I got this strippers number how do I get her out on a date?

[Shootin4Dreams]

I met her at the mall and she seemed to like me. I asked her what stores shes into? She said "Any kind of stores you are into.' And she was like where is your girlfriend is she gonna come out? Also When we talked in the store she wanted my number right away we only talked barely 5 minutes, I was suprised. I tried asking her to come out for drinks she said I can't right now but I can come see you later sometime. She said during the week she is busy after 4 but weekend nights is good. How would you guys go about this?

 

[Tictac]

Nine months and 200+ messages and you cannot figure out how to go on a date when a woman tells you that she is busy after 4 during the week and "weekend nights is good".

Kudos for asking her on the spot though.

 

[devilkingx2]

protip: do not pay for her when you go out with her, make sure she knows this.

you do not want to risk being taken for a ride by a stripper, they're good at that. you have been warned.

 

[Shootin4Dreams]

You guys tell me to go for instadate now saying asking to go for drinks is clingy? What do you do then? Everytime i ran off with number it didnt work she texting me back smiley faces n ****

 

[JohnChops]

@bigneil should be able to help you out.

 

[bigneil]

The way to get a stripper on a date (who you just met) is to offer to buy them out for one shift. Pay them whatever they make on an average shift. For day shift strippers this can be as little as $150. For night strippers more like $300-$400.

Then she takes a day off and spends 4-6 hours with you. If they don't like you, you'll never pull it off unless they are desperate. You need to hit it off, get their number, get a conversation going, and have them trust you enough to meet. If you met them outside the club it shouldn't be necessary. But it's what I call the Stripper Tax. It's the least you can do after seeing her naked already.

You should only do this with girls you have screened, and girls who are someone you would be proud to be seen with. She might let you plan her whole outfit. Then you just go on a real date. They will be totally different outside the club. Sex very likely won't happen (you can't exactly say they have to put out or they become a hooker and might even flash a badge) but you will have fun and should get a goodnight kiss. After that, if they like you, they will go on a real date next, but you will need to plan a fun event.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

The way to get a stripper on a date (who you just met) is to offer to buy them out for one shift. Pay them whatever they make on an average shift. For day shift strippers this can be as little as $150. For night strippers more like $300-$400.

Then she takes a day off and spends 4-6 hours with you. If they don't like you, you'll never pull it off unless they are desperate. You need to hit it off, get their number, get a conversation going, and have them trust you enough to meet. If you met them outside the club it shouldn't be necessary. But it's what I call the Stripper Tax. It's the least you can do after seeing her naked already.

You should only do this with girls you have screened, and girls who are someone you would be proud to be seen with. She might let you plan her whole outfit. Then you just go on a real date. They will be totally different outside the club. Sex very likely won't happen (you can't exactly say they have to put out or they become a hooker and might even flash a badge) but you will have fun and should get a goodnight kiss. After that, if they like you, they will go on a real date next, but you will need to plan a fun event.

Yup, a lot of badges in those environments earning their stripes, as well as a lot of criminals developing themselves.

 

[devilkingx2]

The way to get a stripper on a date (who you just met) is to offer to buy them out for one shift. Pay them whatever they make on an average shift. For day shift strippers this can be as little as $150. For night strippers more like $300-$400.

Then she takes a day off and spends 4-6 hours with you. If they don't like you, you'll never pull it off unless they are desperate. You need to hit it off, get their number, get a conversation going, and have them trust you enough to meet. If you met them outside the club it shouldn't be necessary. But it's what I call the Stripper Tax. It's the least you can do after seeing her naked already.

You should only do this with girls you have screened, and girls who are someone you would be proud to be seen with. She might let you plan her whole outfit. Then you just go on a real date. They will be totally different outside the club. Sex very likely won't happen (you can't exactly say they have to put out or they become a hooker and might even flash a badge) but you will have fun and should get a goodnight kiss. After that, if they like you, they will go on a real date next, but you will need to plan a fun event.

how to get taken for all you've got by strippers 101

 

[dude99]

I met her at the mall and she seemed to like me. I asked her what stores shes into? She said "Any kind of stores you are into.' And she was like where is your girlfriend is she gonna come out? Also When we talked in the store she wanted my number right away we only talked barely 5 minutes, I was suprised. I tried asking her to come out for drinks she said I can't right now but I can come see you later sometime. She said during the week she is busy after 4 but weekend nights is good. How would you guys go about this?

Unless you like jealous fits and drama and chaos in your life, do don't date strippers. She will take you on roller coaster ride and not in a good way. Remember she grinds on dudes for a living. She is used to seeing men at their worst. Knowing this she will accuse you of crap you aren't doing but in her head it will be happening so she won't care. Also she will never stop stripping for you. So unlessyou don't mind other guys DNA on your lady have at her. If the idea of that bothers you then see my first statement. Don't date strippers

 

[marmel75]

how to get taken for all you've got by strippers 101

Lol...why bother...if you are gonna spend that just pay for a hot escort...at least you know you are gonna get laid.

 

[Von]

I have a friend who date a 21 years old stripper once.... she had a part time job at a prison too.

Boy, did he love the 4am calls of the police or the girl, the girl dissappearing for 1-2 weeks, finding out she is in the hospital under a different name (for car accident and drug overdose), her doing stripping on him, the drugs and alcohol, random guy who don't look like angels... the list goes on.... btw how you know she's a stripper lol

 

[devilkingx2]

Lol...why bother...if you are gonna spend that just pay for a hot escort...at least you know you are gonna get laid.

there is literally an episode of how i met your mother all about this exact thing, the one where everyone is trying to convince barney that a stripper who only has time to date him at the club she works at, during the time she works, while he pays for private dances, is probably trying to trick him

 

[Shootin4Dreams]

I took her to.the nail salon and then we went to my place and she danced on me and wouldn't.have sex. Im at strip club with her she went on me dancing. I havent paid anything so far except cover few women giving me trouble.because i haven't tipped.

 

[dustmuffin]

I just talked to him on the phone......He has good news! Hopefully he will get on here and write a field report.

 

[bigneil]

how to get taken for all you've got by strippers 101

I've had sex with 7 strippers (only 2 turned out to be hookers). How many strippers have you had sex with, devilkingx2? Strippers are the final frontier of seduction and you know it. See Pook.

I have a friend who date a 21 years old stripper once.... she had a part time job at a prison too.

Boy, did he love the 4am calls of the police or the girl, the girl dissappearing for 1-2 weeks, finding out she is in the hospital under a different name (for car accident and drug overdose), her doing stripping on him, the drugs and alcohol, random guy who don't look like angels... the list goes on.... btw how you know she's a stripper lol

You sound like his jealous ex-girlfriend. I have had several relationships with strippers (two that lasted 2+ years) and this never happened to me. The worst thing that ever happened was when one got me bounced when she found out I slept with another girl the night before (talk about going from the Penthouse to the outhouse). But even she later apologized.

Face it, any girl who is hot enough to be a stripper has considered it, and is selling herself to the highest bidder as we speak.

 

[marmel75]

I've had sex with 7 strippers (only 2 turned out to be hookers). How many strippers have you had sex with, devilkingx2? Strippers are the final frontier of seduction and you know it. See Pook.

You sound like his jealous ex-girlfriend. I have had several relationships with strippers (two that lasted 2+ years) and this never happened to me. The worst thing that ever happened was when one got me bounced when she found out I slept with another girl the night before (talk about going from the Penthouse to the outhouse). But even she later apologized.

Face it, any girl who is hot enough to be a stripper has considered it, and is selling herself to the highest bidder as we speak.

Your idea of "seduction" appears to be tossing around money like it's water in front of them...

 

[LiveYourDream]

Strippers are the final frontier of seduction and you know it.

@bigneil would you please help me understand your perspective more? It seems to me that you think/feel, or at least post as if, strippers are the ultimate among women. Why strippers? Given equal opportunity wouldn't you prefer to be with a woman who is just as beautiful, inside and out, just as sensual/sexual, just as into you, but who does not choose to continually expose herself, to just anyone who pays a cover charge or drink minimum? Is there a facet to it that maybe you like that other men have seen her and lusted after her, but for the night, or however long, her attention is only upon you? Or is it something else for you?

Please don't misunderstand me, I have nothing against strippers. For several years I worked with and deeply got to know two beautiful, very high end strippers. I also got to know how deeply challenged and conflicted they felt inside, with what they did.

@bigneil please help me understand more. This place teaches not to pedestalize a woman and I understand that. It seems to me, as if strippers are worthy of an exception to you, or that is how it seems to me when I read your posts. Would you help me understand your perspective please? Do you think you pedestalize strippers as a whole or the strippers you date? What is it about a woman being a stripper that makes them an exception worthy of being pedestalized?

It seems you primarily target strippers (aside from the waitresses and flight attendants) as the women you ask out and pursue, why is that?

I'd appreciate the opportunity to better understand your perspective (and that of others here, if others are inclined to share also) and the thoughts behind your choices, if you are willing.

 

[marmel75]

@bigneil would you please help me understand your perspective more? It seems to me that you think/feel, or at least post as if, strippers are the ultimate among women. Why strippers? Given equal opportunity wouldn't you prefer to be with a woman who is just as beautiful, inside and out, just as sensual/sexual, just as into you, but who does not choose to continually expose herself, to just anyone who pays a cover charge or drink minimum? Is there a facet to it that maybe you like that other men have seen her and lusted after her, but for the night, or however long, her attention is only upon you? Or is it something else for you?

Please don't misunderstand me, I have nothing against strippers. For several years I worked with and deeply got to know two beautiful, very high end strippers. I also got to know how deeply challenged and conflicted they felt inside, with what they did.

@bigneil please help me understand more. This place teaches not to pedestalize a woman and I understand that. It seems to me, as if strippers are worthy of an exception to you, or that is how it seems to me when I read your posts. Would you help me understand your perspective please? Do you think you pedestalize strippers as a whole or the strippers you date? What is it about a woman being a stripper that makes them an exception worthy of being pedestalized?

It seems you primarily target strippers (aside from the waitresses and flight attendants) as the women you ask out and pursue, why is that?

I'd appreciate the opportunity to better understand your perspective (and that of others here, if others are inclined to share also) and the thoughts behind your choices, if you are willing.

Because he feels that if you have to spend tons of money on a chick, they must be something special...he is all about money, how much he spends, how he makes more than everyone else, how his roommate is a loser because he doesn't make a lot, how he spends a lot on his dates, how every hot woman is going out with dudes who spend tons of money on them, etc...just read his posts, you'll get the gist quick enough...not sure I've ever read one of his posts that doesn't revolve around money in some way.

He fails to realize that half of these chicks go out with dudes like that to get nice things, get nothing in return and then call bum ass dudes with no jobs to bang their back out once money bags drops them off at home after spending $200-300 on them to get a kiss on the cheek.

I'm no bum ass dude, but I've been on that end of it, laying in bed laughing about how this dude spent all his money and got nothing while I spent nothing...

 

[Tictac]

Strippers are the final frontier of seduction and you know it

Been there, done that. When I was 22.

Way over it.

 

[_sideways_]

Strippers are cool.