Dating 3~ months, her attraction for me seems good.
She initiates contact/kissing, is all over me, no problems with sex, etc.
Basically i get the feeling that i have her interest and attraction in me high due to good game and DJing, but i dont know if its a 'true' attraction. Is there such thing? It feels a bit cold and i dont know wether she truly is into me.
I think she is attracted to preppy guys normally, which i am not. No big deal, its a small issue with style/clothing etc. i could easily overlook this. But one friend of mine in particular i think she was interested in aswell as me before we started dating, i feel weird about. I get the gut instinct that she likes him. He is more of the 'preppy' style, and at times sometimes comments and small things raise questions in my mind. She mentions him at times in conversation, not often, but the times it does happen it stick in my head.
Should i confront or raise anything about this. I realize this is slightly insecure but the coldness and weirdness and being paranoid that she isnt really into me or is into my friend is pissing me off. I know i could be in a relationship where it felt more right.
Am i being paranoid and insecure or is it right to be concerned? Anyone experienced this feeling?
She initiates contact/kissing, is all over me, no problems with sex, etc.
Basically i get the feeling that i have her interest and attraction in me high due to good game and DJing, but i dont know if its a 'true' attraction. Is there such thing? It feels a bit cold and i dont know wether she truly is into me.
I think she is attracted to preppy guys normally, which i am not. No big deal, its a small issue with style/clothing etc. i could easily overlook this. But one friend of mine in particular i think she was interested in aswell as me before we started dating, i feel weird about. I get the gut instinct that she likes him. He is more of the 'preppy' style, and at times sometimes comments and small things raise questions in my mind. She mentions him at times in conversation, not often, but the times it does happen it stick in my head.
Should i confront or raise anything about this. I realize this is slightly insecure but the coldness and weirdness and being paranoid that she isnt really into me or is into my friend is pissing me off. I know i could be in a relationship where it felt more right.
Am i being paranoid and insecure or is it right to be concerned? Anyone experienced this feeling?