Maybe my interrogation was lazy. Asking direct questions that had a canned response ready to be thrown to it rather than just getting her to talk about something that would get her to slip up. I think I remember her being quiet and evasive but looking back it seems now like it was skillfully brushed off as her wanting to avoid heavy subjects or anything that could involve negativity. And that's what I liked about her. Ha.
I give up on women
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Telltale signs can be sniffed out especially with a fluid-appearing demeanor, just as in the story I told you about the model taking selfies in my car.
BTW the majority of hot women are going to be narcissists, so it's not a matter of avoidance as much as knowing how to manage them.
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Have yet to meet one who surprised me, and as you know, I've been through tons and have 10+ years on you. Perhaps the onus falls on your qualification and not on the "trickster."
Your best friend for a year. Your thinking this is my life partner. Very close. Great connection. Spend xmas and holidays with the family.
Then out of no where she flips out screaming and yelling over NOTHING and goes and lays in a bed for 3 hours at 5pm. Gets up a few times to go to the bathroom and gives you an evil dirty look. You sit there for hours sick feeling like **** with anxiety thinking what did i do? What happened? You dont know because when u tried to talk you got the silent treatment.
So u go to bed and dont sleep for ****. The next day she is sweet as pie in the am. When u bring it up she does not aknowledge anything just says " i like to start a new day " like its no big deal she went nuts and treated you like **** for 12 hours and ignores you about it today completely. Not even an apology. And when you dont jump on board being happy go lucky with the NEW day she PUNISHES you and is mad at You that u didn't move on from her mistreatment and let it go.
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Exhausted and LARaider, sounds like every women on the planet, PMSing. These are not mental disorders.
Do either of you think you have mental disorders, such as low self-image. I'm not dissing you. Real question.
For example, I'm an extreme narcissist, and, accordingly, contribute to much of the madness in my LTRs.
Do either of you think you have mental disorders, such as low self-image. I'm not dissing you. Real question.
For example, I'm an extreme narcissist, and, accordingly, contribute to much of the madness in my LTRs.
Guru my friend, i have dated lots of women. Lots. And have 3 sisters i grew up worh. My oldest diagnosed bipolar. This last one was a covert npd and bipolar. It was unreal. The behavior unhinged beyond belief after a year or two. And my wife ten years ago lasted a year was borderline diagnosed after one year of marriage. Im a dumb fool for not jumping ship the last one a year ago.
However i promise this is not how all women are. I can tolerate bitchy pms. I grew up with 3 sisters.
Npd cluster b worh bipolar mania unreal.
I caught on this past spring about every 3 weeks she would be manic up to 3 am cleaning and shopping amd a great mood. Then the next 2 days following she would come down and go chaos and fighting. Just causing problems and acting horribly. It became as consistent as the moon.
No, actually i am a bit confident. Overly. I was a phenom super athlete all my life. Superior to everyone in every sport i played. All state baseball and basketball. Ppayed baseball after college. Fairly good looking and good job. Can handle myself physically.
Not low self image, but have had disappointing times that have brought me down for sure. Especially now i am more angered and annoyed.
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Ok, however, as you quoted:
Notwithstanding, it begs the question: Why do you choose these women (assuming they are indeed mentally ill)? Do you recognize there might be an issue with you that attracts these kind of women and the same issue which prevents you from NEXTing them with ruthlessness when their mental problems do arise?
You see when I date or LTR a girl, and she steps over the line, she gets the boot immediately. No second-guessing. Nada. Straight iron boot out the door, regardless if it was a one day or five year LTR. Why didn't you do the same? Do you recognize that part of the problem here is you, insofar as how you deal with these women?
^^ This sounds like every woman on the planet on a bad day, not a mental disorder.Exhausted said:
Notwithstanding, it begs the question: Why do you choose these women (assuming they are indeed mentally ill)? Do you recognize there might be an issue with you that attracts these kind of women and the same issue which prevents you from NEXTing them with ruthlessness when their mental problems do arise?
You see when I date or LTR a girl, and she steps over the line, she gets the boot immediately. No second-guessing. Nada. Straight iron boot out the door, regardless if it was a one day or five year LTR. Why didn't you do the same? Do you recognize that part of the problem here is you, insofar as how you deal with these women?
after being married and divorced which I found to be betrayal from my exwife for putting me and my son through that chit for nothing, i dated many girls over 7 years. ons, str, some ltrs and mainly i just bailed on every girl over the first thing that happened.
My dad was my best friend, we were very close, he passed away 4 years ago, i met this girl less than 6 months after that, my sister brought it to my attention last spring because of this loss i have been overlooking and finding reasons to keep my ex around instead of booting her a year ago like i should have. my mom and her both sat me down and explained to me what i have been doing. now i see it. i has been my fault not to get rid of her last october after some ****... however, this stuff did not come about with her until after a year tog and then about 2 years in it just hit the fan all the time and i failed and kept her around. not making excuses but that is the reason for my weakness. it was not that i leaned on her as she did nothing for me but more the fact i didnt want to deal with more stress and sadness of another loss in a way
if that makes sense good, if not i dont know....
I just thought i became an idiot who put up with all kinds of **** i never did b4, hence why i went through 30 girls b4 my dad passed.
now it makes sense to me.
and I am clearly fuched up, my dad passed away over 4 years ago and I have yet to hit the anger stage.....
why I cant tell you. I have been pretty composed as an adult, though in my younger years was a loose cannon, a maniac at times.
when that anger stage hits, it is going to be something, in fact I think i am in the beginning of it right now as I have been pissed the last two months. my posts on here display my anger and distaste for chit females and I have been fuming about it internally as well.
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