I got kicked out of target for asking a chick at customer service about my shirt

[GeeMale]

When I was at starbucks taking a quick break from what I was doing on laptop I went to restroom,came back and on the way talked this fat ugly chick at customer service who looks annoying.This was the convo:
Me:Hey does my shirt look better all the way buttoned or should I leave one button off.
Herlaughing) buttoned(duh)
Me: Yea one button off isn't attractive huh?
Her: No
Me: Is that your manager the one with long hair? She sounds pissed and trying to act way above me,like she was watching out for her position when I asked about HR position at corporate (when I was talking with her Starbucks)
Her:Blank uninterested face


I go walk back again to Starbucks and continue on my laptop.

A couple minutes later I spot a guy at customer service talking with that chick and than he came up to me

Him:2 ladies complained about you that you're making them uncomfortable and that I'm going to ask you to leave the store

Me: I was asking him who it was because I was confused and pissed
Him: I can't tell you who I'm going to ask you to leave the store

I felt like I was falsely accused of sexual harassment and I walk out the store with laptop ,and bag.
I call the store and ask the guy to explain he said he already did.I tell him I'm going to make a complaint.He said go ahead who do you want to talk to.I said I'm talking to corporate and I got his name,called them when I was at HEB, and they gave me a number to escalate it tomorrow.

Basically these 2 fat ugly bitches at customer service are some nazi feminists who are implying that I made them sexually feel uncomfortable by casually asking them the question about my shirt.


What the **** did I do to deserve to get kicked out for? Why would she exaggerate it like that?

 

[Mike32ct]

See below in bold.

When I was at starbucks taking a quick break from what I was doing on laptop I went to restroom,came back and on the way talked this fat ugly chick at customer service who looks annoying.This was the convo:
Me:Hey does my shirt look better all the way buttoned or should I leave one button off.
Herlaughing) buttoned(duh)
Me: Yea one button off isn't attractive huh?
Her: No

The shirt thing, while awkward (and not recommended), wasn't TOO bad by itself.

Me: Is that your manager the one with long hair? She sounds pissed and trying to act way above me,like she was watching out for her position when I asked about HR position at corporate (when I was talking with her Starbucks)
Her:Blank uninterested face

^This is probably what got you into trouble. You can't talk *&%& about this girl's boss and try to drag her into such discussion. That puts the girl in an awful position.

I go walk back again to Starbucks and continue on my laptop.

A couple minutes later I spot a guy at customer service talking with that chick and than he came up to me

Him:2 ladies complained about you that you're making them uncomfortable and that I'm going to ask you to leave the store

Me: I was asking him who it was because I was confused and pissed
Him: I can't tell you who I'm going to ask you to leave the store

I felt like I was falsely accused of sexual harassment and I walk out the store with laptop ,and bag.
I call the store and ask the guy to explain he said he already did.I tell him I'm going to make a complaint.He said go ahead who do you want to talk to.I said I'm talking to corporate and I got his name,called them when I was at HEB, and they gave me a number to escalate it tomorrow.

Basically these 2 fat ugly bitches at customer service are some nazi feminists who are implying that I made them sexually feel uncomfortable by casually asking them the question about my shirt.

What the **** did I do to deserve to get kicked out for? Why would she exaggerate it like that?

The two ladies were the girl and her manager.

 

[doctor1996]

You have to be careful of what goes around now a days. Society is ****ed. You send a text message to a girl, she'll report you for harassment.. It's double standards, and I don't agree with it.

 

[zekko]

You have to be careful of what goes around now a days. Society is ****ed. You send a text message to a girl, she'll report you for harassment.. It's double standards, and I don't agree with it.

All the more messed up since men are expected to be the aggressor/initiator. If you can't use a simple opinion opener, guys are pretty well screwed.

Sounds like maybe they felt it was "sexual" because the OP was talking about "exposing" part of his chest by leaving a button unbuttoned. Which is of course, ridiculous. It's not like he was talking about his zipper.

 

[doctor1996]

All the more messed up since men are expected to be the aggressor/initiator. If you can't use a simple opinion opener, guys are pretty well screwed.

Sounds like maybe they felt it was "sexual" because the OP was talking about "exposing" part of his chest by leaving a button unbuttoned. Which is of course, ridiculous. It's not like he was talking about his zipper.

Well, what are we going to do? Society is going down the drain

 

[GeeMale]

I went back today and got me a Starbucks chai latte than talked to a guy that works there I use to work with at Kohl’s.

He said it was a big deal and mentioned things that she said that were totally made up or exaggerated.

There is nothing I can do except avoid that stupid store for being average and suck it up.


I’m also going to stop spreading negativity esp to strangers since diff chicks/people have diff reactions-something I’m starting to accept

 

[Atom Smasher]

The whole premise of asking about the shirt button seems awkward and a bit creepy to me.

Why even use it on a fat girl anyway?

I think the biggest mistake men make today is going after completely unqualified targets. Become an intriguing, self-assured man and women will smile at you. That smile is an invitation. Why go up to neutrals and unknowns when you could be only approaching pre-qualified smilers?

 

[Who Dares Win]

The whole premise of asking about the shirt button seems awkward and a bit creepy to me.

Why even use it on a far girl anyway?

I think the biggest mistake men make today is going after completely unqualified targets. Become an intriguing, self-assured man and women will smile at you. That smile is an invitation. Why go up to neutrals and unknowns when you could be only approaching pre-qualified smilers?

Agree with the point and I believe it needs to be even stronger.

Personally I avoid any topic at all near a woman that I dont know yet or that doesnt shown a genuine sympathy toward me, right now when I talk to women I just listen what they say and say nothing in return, not an opinion not a question....conversations with them are boring most of the cases so nothing missing anyway.

If they try asking personal questions I generally give a random answer and leave, its a minefield nowadays and not all fields have a treasure if you happen to pass.

Im not talking necessarily about legal conseguences but their lack of logic or sense of justice coupled with an unlimited desire for drama is a bad combination in a social network age.

 

[GeeMale]

I wasn't interested in her at all I was using her as a chick's opinion on my dress shirt. Y'all are taking this out of context. The fat girl is in the wrong here anyways...I went back next day and talked to a guy that works there who I use to work with a kohls a long time ago. Basically she lied and made up a huge concoction with a coworker to get me kicked out on purpose for I don't care about anymore because its mind boggling. Of course the guy she complained to who kicked me out believed her as he was seriously looking at me like some criminal which really offended me...its too bad I was in my own world wondering wth was going on while sitting at starbucks on my laptop but its a lost cause.

The whole premise of asking about the shirt button seems awkward and a bit creepy to me.

Why even use it on a fat girl anyway?

I think the biggest mistake men make today is going after completely unqualified targets. Become an intriguing, self-assured man and women will smile at you. That smile is an invitation. Why go up to neutrals and unknowns when you could be only approaching pre-qualified smilers?

e

 

[GeeMale]

I don't think she accused of sexual harassment but harassment mostly from what I was told from guy who works there that I use to work at kohls with. Still ****ing embarassing to get kicked out a store like a 13 year old for doing practically nothing except complain to a fat ***** a few years older than me about her manager not giving info about corporate jobs......

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Interesting story, but I’m still wondering whether this happened at Starbucks or Target.

 

[Mike32ct]

Female opinion openers were a big PUA thing back in say 2003-2004 ish.
It would probably come across as very odd today.

Plus, there was no context for it. If you asked a girl at a clothing store which shirt she likes better, ok, maybe. But the Target/Starbucks* customer service girl has a job to do and doesn’t care about your shirt.

*Why would a coffee shop have a customer service desk? This is obviously trolling.

 

[Beardme321]

Agree with the point and I believe it needs to be even stronger.

Personally I avoid any topic at all near a woman that I dont know yet or that doesnt shown a genuine sympathy toward me, right now when I talk to women I just listen what they say and say nothing in return, not an opinion not a question....conversations with them are boring most of the cases so nothing missing anyway.

If they try asking personal questions I generally give a random answer and leave, its a minefield nowadays and not all fields have a treasure if you happen to pass.

Im not talking necessarily about legal conseguences but their lack of logic or sense of justice coupled with an unlimited desire for drama is a bad combination in a social network age.

I differ since I believe that all women are beautiful in their own way. I mean there's nothing else except cars. Women have to have that philosophy attached to them.