I got one-itis...

[Stratocaster]

I'm not a newbie, I've been on this forum for over 1.5 years.

I am in a ltr for 4.5 months now...I have one-itis very badly, and im going in the **** hole. My girlfriend was over, we were on the couch, and I wanted to get some lovin, but she said that she didnt feel like it.

So I just sort of made unsuccessful moves and all that jazz and the night was not a good night. While I rode back to her house to drop her off, I said "I was a total douchebag tonight huh" and she goes "just a little bit" I know shes upset and is thinking about where we are in our relationship.

I know I have one-itis, I'm trying not to get deeper and deeper down you know. But this is not good. I have a bad feeling...

Feelings? Advice? I'm talking like oakraiders only we arent apart yet.

 

[oreo_renegade]

Originally posted by Stratocaster
I'm talking like oakraiders

Once that happens, the only cure is drowning in the toilet.

im kidding of o'course.


hehe, interesting thread though.

 

[oakraiderz2]

Talk to her about the relationship and see how she feels about it. If you get the feeling she wants to end it start to try to move on, eventhough itll feel impossible. Start telling youreself its over and itll make things a little easier. Either way, good luck.

 

[icallug]

mabye she doesnt wanna do stuff cuz shes having her period, now thats just messy ****.

 

[Da Game]

Start quietly looking for other girls. That gives you options, and even if you decide to stay with her, having other girls available will make you less worried about her reactions.

 

[Gold Heart]

Originally posted by Da Game
Start quietly looking for other girls. That gives you options, and even if you decide to stay with her, having other girls available will make you less worried about her reactions.

Yup.