I got her number ant than I disappeared!!

[matt86]

Hi guys!! I give u another report!
I met this gir 2 weeks ago!
It was a Wednesday night in a bar! I was with 3 of my buddies sitting at the tables outside the pub!
One of them was going out with a girl and asked her to come in that pub!
She arrived with all her frinds (boys and girls)!
They went inside the pub but after 20 min the girl of my buddy came out to smoke with 2 other girls!
I started to speak with those two and i targeted one!
I asked her to sit down and she sitted next so me, and with some funny routines i started a lot of kino, basically our legs was always in touch and so i was always in touch with her arms! We were having a lot of fun and she responded really well!
After some times she returned inside with her friends...ouch!!
But than after 15 min she came out again and we started again!
Than i played really bad coz when she told me she had to go back home i didnt ask her numer or anything and so the night ended!
Next day i added her to fb and after a small chat making some funny joke about the night we met i told her:
Me: had to go now! I have a meeting with a very dangerous criminal! (i’m a lawyer)
Her: wow pay attention !!
Me: I will!! Btw give me your number so i can call you if i need help!!
Her: hahahah! Every excuses is good eh?! Xxxxxxx good work!

And so i got her number!

Next day i texted her a bit to get a first date:

After some text
Me: so next week when u dont go to gym i will take u to eat a pizza (she told me she really like pizza)
Her: i go to gym every night
Me: ouch u are too busy.... it will be impossible to go out with you!
Her: ihihih don’t exagerate i still have to eat when i came out of gym!
And there are some days that i came out early!
Me: which?
Her: monday and thursday!!
Me: mmmh thursday i’m busy so i guess i pick monday
Her : yes... too bad this monday i go to a trip in London for 4 days!

We chatted for some other time than on sunday i told her good trip

After that i never texted her again couse i was busy with anoter girl....she came back 1 week ago, but i was always with this girl that now is gone!! (btw they dont know each other)
What should i do now? Should i ask her a new date fast or i should rebuild a bit our rapport?

Any advice is welcome!!

 

[Dan08]

Hi guys!! I give u another report!
I met this gir 2 weeks ago!
It was a Wednesday night in a bar! I was with 3 of my buddies sitting at the tables outside the pub!
One of them was going out with a girl and asked her to come in that pub!
She arrived with all her frinds (boys and girls)!
They went inside the pub but after 20 min the girl of my buddy came out to smoke with 2 other girls!
I started to speak with those two and i targeted one!
I asked her to sit down and she sitted next so me, and with some funny routines i started a lot of kino, basically our legs was always in touch and so i was always in touch with her arms! We were having a lot of fun and she responded really well!
After some times she returned inside with her friends...ouch!!
But than after 15 min she came out again and we started again!
Than i played really bad coz when she told me she had to go back home i didnt ask her numer or anything and so the night ended!
Next day i added her to fb and after a small chat making some funny joke about the night we met i told her:
Me: had to go now! I have a meeting with a very dangerous criminal! (i’m a lawyer)
Her: wow pay attention !!
Me: I will!! Btw give me your number so i can call you if i need help!!
Her: hahahah! Every excuses is good eh?! Xxxxxxx good work!

And so i got her number!

Next day i texted her a bit to get a first date:

After some text
Me: so next week when u dont go to gym i will take u to eat a pizza (she told me she really like pizza)
Her: i go to gym every night
Me: ouch u are too busy.... it will be impossible to go out with you!
Her: ihihih don’t exagerate i still have to eat when i came out of gym!
And there are some days that i came out early!
Me: which?
Her: monday and thursday!!
Me: mmmh thursday i’m busy so i guess i pick monday
Her : yes... too bad this monday i go to a trip in London for 4 days!

We chatted for some other time than on sunday i told her good trip

After that i never texted her again couse i was busy with anoter girl....she came back 1 week ago, but i was always with this girl that now is gone!! (btw they dont know each other)
What should i do now? Should i ask her a new date fast or i should rebuild a bit our rapport?

Any advice is welcome!!

Build back up your rapport, possibly apologise for being out of touch but make a joke of it and bring it back around to the dodgy criminal that you had to see and make a joke outta that explaining why you were out of touch or something. Would be my first thought, then play it by ear on when to re-ask her out on that date.

 

[matt86]

mmmh btw this morning i sent her a text "hey nicole, have u returned from London ?"
but she didn't answered
think i messed up with her

 

[TheException]

After some times she returned inside with her friends...ouch!!

Is there some reason your not inside? Under 21? Smoke 41 cigarettes in a row?

]Next day i added her to fb and after a small chat making some funny joke about the night we met i told her
Next day i texted her a bit to get a first date

Dude....are we seeing a pattern here? Your being needy as sh1t. Your coming off as if you cant go more than a few days without seeing/hearing from her. For future reference i would advice against adding girls on facebook....it has the propensity to come off as stalkerish.

Me: so next week when u dont go to gym i will take u to eat a pizza (she told me she really like pizza

Not good^

Your asking in a supplicating way. Just say "Hey, what day are you free next week? I know a good pizza joint...you can have half a slice."

Me: mmmh thursday i’m busy so i guess i pick monday
Her : yes... too bad this monday i go to a trip in London for 4 days!

Dude...again with the supplicating sh1t(tongue face? ugh) Youve now turned her off as evident by her lame a$$ excuse. Now its very likely that she really is going on a trip(thats hard to fake even for a woman/master ninjas), but why would she even give you that day if she knew she was busy.....unlesssss she did it on purpose to "soft reject" you.

You came on way toooo strong and she feels it. Back off. I wouldnt text her until she texts you. Then, try to set up a date one more time. Something simple this time pal....and no supplicating! If she beats around the bush or declines again with no counteroffer, your interest is in the sh1tter and you need to focus on other women.

 

[lamobatsman]

After some times she returned inside with her friends...ouch!!

Is there some reason your not inside? Under 21? Smoke 41 cigarettes in a row?

]Next day i added her to fb and after a small chat making some funny joke about the night we met i told her
Next day i texted her a bit to get a first date

Dude....are we seeing a pattern here? Your being needy as sh1t. Your coming off as if you cant go more than a few days without seeing/hearing from her. For future reference i would advice against adding girls on facebook....it has the propensity to come off as stalkerish.

Me: so next week when u dont go to gym i will take u to eat a pizza (she told me she really like pizza

Not good^

Your asking in a supplicating way. Just say "Hey, what day are you free next week? I know a good pizza joint...you can have half a slice."

Me: mmmh thursday i’m busy so i guess i pick monday
Her : yes... too bad this monday i go to a trip in London for 4 days!

Dude...again with the supplicating sh1t(tongue face? ugh) Youve now turned her off as evident by her lame a$$ excuse. Now its very likely that she really is going on a trip(thats hard to fake even for a woman/master ninjas), but why would she even give you that day if she knew she was busy.....unlesssss she did it on purpose to "soft reject" you.

You came on way toooo strong and she feels it. Back off. I wouldnt text her until she texts you. Then, try to set up a date one more time. Something simple this time pal....and no supplicating! If she beats around the bush or declines again with no counteroffer, your interest is in the sh1tter and you need to focus on other women.

one minute u say hes supplicating , the nest hes coming on too strong. there s a contractidiction in this

 

[TheException]

one minute u say hes supplicating , the nest hes coming on too strong. there s a contractidiction in this

Are you here to help the OP or to proof read/ridicule my response? At any rate its not a contradiction pal. Its entirely possible to come off as an overbearing(too strong) needy(supplicating) chump....look no further than OP's story/actions.

 

[iluvathar]

"hey nicole, have u returned from London ?"

Is a bad sms. You should write, like "OMG just saw a large ant colony in the woods, one of them works so hard, reminded me of you!"

 

[iluvathar]

Send what I wrote really, she could still reply.

 

[Dan08]

Do not send the ant text! That sh!t made me cringe....

Exception's got it right here, you likely came across needy texting ever day or every other day and dude you just need to chill out.

 

[iluvathar]

Well its his choice, but I had success with strange messages like that, most likely you will never hear from here again anyway. Its so wierd makes some of them smile...