I had the most fanicating convesation with a chick today

[backbreaker]

ONce again, sosuave leaves them defenseless


I have a female client. she's very pretty. I've posted pictures of her before

http://rs781.pbsrc.com/albums/yy99/ghostzapper/photo_zps820398db.jpg



http://rs781.pbsrc.com/albums/yy99/ghostzapper/photo1_zps357b5fb8.jpg

she's a pretty girl. about 5'5, ripped, worksout daily, can probably bench more than most guys on this forum lol. over the last few months this has become my little home girl.

so I'm at starbucks and she is by and decides to come visit me on her lunch break so we are stting there and we start talking and the subject of dating comes up.

she talks about how happy (yet is popping up to see me in starbucks lol, we aren't even talking about work anymore) she has a boyfriend who is "not in the club scene" and how she hates all these guys who go to the clubs in their 30's and 40's and how they fist pump about banging broads in clubs and how she hates that. She dated too many men like that and don't like it

I' m like okay, but why do you think men do that? Do you really think men are born to be *******s or do you think women drive them to that point to some extent? She's like backbreaker you are different you aren't like most guys (lol, i'm just not trying to **** you that's the only difference), most guys just want sex and i've dated all these guys who treat me like **** and I'm just happy i don't have to deal with that anymore, I feel bad for all the good men out there

I'm like well ****, if you felt bad for them why the **** didn't you date one of them. apparently you didn't feel bad enough because you have said yourself 2 times now how you kept dating douchebags. She is a very very pretty woman in real life i see her get hit on all the time when i'm with her i seriously doubt it was because she couldn't FIND a good man. she wasn't interested in them like that. she wanted her douchebags lol.

so then this same guy goes his 20's looking at chicks like her and getting shut down and finally is in position party, like you've parted for the last 10 years and you want to ***** at him for doing the same thing you did because you are now ready to settle down? I was like babe you are my home girl and all, but i got to call you on that bull**** right there

 

[SAYNO]

Wow really?

Man this female is a Hb6 at best on the scale, she almost looks like a dude to me
Oh well, to each his own..

 

[VladPatton]

Translation: "I feel so bad for all the nice guys that get rejected by good looking cünts for sport...but I sure as fück ain't gonna give'em the time of day"

 

[020204]

I wouldn't say she looks like a bloke but I am very sure she is the type who likes to hang with guys. If she benches as much as some guys she must be saucing, or the guys must be piss weak judging by those pictures I think she looks fairly fit.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear B squared,
That is some Woman....A night with her and a green apple would see me out I think....yes I believe she could Bench Press more than the average Joe....But tell me is she Svexually normal?....I once had a relationship with an English Woman who was a Cleaner...She once tore my rotator cuff in an arm wrestle...much more powerful than this Girl,and good in the sack when it suited her!

 

[backbreaker]

I wouldn't say she looks like a bloke but I am very sure she is the type who likes to hang with guys. If she benches as much as some guys she must be saucing, or the guys must be piss weak judging by those pictures I think she looks fairly fit.

she's about the most girly girl i know lol. she owns a women's fashion boutique shop. this is her "normal"


http://rs781.pbsrc.com/albums/yy99/ghostzapper/Mobile Uploads/dgb_zps6083db25.jpg

the photos i showed in the OP were from the gym, with her hair up, no makeup and sweats on. she's always sending me photos after what she thinks is a good workout so i can see her "Guns' Lol. she's a gym rat but extremely feminine. seriously she benches about 140-145 she went to the gym with me one day she's got game to be a girl. I was saying that because most guys that don't go to the gym probably can't bench 135-145.


more and more i'm starting to believe that guys here just jack off to porn lol.

 

[disgustipated]

Most guys that don't go to the gym can't bench 140? Is this a joke? Srs.

For what she said, good u called her out. But I wished you woulda went deeper...she's feeling dat wall approaching....rode the carousel with the douche/aholes for as ling as possible, got none to commit, eyeing up provider nice guys for backup plan phase 2 type ****t, has to please hamster so verbalizes this feel bad for nice guys routine, will prolly **** guys like you or same aholes on side when she finds nice guy provider.

Get really real on her.

 

[backbreaker]

that's why i don't and never will post pics of ****, including my wife on this forum. someone contacted her from this forum.

bunch of ****ing faggots on this damn website.

 

[disgustipated]

Yeah that's not cool at all.

 

[disgustipated]

Man you can not like a dude or what he has to say all you want....but there is such a thing as guy code. Whoever did that is fuct up and don't operate on any guy code...aka is the real *****. You talk shop with your boys and you leave it in the shop or lockeroom. We can't even have that anymore amongst guys?

Maybe these women have it right....there ain't no real men left....or fewer.

Sorry you had to experience that Bb. I don't always like or agree wit what you say, but I would never be malicious like that man. Sucks.

 

[backbreaker]

i mean i got ot handled; it's not like i'm ****ing her or anything, it's not even like i painted her in a real bad light, but still, that's some bush league stuff.

Solomon as much **** as he gets, is very right about this forum. there are alot of people here, who are real life dorks who don't' get it and never will get it. Actions like this proove such. Only a true dork would do some **** like this. And these are the people you are trying to talk to about "game"

lol and just think.. if these are girls that are my "friends" just imagine how bad my WIFE is lol. oh she's bad. even at 35 she looks better than this chick. you dudes will never know though

 

[switch]

that's why i don't and never will post pics of ****, including my wife on this forum. someone contacted her from this forum.

bunch of ****ing faggots on this damn website.

seriously? who would do that...its awkward...... lol what a fvcking faggot.....just shows that the guys on this site are pvssythirsty mofos lol.
thats the reason i dont post pics either. :crackup:

as for girls ,its useless to argue with them.they all think that they are this holy gender and men are all dogs.

other day i had to bend down to get my pen and this cvnt says "boys will always be boys, you just tried to look up my skirt! dont look!"
im like wtf? i didnt even see this cvnt,i just want my pen lol.same b!tch came to my birthday party acting like a cvnt bag, only reason i didnt kick her ass out was because i didnt want to ruin the party mood for my friends.

 

[Atom Smasher]

Man you can not like a dude or what he has to say all you want....but there is such a thing as guy code. Whoever did that is fuct up and don't operate on any guy code...aka is the real *****. You talk shop with your boys and you leave it in the shop or lockeroom. We can't even have that anymore amongst guys?

Maybe these women have it right....there ain't no real men left....or fewer.

Sorry you had to experience that Bb. I don't always like or agree wit what you say, but I would never be malicious like that man. Sucks.

This isn't a closed shop or a locker room. It's a public, Google-able forum.

Honestly, don't any of you think it's questionable judgment to post pictures of people you know up on a public forum? Sure, the guy who busted bb is a douche, but the Interwebs are full of douches, and everybody knows that. It's a given. Therefore, it should be easy to foresee this eventuality.

 

[020204]

She sounds legit I like that kind of girl, saw one kind of like that where I train the last few weeks. I get put off girls who juice, so I didn't mean to sound so presumptuous. Girls that have the kind of mindset about hitting the weights never hit the wall, hats off to her.

 

[user43770]

I looked at the picture, but the only thing that came to mind was herd mentality. lol at women buying expensive caffeinated drinks when they work out. It's like it's part of the outfit.

 

[disgustipated]

Yup I have sense enough to not post pics Atom Smasher. So what. It's more than the internet is full of dbags. This person first had to most likely not like BB. That's where it should end. You either don't click on his threads or debate him, whatever....that should be the extent of it. It goes beyond being just a dbag to then go and possibly have to FIND this girl or even contact her if you already know her....that's malicious and similar to how women operate when they wanna get even.

Do you know why WOMEN operate like that? Slash tires, calling your current girl, fake preggers and all sorts of ****? Cuz they can't do anything physically to us, there's no implied threat there. THAT is why men have rarely not resorted to this type of thing, its not how we handle things. So this person is not behaving how a man does or should. Guys in a guy setting typically knock off the ahole persona because there is always the implied threat things could get physical. As it should be. We have checks and balances, men. Those who skirt around the rules and operate like a rat who steals cheese and puts on outward appearances of being one of the guys are the lowest.

For all his seeming bragging, he does impart good info, BB is still one of the guys and operates within guy code. Didn't deserve that.

 

[synergy1]

I am with BB on this one- I'd LOVE to see the types of women that the posters get who think that the pictures of that women aren't hot. I would put my entire net worth on the fact that the naysayers have never been with a better looking women. I see it in my life too...the guys who never get women are the first to mention how ugly an attractive women is ...perfectly normal defense mechanism because its easier to hate what they can't get than to have any amount of adulation. Its more and more difficult to have civil discussions about dating women here because frankly no one seems to. Like I am not the best at the dating game right now but I would put myself well above 95% of the people here which does not bode well. It would be like the blind leading the blind.

Back to the OP. Women do not want a boring nice guy. They want the type of guy who provides a challenge in some regard - people call them douchebags. A more accurate way to describe them would be guys who do what they want and don't care about offending other people. Both men and women say one thing, and mean another. Women more so than men will complain about something but never do anything about it. Sure, she might not like the emotional drain of dating guys like this, but she keeps doing it and won't change. (Can't change). Its human nature. You can't force attraction, and you can't go against nature.

 

[Atom Smasher]

Yup I have sense enough to not post pics Atom Smasher. So what. It's more than the internet is full of dbags. This person first had to most likely not like BB. That's where it should end. You either don't click on his threads or debate him, whatever....that should be the extent of it. It goes beyond being just a dbag to then go and possibly have to FIND this girl or even contact her if you already know her....that's malicious and similar to how women operate when they wanna get even.

Do you know why WOMEN operate like that? Slash tires, calling your current girl, fake preggers and all sorts of ****? Cuz they can't do anything physically to us, there's no implied threat there. THAT is why men have rarely not resorted to this type of thing, its not how we handle things. So this person is not behaving how a man does or should. Guys in a guy setting typically knock off the ahole persona because there is always the implied threat things could get physical. As it should be. We have checks and balances, men. Those who skirt around the rules and operate like a rat who steals cheese and puts on outward appearances of being one of the guys are the lowest.

For all his seeming bragging, he does impart good info, BB is still one of the guys and operates within guy code. Didn't deserve that.

Dude, put your man pants on and understand what I'm saying as a man.

The ONLY point I'm making, which you're obviously embellishing in your own mind, is that when you post personal pictures on the web, you are opening yourself up to some idiot invading your personal life. That's precisely what happened.

If he had not posted those pictures, this would not have happened. The REALITY is that there are malicious people out there. Therefore, common sense tells me that my responsibility to myself, and those within my sphere, is to avoid posting unauthorized pictures of any of them on the web. On another note, it's all about attention, brother, and seeking attention can really bite you in the ass, really hard. This chain of events was entirely predictable.

Everything you said in your post is true, but your points have nothing to do with my point. BB holds some responsibility for what happened, because he opened himself up to the possibility.

 

[backbreaker]

AS is correct this doesn't happen if i don't post her pictures. I can respect that point of view because it's correct. We are in fact men here and we don't pass the buck.

But at the same time, it's not any less ****ed up, I guarantee you it own't happen again lol. I don't want to hear **** from anyone again on the subject of pictures.

 

[backbreaker]

AS is correct this doesn't happen if i don't post her pictures. I can respect that point of view because it's correct. We are in fact men here and we don't pass the buck.

But at the same time, it's not any less ****ed up, I guarantee you it own't happen again lol. I don't want to hear **** from anyone again on the subject of pictures.

Back to the OP. Women do not want a boring nice guy. They want the type of guy who provides a challenge in some regard - people call them douchebags. A more accurate way to describe them would be guys who do what they want and don't care about offending other people. Both men and women say one thing, and mean another. Women more so than men will complain about something but never do anything about it. Sure, she might not like the emotional drain of dating guys like this, but she keeps doing it and won't change. (Can't change). Its human nature. You can't force attraction, and you can't go against nature.

What's interesting to me is that she isn't a skank. She works and goes home, she spends her free time taking care of her dad who is sick and working on her business, doesn't drink, doesn't party like clubbing party, if you could draw up a LTR personality, it's this chick. She's more of a square than my wife lol and my wife is pretty square. I think what i'm trying to say is, it has nothing to do with being a slut or a CCer.. this is just womens' nature. she's attractive and can get what she wants, and does or at least did.. she has a BF right now and he's not like that but i think it's like, she's not really all that into him it's like she's trying to make herself like him if that makes sense