I had a flirt session the other day. Ran into her again today. What to make of her behavior?

[SW15]

As for the resources I provided, he said he is open to reading them, but whether he actually follows through is another story. Our framework—covering women’s hypergamy, AWALT, **** tests, agree and amplify, and so on—requires a baseline of understanding and a willingness to apply it. Without that foundation, I’m not sure how far he’ll get. If he’s serious, he’ll dive in, but if not, he’ll likely find reasons to dismiss it.

While I have never read The Book of Pook in its entirety, I can endorse The Rational Male. Even though The Rational Male was published in 2013, it is still very relevant in the mid-2020s.

 

[GoodMan32]

Like I mentioned before, it seems like he’s more focused on seeking validation for his frustrations rather than genuinely working on self-improvement. I think his behavior is about more than just struggling with women—there’s likely deeper stuff, like unresolved trauma or insecurities, that he hasn’t addressed.

If it wasn’t this board, he’d likely be on another forum with a different focus—whether it’s writing, fitness, or career—complaining about how he can’t succeed in that area. It seems like he’s looking for a space where he can fit in by venting about his struggles, rather than addressing the root cause of his issues.

As for the resources I provided, he said he is open to reading them, but whether he actually follows through is another story. Our framework—covering women’s hypergamy, AWALT, **** tests, agree and amplify, and so on—requires a baseline of understanding and a willingness to apply it. Without that foundation, I’m not sure how far he’ll get. If he’s serious, he’ll dive in, but if not, he’ll likely find reasons to dismiss it.

I've touched upon a lot of my insecurities on the forum (and I genuinely appreciate the resources you shared, I'm going to bookmark those resources)

 

[Vanderdonck]

Easier said than done.

And yet not difficult.