I guess eventually you just have to break down and play their game

[Nygard]

Yep Drak, it's a wrong attitude, in fact, it might be one of the main reasons my game never works. But in my case, it's been impossible to get rid off. I just cant wake up one morning and decide that it's false. It's like decieving yourself. I dont know.
And now imagine having a friend that brags about his almighty game 24/7 >.<

 

[abcd_z]

Many people find that "one special girl" and settle down with her. No problems so far. But then, they assume that since they've settled down, they can drop all the attitudes and habits that the woman was attracted to in the first place. Take a look at yourself and how you acted around her. I'd be willing to bet that you changed your behaviors once you settled down with her. And that change affected her level of attraction for you.

Make no mistake, the game is never-ending. Even within a relationship, you need to keep displaying attractive behaviors and avoiding the unattractive ones, or things will end up exactly like you've outlined for us here.

P.S.
About your attitude regarding the UG:
It didn't work with her. Who cares, she's a UG! Not only are you now aware of the faulty beliefs that have caused problems for you before, you're free to go out and attract other, more attractive women!

Sounds like a win-win situation to me.

 

[DonGorgon]

This is very simple... She is young and having fun... you were fun now its the next dudes turn...

OK so you want it to last longer than she does. then you need to make her feel that she only needs and wants you! Thats gonna require more and more work the longer it lasts cause you are "fighting fate". So you need to has as many women as you can so you dont have to be bound be one that no longer wants you.