i had sex (no condom) should i worry

[DJ Suave]

greetings ppl.

i got totally wasted the other night and ended up having sex with a really unattractive girl.. now here s my dilemma...

i used the withdrawal method and came over her stomach.. should i worry about her being pregnant. she is definately well over-weight, smokes and drinks (i no these all negatively effect a womans chances to conceive)

pls help put my mind at rest

 

[wayword]

Well, I wouldn't just worry about pregnancy...but also STDs.

Chlamydia, HPV and herpes may be the most common. Keep in mind the latter 2 and HIV are viruses and thus incurable by modern medicine. And 1/5 of people have genital herpes, btw.

Many infected people also don't bother telling their partners, especially ONS, out of shame. Read some of the stories here if you want to know how real people deal with this. And as promiscuous as girls are these days, you might as well have gone bareback with a hooker.

Well, don't get paranoid, but don't feel invincible, either.

 

[Uro.Essence]

Id say you have a 50/50 but if most of the load was shot on her stomach i wouldn't worry, just don't do it again lol

 

[penkitten]

unbelieveable. where are my tax dollars going?
i thought they were going to the clinic to pay for freebie condoms!

 

[Sexual]

Well c'mon now, we've been in that situation. If you're there in the first place you're obviously wasted, and all a girl has to do to talk you out of a condom is "I'm on birth control".

NEVER do that again. The chance you'll get herpes from another sexually active person is astounding right now. That should be your only concern.

Don't worry yourself because chances are that a fat chick that puts out that much is on birth control.

 

[donjuanjovi]

I would personally be more worried about everyone finding out I slept with a fat ugly chick who smokes. I don't think you should worry about it. Depending on her cycle and the fact that only a few hundred sperm made it into her, the chances are small. Like the other guys said, I would be more worried about croch rot and the other crap some of these modern day whoooores are carrying around.

 

[krasnyiLion]

okay let me give you some bad news

even with the withdrawal method, you can get a girl pregnant.
when there is stimulation to the penis the penis lubricates itself this is generally called prec*m, there are sperms in this fluid which can get a girl pregnant. Also sperm comes out of the penis without us feeling it when we are having s*x, what we do feel is the orgasm that shoots out the major load.
so in other words YEAH YOU CAN GET A GIRL PREGNAT

AND YOU COULD GET AIDS, clamydia, gonorrhea, ciphillis, and other yummy diseases

I WOULD BE WORRIED

 

[Teflon_Mcgee]

FYI, the Morning After Pill is now available over the counter. Just ask the pharmiscist.

You may have got the drip but that doesn't mean you have to be tied to a fugg for the rest of your life.

 

[Uro.Essence]

that's incorrect, there is sperm in Precum, but 99.9% of the time its dead sperm. The point of precum is to clean the urethra from the acidity of your urine so semen is released to flush it out aswell as the old sperm caught in the urethra (most of which is dead if not all). This also is not what lubricates the head of the penis. Semen is used to self lubricate the penis and no sperm is contained in semen.

Please Do not give advise that is false unless you have attended years of Schooling to learn about it, or have fully researched it to all extents and opinions. There is no need to make him worried over something based on false fact.

BottomLine there is only about a .1% chance if infact you did pull out in time that she could be pregnant.

 

[krasnyiLion]

I dont understand how you can have years of schooling as you say on the matter and still be ignorant of the fact that the penis does release sperm prior to the orgasmic ejaculation.

0.1% chance, give me a break
withdrawal is a s*cky method of contraception.
you can never pull out in time, because you release sperm before you feel like you are doing so.

 

[Uro.Essence]

Pre *** is released before major ejaculation but all precum is is a solvent with no sperms within it, all it does is clear out the urethra which contain dead sperm, no living sperm unless he has ejaculated within the past 5 minutes before . I'm not endorsing withdrawal method as a contraceptive its not safe, sometimes you dont pull out in time and you get some sperm in her, but precum does not contain living sperm cells.

The basis you are reffering to was something the medical practice of old told parents and children so they would not take the chance of using the withdraw method. They just perceived the method to be more risky so less people would practice it so now many older people believe it to be still true, when it's proven not to be.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

I wouldn't worry about it. Chances are low to none that she would get pregnant, off of that encounter. Don't do it again. Don't let girls talk you into doing it without a condom, even if they say they are on the pill. Just imagine how many guys they are telling that, and all the guys that will go for it because it feels better and she won't get pregnant. Ridiculous, I know.

Chances of getting an STD like herpes are also low based on one ecounter. There is a higher chance you already have it and not know it because you don't show symptoms. 1/5 people are carriers. BUT DON'T WORRY ANYMORE. DON'T DO IT AGAIN.

 

[krasnyiLion]

Pre *** is released before major ejaculation but all precum is is a solvent with no sperms within it, all it does is clear out the urethra which contain dead sperm, no living sperm unless he has ejaculated within the past 5 minutes before . I'm not endorsing withdrawal method as a contraceptive its not safe, sometimes you dont pull out in time and you get some sperm in her, but precum does not contain living sperm cells.

The basis you are reffering to was something the medical practice of old told parents and children so they would not take the chance of using the withdraw method. They just perceived the method to be more risky so less people would practice it so now many older people believe it to be still true, when it's proven not to be.

if what you say is true, then i have been taught wrong, quote your sources
i will check it out.

by the way i am 21, so not so old here
what is your specialty

 

[DJ Suave]

thanks for your advice- i've not done this before and its not something that i intend to do again!!!!! should i still get checked out anyway?

 

[ValleyDJing]

I dont understand how you can have years of schooling as you say on the matter and still be ignorant of the fact that the penis does release sperm prior to the orgasmic ejaculation.

I don't see how he can have years of schooling on the subject based of the fact that he's only 20! Like shouldn't you still be going to your little junior college trying to get your general ed out of the way like the rest of us?

 

[Scorched]

She sounds like trash...
I'd be more worried about an STD...

I also learned this lesson the hard way about a year ago...
For the longest I didn't have sex. I suggest you do the same.
Condoms are cheap dude... Bring them to parties...

 

[Uro.Essence]

I live in Canada, i already have 3 years of my Uni done to get My M.D/Ph.D and my father is a Doctor, while my mother is a relationship counselor. Thats how I'm not talking out of my ass.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

thanks for your advice- i've not done this before and its not something that i intend to do again!!!!! should i still get checked out anyway?

Don't worry about it. Shezz does it all the time, and like most people, he probably doesn't show the symptoms, althoug anybody who sleep around without a condom, has been exposed to a lot of nasty stuff.

If you worry too much about it, you will start getting similar symptoms as if you had something. I am not kidding, the mind is very powerful. Stress can cause you to get rashes, itching, etc. If you get symptoms, then go get checked. You are ok.

 

[Badmannaz]

DUMBA$$!!!!!!!!!!!!!!





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lay off the southern comfort..or w/e you was drinkin...**** like this happens....well atleast you bust a nut

 

[Scorched]

I live in Canada, i already have 3 years of my Uni done to get My M.D/Ph.D and my father is a Doctor, while my mother is a relationship counselor. Thats how I'm not talking out of my ass.

Gawd Damn... Gimme your phone number so I can call you when I need to and ask for personal advice. Hehe JK