I've always said I'd take the money if given the choice between women and money. Money gives you a wide variety of options, whereas a woman is nice to have, but still only fills the sex/companionship void. But there's no reason you have to have only one or the other, you're the one limiting yourself.
I can understand how you can still be messed up from being fat when you were younger. Those early inner issues can be tough to deal with. If you didn't make so many obnoxious narcissistic statements, you'd be a more sympathetic figure.
the lack of dating life in my high school and college years scarred me/traumatized me tremendously and also stunted my social development quite a bit
At this point, I've overcome a lot of that but the level of difficulty in getting dates has skyrocketed from reasonable to astonishingly high between high school/college to now simply because I'm not around young people my age all day long