Boricua_33015
Master Don Juan
hey.... today I just noticed that I get more nervous or timid when I talk to a guy. More specifically, a guy who is in my view more popular than I am.
I guess its hard for me because.... conversing with guys have more of a serious manner. When I talk with girls its more of a joking manner so Im free to make jokes here and there. Flirt.
However, when its one on one with a guy, Its more serious or toned down, and I tend to get nervous. Plus.... I always find that I have to talk more and lead the conversation. I dont know these guys very well enough for them to start a convo with me so I have to start it and lead it, and it makes me uncomfortable that I have to lead it with hardly any support.
Sometimes I think that guys only joke around when either they are in groups, or when girls are around.
When its one on one, its more serious.
Maybe its because of my attitude? My apparent nervousness?
I have broken out of my shell.....meaning Im talking alot more. I am alot more outgoing than I was in the beginning of the summer school course. But now I am finding myself in more and more convos, and I notice that I am always nervous or timid in all of them. I take risks and I am constantly uncomfortable...... its hard. But w/e, i guess maybe with experience Ill learn.
Any tips or advice you DJs would like to give me?
I guess its hard for me because.... conversing with guys have more of a serious manner. When I talk with girls its more of a joking manner so Im free to make jokes here and there. Flirt.
However, when its one on one with a guy, Its more serious or toned down, and I tend to get nervous. Plus.... I always find that I have to talk more and lead the conversation. I dont know these guys very well enough for them to start a convo with me so I have to start it and lead it, and it makes me uncomfortable that I have to lead it with hardly any support.
Sometimes I think that guys only joke around when either they are in groups, or when girls are around.
When its one on one, its more serious.
Maybe its because of my attitude? My apparent nervousness?
I have broken out of my shell.....meaning Im talking alot more. I am alot more outgoing than I was in the beginning of the summer school course. But now I am finding myself in more and more convos, and I notice that I am always nervous or timid in all of them. I take risks and I am constantly uncomfortable...... its hard. But w/e, i guess maybe with experience Ill learn.
Any tips or advice you DJs would like to give me?