I got laughed at

[ROOKIE OF THE YEAR]

Today, one of my co-worker asked me this question?

"If a random hot chick came to you and said to me let's go to her house and have sex, I would say yes or no?

All the other male employee said yes, except me. I said no because why would I go to a stranger's house with absolutely no idea who she is.
My fat manager told me relationships started without knowing each other, and there are many places in this world have arranged marriages. Then they start calling me a loser and said I'll never get married.

It's not that I'm a loser. I just not that horny and desperate. And I don't want to feel like I'm being a tool. My belief is a man should be cause more than just effect. I dunno

Is saying no consider me as i loser? Would you guys say yes?

Maybe I just should've follow what other people say instead. My co-workers and manager probably gunna talk crap behind my back in front of the customers. God, I feel so embarrassed about this.

 

[Quiksilver]

I would feel embarrassed too... I couldn't stand the shame of working with such chumps.

My fat manager told me relationships started without knowing each other, and there are many places in this world have arranged marriages.

He's so inexperienced that he equated having sex with getting married. And I doubt any lasting relationships started without getting to know one another first.

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My buddy was in a pub out in western Canada on vacation... He was talking to this hot lady 2 years older than him at the bar, everything was going smoothly, then she slipped a pill into his drink and told him "Drink it." Just because she's gorgeous doesn't mean she's trustworthy.

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A different friend back in Toronto was at a house party, getting rather trashed(He chugs vodka regularly). He went downstairs to the den and sat down on a Lay-Z-boy chair and passed out. While he was asleep a chubby.. no... FAT girl climbed on top, straddled him, and started making out with him rather forcefully. He woke up because he felt her tongue in his mouth. He pushed her off him and she ran upstairs and out of the party. He looked down and his zipper was undone... his **** was hanging out of his boxers.

Some **** at the party decided to start filming it, so we were able to see what happened... Rather disturbing. If you're wondering what happened later on, we found out who the cow was and pushed/smacked her around in her driveway and insulted the greasy *****. She couldn't do anything because we had a tape of our buddy getting raped.. I heard rumors that later on that week some other guy who heard punched her in the jaw, that might just be hearsay though. Anyways, that's off topic.

The point is, girls are bad too and you can't trust one just because she's female.

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Just remember that your co-workers are desperate chumps, and exploit that fact if they ever try to bug you again.

 

[verysuave]

Today, one of my co-worker asked me this question?

"If a random hot chick came to you and said to me let's go to her house and have sex, I would say yes or no?

All the other male employee said yes, except me. I said no because why would I go to a stranger's house with absolutely no idea who she is.
My fat manager told me relationships started without knowing each other, and there are many places in this world have arranged marriages. Then they start calling me a loser and said I'll never get married.

It's not that I'm a loser. I just not that horny and desperate. And I don't want to feel like I'm being a tool. My belief is a man should be cause more than just effect. I dunno

Is saying no consider me as i loser? Would you guys say yes?

Maybe I just should've follow what other people say instead. My co-workers and manager probably gunna talk crap behind my back in front of the customers. God, I feel so embarrassed about this.

stand behind your answer "NO" if they bring it up again say "cuz i aint easy" with a smirk

 

[mtlwlu]

I bet you get more than any of them.

 

[Adma]

Doesn't matter dude.

It's irrelevant.

If you feel upset about this, then you may want to re-evaluate your ability to laugh at yourself or be laughed at without bruising your ego.

 

[PectoralisMajor]

The answer is YES. why the hell wouldnt you ??

you've missed the point to a 'tongue and cheek' question, and now you've isolated yourself as an outsider in the office.

PS - Your manager is spot on right.

 

[LoneSilver]

I would have said the same thing the OP said and grin and beared it..

I consider myself a free thinker if I allowed everyone to think and answer for me I become a follower and not a leader but if I got to know that hot babe it would be a different story.

Just because a girl is hot don't mean we as men have to act like complete idiots like we have no control over our penis that to me is the definition of AFCism...Gettin' ass on your terms is the key to being a mature DJ or as I like to say a man that can think for himself..

So I am on the OP's side on this one.

LoneSilver

 

[eyedea40]

IMO all the women I did sleep with right away never lasted, it does not work like that. It's the ones who you take the time to get to know, build a foundation and the physical part follows.. . Sex... those are the potential g.f..

Don't listen to the tool's in your office who have not seen there penises over there keg like stomachs since H.S, never be embarrassed by who you are. Real men show there true colors in the face of adversity

 

[Igetit!]

I also would have said no. I don't care how hot she is. I've said this before,so now I'll say it again. Women are like coke machines. You have to put something in to get something out. You put your money in the machine,push the button,THEN a coke comes out. If cokes just start flying out of the machine with out you putting money in first,something is wrong. It may seem cool,it may seem good to be getting something for nothing,but something is off somewhere. Beautiful women don't approach random guys for sex. If they did, this forum/website wouldn't exist. If you talked to the girl first.introduced yourself,or even did classic afc behaviors,then she was sexually intersted in you,well yeah, I can see that. I would tell your co-workers to think about it for a second. I would say,"Would you really do it? I mean REALLY,REALLY do it? Think about it,your minding your own business,not bothering anybody,then all of the sudden,out of the blue,a woman walk up to you and says,Let's go back to my place and have sex. Wouldn"t that seem weird? The whole time I would be wondering what is going on,is this a joke,are there hidden cameras,etc." Say this to them,and I bet you they'll stop and really think about it for a second.

 

[Bible_Belt]

This study was done once, where an attractive man and woman each went to a part of a college campus and asked 100 people of the opposite gender to go have sex with them. The man got zero 'yes' answers out of 100. The woman got about 60.

 

[Warrior74]

so 40 percent of men think with their brains then yah? lol.

I went home with a chick who persued me through two bars and a club, turns out she was house sitting for a friend and mad at her husband. Her husband showed up at the door with his gun because his friends told him she left the club with a guy. I barely made it out the back door and into the car before he realised I was the guy. I'm just glad he didn't start shooting at me. Sometimes easy ain't worth it.

 

[j0n024]

I would feel embarrassed too... I couldn't stand the shame of working with such chumps.



He's so inexperienced that he equated having sex with getting married. And I doubt any lasting relationships started without getting to know one another first.

--

My buddy was in a pub out in western Canada on vacation... He was talking to this hot lady 2 years older than him at the bar, everything was going smoothly, then she slipped a pill into his drink and told him "Drink it." Just because she's gorgeous doesn't mean she's trustworthy.

--

A different friend back in Toronto was at a house party, getting rather trashed(He chugs vodka regularly). He went downstairs to the den and sat down on a Lay-Z-boy chair and passed out. While he was asleep a chubby.. no... FAT girl climbed on top, straddled him, and started making out with him rather forcefully. He woke up because he felt her tongue in his mouth. He pushed her off him and she ran upstairs and out of the party. He looked down and his zipper was undone... his **** was hanging out of his boxers.

Some **** at the party decided to start filming it, so we were able to see what happened... Rather disturbing. If you're wondering what happened later on, we found out who the cow was and pushed/smacked her around in her driveway and insulted the greasy *****. She couldn't do anything because we had a tape of our buddy getting raped.. I heard rumors that later on that week some other guy who heard punched her in the jaw, that might just be hearsay though. Anyways, that's off topic.

The point is, girls are bad too and you can't trust one just because she's female.

--

Just remember that your co-workers are desperate chumps, and exploit that fact if they ever try to bug you again.

SOOO you go to her place and assault her at her own house? You and your friends are fvcking morons, instead of taking this to the police you commit a crime.....lucky for you she DIDNT go to the cops because IF she did then YOU and YOUR FRIENDS would be in jail and what her? You really think she will get in that much trouble over what ....rape? Please knowing the laws in our country the judge will probably say that it was becasue she was drunk and not fully in control of her senses and it will either be waved off or she would have to do community service.....but YOU are a fvcking moron and assaulting a women is childish...

Good job.

 

[TheEdgeOf]

The answer is YES. why the hell wouldnt you ??

you've missed the point to a 'tongue and cheek' question, and now you've isolated yourself as an outsider in the office.

PS - Your manager is spot on right.

I completely agree with Major in the sense that I don't actually agree at all and think his answer is f*cking retarded. Seriously dude, you're going to go home with a stranger who you've never met in your life because she wants to have sex with you? Never take candy from strangers, this situation's no different.

And besides, I'm not that desperate. I can get it from girls I know if I really want it.

So OP, don't listen this guy. Tell your chump coworkers that you wouldn't and stand by your decision. I mean seriously, getting you is not as easy as straight up asking, is it? Where's your f*cking pride? You're the prize and she's gotta work for you. How many times must this be said before you guys get it.

 

[Quiksilver]

SOOO you go to her place and assault her at her own house? You and your friends are fvcking morons, instead of taking this to the police you commit a crime.....lucky for you she DIDNT go to the cops because IF she did then YOU and YOUR FRIENDS would be in jail and what her? You really think she will get in that much trouble over what ....rape? Please knowing the laws in our country the judge will probably say that it was becasue she was drunk and not fully in control of her senses and it will either be waved off or she would have to do community service.....but YOU are a fvcking moron and assaulting a women is childish...

Good job.

You want us to go to the cops over something like that? That would ruin her life forever. We were just showing her that doing that dirty **** doesn't fly with us. Given the situation, if you were her, would you rather the guys go to the cops with the tape or humiliate you in your driveway? After that moment, it was done. She disrespected us, we disrespect her. Period. We don't bring cops into the issue, especially since she was probably drunk at the time... She learned her lesson WITHOUT lasting repercussions and you call us childish?

Whatever dude, you're entitled to your opinions, just know that much worse happens every night of the week in every town in the world.

 

[jafyk]

Men, I would say no too. I know the temptation is to say yes. First off the co-worker who asked this question is it a female? If she was I'd most definitely say "No". Well, once I once feeling down and a female co-worker told me for us to go to her place and have sex. It cracked me up so bad. I mean she didn't disguise it any form or fashion. It was funny because I know she was kidding.
on the freaky side though. The first time I had ever picked up a girl from the club and took her to my place and we did it (after building rapport etc). She seemed to be sleepy and at the time I was seeing another girl and I didn't know where our relationship stood. Anyway, I didn't want any complications so I told this stranger I had to be at work early so she couldn't stay the whole night. She acted like she was sleeping and I went to take a shower ( i wasn't in there for long). When I came out she was gone. Besides a wet spot on the bed there was no other evidence of her existence. No note, nothing. I went outside to see if I'd see her she was gone. I was freaked out. It felt so unreal and the only relief I got was that none of my stuff was missing because this girl could've stolen my wallet, laptop etc. So, while I agree with the person who said we're all strangers until we get to know each other. It's sort of a risky thing to just accept such offer out of the blue.

 

[Faded Image]

Rook, have you ever had a one night stand with a stranger?

If yes, then you answer should have been "yes" because in a way a ONS with a stranger is similar to having sex with that one random chick.

If no, then I can see where you're coming from.

As I type this (11:46pm EST), there are two random people (Guy and Girl of course) in America that are just meeting each other for the first time in a club, a pub, or pool hall. In a couple of hours they will be either getting ready to have sex, having sex or just finishing having sex.

Think about it!

 

[DJDamage]

My fat manager told me relationships started without knowing each other, and there are many places in this world have arranged marriages. Then they start calling me a loser and said I'll never get married.

Sounds to me like you are working with a bunch of juveniles who don't respect you.

I think the bigger problem is that you are a pushover and you are letting those guys get to you. You need to work on yourself so you can roll with the jokes and dish some of your own, or not let what they think/say about you to bother you.

 

[619joe]

He read you like a book my friend.

He knew you would be the type of guy who says NO.He sensed your reply would be weak.

"I said no because why would I go to a stranger's house with absolutely no idea who she is. "

THATS THE WHOLE POINT OF THE QUESTION!!!!!!!NOT KNOWING THE HOT GIRL (HENCE THE WORD STRANGER IN THE QUESTION).OF COARSE YOU HAVE NO IDEA WHO SHE IS THAT IS THE POINT OF THE QUESTION.

After I would have said "Ok so Ill never get married?Ok buddy you tell me how many times a hot chick has came up to you and asked for sex.If your so good lets have a challenge right now or in the near future if you think your such a ladies man"

Challenge him back that way.He wont expect it therefore he will back down.Like the other dude above said,there pushing you around and they can sense your kinda weak bud