i got punched and damage may be bad

[Danny1729]

Hey,i was just wondering peoples opinions....

last night i got punched in the jaw cause i was being a smart ass,and it split my lip pretty bad it looks like theres a big chunk missing,and where he hit me it was kind of a jab,and on my front lower teeth the smaller 4 ones,2 teeth seem to be elevated noticably further than the other two,and im worried it may stay like that,which im pissed off about cause i had braces for 2 years.

i can see a bruised part under one of the teeth on my gum,so im hoping it's just swelling,cause i cant exactly afford anything major at the dentist..

should i definatly get them fixed up? i could get them file'd to the right height,or am i just stressing too much? appearance is alot to me so would it matter alot?

 

[The Sperminator]

Well probably not noticeable. I doubt anyone would notice but I would still go to the dentist to get it checked out and to the doctor for your lip.

 

[Doctor Who]

At least get them checked out. You could have had them broken. If not properly treated this could lead to infection, or your teeth could literally start to die. I can't see the damage, but if it was enough to leave something shifted, then chances are something serious happened. Your window of repair can be 24 hours depending on what exactly went wrong, but I would say make a dentist appointment ASAP or go to an urgent care center if you can't see a dentist or your PCP. This does not sound serious enough for you to require the ER. Best of luck.

 

[Obsidian]

sue that mother-f*cker to get enough money to fix yourself

 

[foomee]

Teeth are something you'll really want to invest in. Women love a guy with a great smile, and it's something they notice right away. I know you don't have the money, but if you ever do, invest in getting your teeth whitened.

 

[PeterNorthisawesome]

sue that mother-f*cker to get enough money to fix yourself

He was being a "smartass" meaning he probably was drunk and p*ssed ppl off by being an assh*le. So he deserved it.

The lip might get infected, go see a doctor.

 

[Obsidian]

insults alone don't justify violence, imo. This is a country of free speech.

 

[djSlvt]

I am cautious of this post. Since poster has 10 and already got knocked out. It has a deeper meaning to it (BTW: PUA conduct should not get you punched, when done properly).... I'm not saying anything I'm just cautious.



As far as getting hit. You don't have to be big and intimidating to kick a55. As long as you fight back. In prison, first thing you do is fight, and if you don't you're a b1tch. I knew dudes 140 lbs, straight from the army, lean bastards, skinny too, but they can kick a55. It's not a size thing, it's head thing, you can put up a fight, and you better, because if you don't you're a wuss bag.

Now, if the guy went for your teeth, he's not a pro, pros go for the chin for the knock out.

I'm not sure about the circumstances of your fvck sh1t up, but I bet you have to things to work on, your fighting skill, and on what ever the fvck you did to get your a55 kicked.



I'd expect getting my a55 kicked if I'd, let's say, AMOG this girls' husband.

 

[Danny1729]

hey thanks for the replies..

It started cause i was wasted,and we were joking around argueing,in front of my mate,and his ex gf and her best friend,and that chicks bf..

and he crossed the line and said im staying here to make sure you and you mate dont rape my ex gf,and i said "well your ex gf is one of my best friends"

and he said we're rapists,and i said "you dont even know me dude,and why would i rape her? i tittie ****ed her 2 weeks ago now **** off"

and he jabbed me,im gonna go down to the doctors tommorow morning to get it looked at,and get his opinion.. i know the damage is fixable,it's just a matter of is it needed asap.

as soon as he hit me,my mate pushed him and went to go him,when his mate stepped in and stopped us doing anythying back,then all the girls were saying "i am so proud of you for not doing anything back"

and kept asking if i was ok and that,i was bleeding hardcore,i just kept saying "im fine,good as gold" lol

 

[mahon83050]

insults alone don't justify violence, imo. This is a country of free speech.

Correct. In the United States, if someone gets in your face and calls you a ********** and then you punch him, HE is the VICTIM, not you.

Words mean nothing. The dude hit you, that is assault and battery in this country. Most likely, a misdemeanor.

I have another question? How bad did it hurt? Did it hurt when it happened or afterwards.

 

[djSlvt]

Danny if you go to cops guy goes to prison for aggravated assault, 4+ years. Plus medical reimbursements he own you.



Now, I'd handle that situation differently:


HE: I'm staying here to make sure you and your mate don't rape my girl
YOU: It's cool bra, I won't hate you, you can stay here if you feel insecure.
pause
YOU: Hey (girl name), you wanna go home with this guy? Go.


That achieves same as him getting insecure and punching you, showing off to his girl, as if he's so nice he can defend her when he gets insecure. She knows he's insecure, and I bet they're over. You definitely gotta fvck that girl more often from now on.

 

[bigjohnson]

He was being a "smartass" meaning he probably was drunk and p*ssed ppl off by being an assh*le. So he deserved

That sort of attitude will get one sued into the poorhouse. Violence isn't ever justified by harsh words, anyone who thinks otherwise needs to grow the hell up.

 

[Microphone Fiend]

alright now that we have the whole story, I dont think the guy was justified for punching you. With that said, going to the police wont prove anything and it wont make you look any better. I am against the whole 'snitches get stitches' idea, but there is no real need to involve a higher authority in this situation imo. He was wrong for calling you a rapist when he didnt even know you and you were wrong for insinuating you titty-f~cked some random guy's gf, even if you know the gf. Go to the dentist because you dont want your teeth to be messed up for life because you were too poor when it happened. Better safe than sorry.

Also, everyone is saying "In America..." or "Here in America..." but the OP is from Cook Island, and I dont know about there, but where Im from you can press charges but cannot sue for money (at least for something as petty as this). Suing seems to be more popular in America than elsewhere in the world.

 

[Danny1729]

I woke up this morning and the lip is healing pretty well,and my gums are bruised and my teeth seem to be going back down,and i could go to the police,but with everything invloved,im content to leave it..

i dated her a few weeks ago,after they broke it off,and she is still in love with me,but i broke it off cause it wasn't working,and he couldn't handle hearing about it..

if i needed anything major cost wise if there was more damage,id certainly persue it,i have 4 people witnessed all of it,so it's all good

 

[Last Man Standing]

Call police and get him for assault and then sue him for money!!!!!! This will TEACH him to quit being a pvssy!!!!!!

 

[Danny1729]

well its thursday morning,and its been 3 days since i got hit..

and the lip is almost healed,the swelling hasnt gone down yet its still a little fat,but its the teeth that concern me..

the 2 that appeared more up,are still tenderish to touch..

and the gum below them at the bottom is bruised,and ive been thinking and i think i overead how "up" the teeth seemed,and its probably only overexagerated thinking,im gonna do to the doctors tommorow,just to make sure.. and see if he thinks i need to see a dentist,i just dont wanna find out anything hardcore like the root has died,but i dont see how that would make them go "more up"

when i push the 2 teeth toward the back of my mouth,there is hardly any feeling,but when i push them toward the front of my mouth it hurts,do they sound ok to anyone?

i spose,i can get them cut down at a later date to match the other 2 so they look flat,but i wanna make sure there isnt any permenant damage,money is the factor here

 

[djSlvt]

I don't know about Cook Islands, but in the US it cost money to repair the damage, plus this sounds like a life long damage. Thus you have no reason not going to police and reporting a crime.


I don't see going to cops as being a wuss. Unless you in a position to have a guy run up to his house with a glock and do 2 and 2 on him. If you do nothing that's taking it up your a55, and it's wuss.

 

[Obsidian]

Seriously. You have to get vengeance on this b*stard in some way. Either let the police do it, or go kick his @$$ yourself.

And suing would definitely be the best way to get the money. It's an ancient custom that when you f*ck someone up...YOU'RE responsible for restitution. He should pay any medical bills.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

insults alone don't justify violence, imo. This is a country of free speech.

Nothing justifies violence. But you have to be careful not to touch a raw nerve with anyone. It could have been allot worst. Suppose the guy had a gun. You just need one nasty moment and anything could happen. Have to avoid situations.

 

[Obsidian]

i usually don't make nasty comments, but I sure as hell am not going to hesitate from saying something out of fear. Read the Bible, Luke.

And yes, violence does justify violence. Pure pacifism is not only lame but a gross distortion of morality.