I had the most fanicating convesation with a chick today

[synergy1]

What's interesting to me is that she isn't a skank. She works and goes home, she spends her free time taking care of her dad who is sick and working on her business, doesn't drink, doesn't party like clubbing party, if you could draw up a LTR personality, it's this chick. She's more of a square than my wife lol and my wife is pretty square. I think what i'm trying to say is, it has nothing to do with being a slut or a CCer.. this is just womens' nature. she's attractive and can get what she wants, and does or at least did.. she has a BF right now and he's not like that but i think it's like, she's not really all that into him it's like she's trying to make herself like him if that makes sense

Right, thats why my post was devoid of any sort of judgement on her behalf. Frankly I couldn't care if she likes to sleep with a ton of guys, or is the sweetest person in the world...you can't go against human nature. A generalization seems to be that women are attracted to this type and are bored by the effeminate type. What makes dating difficult for younger guys who are learning is that society tells them one thing, when in reality women want something else. Its not to say being an abusive ****head, but rather women would find most guys more attractive if they simply acted on their own accord and lived by their own set of rules.

On another note, I love southern cali women. Maybe your friend will be out and about next weekend (I doubt it, but whatever).

BB on a serious note where do women like that hang out in southern cali? Do they go to the bars? Other places? I've always liked the athletic smart type and want to know where they hang out. Last time I was there it felt like shooting fish in a Barrel there. Haha sorry for the thread derailment.

 

[disgustipated]

Dude, put your man pants on and understand what I'm saying as a man.

The ONLY point I'm making, which you're obviously embellishing in your own mind, is that when you post personal pictures on the web, you are opening yourself up to some idiot invading your personal life. That's precisely what happened.

If he had not posted those pictures, this would not have happened. The REALITY is that there are malicious people out there. Therefore, common sense tells me that my responsibility to myself, and those within my sphere, is to avoid posting unauthorized pictures of any of them on the web. On another note, it's all about attention, brother, and seeking attention can really bite you in the ass, really hard. This chain of events was entirely predictable.

Everything you said in your post is true, but your points have nothing to do with my point. BB holds some responsibility for what happened, because he opened himself up to the possibility.

Fair enough. I understand your side completely and is why I would never post a pic if anyone else. I think I had a disagreement once on a forum on MySpace years and years ago. The guy looked through my friend list, found a profile pic if a good female acquaintance of mine and proceeded to rip her apart pubiclly for the beef he had with me. Luckily it didn't get back to her. I would have felt like ****.

My post in hindsight is for the ****hewd that did this who is undoubtedly still reading this thread. I know reality is a ***** and internet reality removes real.life cosequences mist times. Meh, just frustrated with the whole thing lately.

 

[zekko]

that's why i don't and never will post pics of ****, including my wife on this forum. someone contacted her from this forum.

Hate to say this, BB, but you did post a picture of your wife on here. I remember seeing it.

Anyway, this is why I will never post pictures on here, or anywhere else for that matter. And some guys want to give you sh!t for not posting pictures. Lol, yeah, no thanks.

 

[backbreaker]

you are right zekko. and she saw it and told me she doesn't want me to do it again. and she's right. that's a line i'm not going to cross.

BB on a serious note where do women like that hang out in southern cali? Do they go to the bars? Other places? I've always liked the athletic smart type and want to know where they hang out. Last time I was there it felt like shooting fish in a Barrel there. Haha sorry for the thread derailment.

The only place you'd meet her is is the gym or her job. she really doesn't do much else. That's why day game is so important.

we were talking about it one day how guys suck at talking to women, like, she will see a guy who she knows good and well is checking her out and then they will chicken out and how guys suck at talking to women these days.

 

[backbreaker]

more than anythnig I suppose is that it just reminds me how much of what you read in the DJ/PUA community is utter bull**** and a lot of guys problems are simply that they refuse to work on themselvea dn end up having to recycle trash in and out


I know just how hard this girl works on her look. she spends 1 full day a week prepping healthy food for the entire week. she had a brownie one day and damn near cried becuase she thought she was going to gain 1 pounds instantly lol. in the gym 5 days a week from 5pm to 6:30 like clockwork. weights, drinks her water, etc. she wasn't born skinny she works at it. hard.

then you see these guys who come here and think with a few lines and some new shoes and a bull**** ****y / funny routine that they can pull a girl like that. make endless "looks matter" thread instead of hitting the grocery store and the gym. They want to pull the girl that hits the grocery store and the gym, without themselves hitting the grocery store and the gym. Her and my wife, are more disipline that i will ever be with my diet. I eat clean but i cheat as well. they don't cheat, hardly ever. then, those are the same dudes that call girls shallow when in reality they just don't want to work for anything. they want ***** on a platter so to speak.

 

[Solomon]

erm BB how come you got pics of another women though fam?

U GOT SOME EXPLANING TO DO

:crackup:

:crazy:

that's why i don't and never will post pics of ****, including my wife on this forum. someone contacted her from this forum.

bunch of ****ing faggots on this damn website.

ROFLLLL

I wish this was a joke but I belive you. This "detective" behavior happens a lot on forums, bodybuilding.com is a good example of that. If people were to see what their "favorite" poster really behaved/looked like and acted in real life. They would disregard that peson switfly. This is why I laugh everytime I see a guy only post in these types of threads

--Feminism
--Politics
--Hypergamy
--all women svck

But they never post in Journals offering their own experinces

Once you realize why these guys don't post field reports it all makes sense

(No reason for me to post the video footage for the 500th time of a 10 year high rep sosuave member having a mental breakdown in a middle of a rooftop bar:crackup: )

ON ANOTHER NOTE!

I would bend that little "Becky" over and introduce to my ding dong in various postions that would make a yoga instructor blush

:cheer:

:crackup:

 

[Atom Smasher]

BB, do you know who actually did this? I want to determine if it's an actionable offense.

PM me if you want to discuss.

 

[backbreaker]

No and even if i did, I don't snitch.

Lesson learned however.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

I was like babe you are my home girl and all, but i got to call you on that bull**** right there

You need to stop looking underneath every leaf and behind every rock to sniff out some kind of vast female conspiracy against men.

Jesus.

It IS entirely possible to feel sympathy for somebody WITHOUT feeling any responsibility or need to do anything about it.

I can feel sorry for some ugly fat chick at the club because nobody's hitting on her, but that does NOT mean I feel any OBLIGATION whatsoever to take her home and bang her.

Of course, if you think that women somehow OWE men something, simply because you want them to, I can see how you'd imagine that.

Despite how many alleged "DJ's" think otherwise, nobody owes anybody anything.

That's life.

 

[backbreaker]

You misunderstand my point if you think that's my point

I am the lead man in the fight of you get what you deserve. You will never hear me say otherwise

what i'm saying is that, this chick, talks about how she wants something, yet, still goes back and does the same thing over and over again. She keeps talking about how she hates how certain guys treated her wrong yet she kept dating them, then talks about she feels bad for all the good guys out there lol. Then date one.

But I don't thinks he owes good guys anything. No more than I owe a nice woman i'm not attracted to anything.

 

[Boilermaker]

No and even if i did, I don't snitch.

Lesson learned however.

My man, bb.

We have had our differences due to my growing up, but as I mature, I find myself more and more in agreement with him.

Of course, I am not the idiot who contacted his wife by the way so this is not an apology or anything.

BB, honestly, though the first two pictures of her weren't at all pretty.

But I agree with your point.

Edit: And why the hell do you have porn in your photostream, lol?

 

[backbreaker]

various sites I want to show clients but we haven't had time to actually code them in HTML to put them up on our demo server so I just take a jpeg of the design and put it on my photoshop and send the link to the client

 

[user43770]

BB, honestly, though the first two pictures of her weren't at all pretty.

I saw one and I thought she was pretty fvcking tight. I guess I need to go to Purdue and see what those chicks are about. They probably aren't better than Florida State, where I went.

 

[dangdang]

I don't normally post pictures of my clients on the inter webs, but when I do I make sure their face is easily identifiable!

Jesus Christ

 

[sodbuster]

I don't worry about what women or the guys on this site think, BUT some guy here needs his azz kicked

 

[Atom Smasher]

I know bb wouldn't want to snitch and he doesn't know who did it anyway but if I ever find out who did it I'm going to nail him (or her) hard.

Everything's fair game on the Interwebs (after all, it's just words), but when someone invades one's real life that's entirely unacceptable and an act of aggression in my book.

 

[Albatross953]

Another forum I was on built a private area, for long standing members. It gave us a safe harbour. Empitanes (sp) is also on that one. Worked really well for keeping private stuff private.

 

[jafyk]

that's why i don't and never will post pics of ****, including my wife on this forum. someone contacted her from this forum.

bunch of ****ing faggots on this damn website.

Whaaaaaaat? Well, you didn't provide her name, # and address or your real name either. How did someone find her? Oh and the word is "Fascinating"

 

[MatureDJ]

various sites I want to show clients but we haven't had time to actually code them in HTML to put them up on our demo server so I just take a jpeg of the design and put it on my photoshop and send the link to the client

It probably would behoove you to set up separate personal & professional accounts. Even if the porn shots are for your website business, you should probably have separate business accounts - one for porn stuff, and one for regular stuff (unless you only do websites for pornsites :crazy:.) You may have a client that is a black Obama supporter who wouldn't be too thrilled at that one pic.

I take it that you are an Arkansas fan that is active at the LSU Tiger Droppings site?

 

[FairShake]

Dude, I would fix your photo stream. Delete some things know what I mean.