it’s at in a small town. You didn’t mention bars/clubs/taverns/lake shore venues, beaches, have any of those up there ?

I agree. Not only size, but demographics too. Around here the median age is 55 and 57 years old in my region depending on the county. So naturally I don't see huge quantities of legal aged chicks around like you would in NYC naturally.

 

[Zimbabwe]

I've noticed this in Sydney too, it's a city of 5 million but no matter where i go put wether it be gym,shops,the park or the business district there is an overwhelming majority of men. I literally have photos to prove it too.

 

[biggoal]

I've noticed this in Sydney too, it's a city of 5 million but no matter where i go put wether it be gym,shops,the park or the business district there is an overwhelming majority of men. I literally have photos to prove it too.
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Is it possible due to Covid they're not going out nearly as much? I don't mean being hermits, but not going out and about like pre covid. I mean, ordering Grub Hub more, ordering online, etc and not going into stores as much. Recall what I said about women of all ages masking up, washing their hands more etc. Some women even wear rubber gloves when shopping I notice too.

 

[Zimbabwe]

Is it possible due to Covid they're not going out nearly as much? I don't mean being hermits, but not going out and about like pre covid. I mean, ordering Grub Hub more, ordering online, etc and not going into stores as much. Recall what I said about women of all ages masking up, washing their hands more etc. Some women even wear rubber gloves when shopping I notice too.

All these photos are before Covid, it's only gotten worse since then.

 

[SW15]

Do I need to move to a bigger city? Some of the places I go are, parks, stores, restaurants, coffee shops and malls

What's the population of the area where you live? Those places you listed would have women.

A town of under 100K usually doesn’t cut it for casual day approaches. Social and religious circles is where it’s at in a small town. You didn’t mention bars/clubs/taverns/lake shore venues, beaches, have any of those up there ?

Once a man turns 25, he needs to live in a place with a population larger than 150,000 if he wants to date and doesn't have a deep rooted social circle. Places with less than 100-150k tend to have a lack of choice in the single population, especially in one's 20s/30s.

 

[Charm2K]

Come on guys.... quit the excuses... you are are better than this.

 

[biggoal]

All these photos are before Covid, it's only gotten worse since then.

Here in the states the grocery stores and big box stores have contactless curbside pickup. They set the stuff in your back seat and you drive off. No going into the stores or interacting.

Lots of people using instacart too where they grocery shop and deliver thr goods right to your house from the grocery store. Publix down here is pushing that hard. Walmart also has curb side.

 

[MatureDJ]

I've noticed this in Sydney too, it's a city of 5 million but no matter where i go put wether it be gym,shops,the park or the business district there is an overwhelming majority of men. I literally have photos to prove it too.
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It's OVER for DownUnderCels.

 

[MatureDJ]

Come on guys.... quit the excuses... you are are better than this.

No we're not.

 

[Zimbabwe]

It's OVER for DownUnderCels.

This is why we became Chadstralya, men have to go to great lengths to get any decent action down here.

 

[Charm2K]

This is why we became Chadstralya, men have to go to great lengths to get any decent action down here.

"don't wish it were easier wish you were better"

 

[Tilex]

Write this down.....

Mondays, Tuesdays, Wednesdays are COLD Days.

Thursdays, Fridays, Saturdays are HOT Days.

Sundays are WARM Days.

What does this mean?

COLD days = Women are rarely seen in public.
HOT Days = Women are everywhere at all times of the day & night.
WARM days = Women are everywhere if no sports games are happening that day.

I live in a huge metropolitan city and these days have been consistent every week since the beginning of Covid.

 

[corrector]

That is because women can meet their chads on tinder and dont need to go out to meet average simp joes.

 

[MatureDJ]

This is why we became Chadstralya, men have to go to great lengths to get any decent action down here.

Australia was original a penile colony (pun intended), so it's always had both an oversupply of men, and the men there have been bad boys with hunter eyes, etc.

 

[anonymous12345]

That is because women can meet their chads on tinder and dont need to go out to meet average simp joes.

I think this is the brutal truth. There are a small percentage of men who are very busy and take the whole cake more or less. They got it all right, I'm sure: tattoos, the top notch body and hair line. I see this with disdain, and the lost art of actually talking with people in person, day game, approaching.

I had no luck with OLD, shut down my Tinder a couple of months ago and am very happy about that. All kinds of experiences with it have been crap: the dates has been bad, and the matches confirms hypergamy in the sense that the girls are way below my value, for instance heavily overweight. In addition, with girls in real life, one has to compete with the validation and attention they get from OLD/social media.

I'd say the best strategy against this grim situation is social circle game, where one can a little bit reduce/bypass hypergamy and demonstrate value.

But here's the thing. There are some high value men, some here on SS, that aren't simping on Instagram/Tinder/Onlyfans, but I don't think girls realise this. These men are found elsewhere...

 

[corrector]

I'd say the best strategy against this grim situation is social circle game, where one can a little bit reduce/bypass hypergamy and demonstrate value.

Would that still work though if the women within the social circle also have access to the internet and therefore have the same issues as woman do who are not in that social circle? Social circle game only works if you are the leader of the group and people look up to you there or you are missed from it if you don't show up and have a solid social profile. You also need a group where there is plenty of women who are young, single and available? Where would you realistically find that? Meet-up.com is not much of an option as its a sausage fest.

 

[biggoal]

That is because women can meet their chads on tinder and dont need to go out to meet average simp joes.

I went back on Tinder just to check it out. Mostly obese fatties, and women with lots of tats and piercings including some pregnant women and a couple trannies I saw. Very few thots I saw. Looked nothing like the women you see in the general public when out and about everyday.