I found the perfect girl but she's too perfect.

[NotaNewbie]

So i know how guys nowadays always complain they cant find a "good" girl anymore. Well I did and i realized why we can't find a "good" girl nowadays. Now this girl i know is a good 8, she cooks, she goes to school, and she loves god. She's perfect but I was suppose to see her tommorow but she just found a job over the weekend and start tommorow. She doesn't go out friday nights because she help around the church, and doesn't go out saturday nights because she got church next day. Now when you meet a girl like this where she's so perfect you don't wanna let her get away. but I don't know what to do. I'm stuck. Whats there to do with a girl like this?

 

[loving]

Shes an 8. Shes not perfect.

In fact until you started thinking so much about her she was just like every other person.

Stop treating her like the queen of england and youll notice your both on the same level.

Obsessing causes tons of trippy feelings, and none of them are good to feel, or good for your chances of developing a relationship with her.

Ground yourself in who you are and stop putting extra meaning to girls 1stly before you meet them, 2ndly in what they can "offer" you 3rdly in the outcome in your actions.

 

[Igetit!]

So i know how guys nowadays always complain they cant find a "good" girl anymore. Well I did and i realized why we can't find a "good" girl nowadays. Now this girl i know is a good 8, she cooks, she goes to school, and she loves god. She's perfect but I was suppose to see her tommorow but she just found a job over the weekend and start tommorow. She doesn't go out friday nights because she help around the church, and doesn't go out saturday nights because she got church next day. Now when you meet a girl like this where she's so perfect you don't wanna let her get away. but I don't know what to do. I'm stuck. Whats there to do with a girl like this?

Forgive me,but I really don't see what the problem is here. You found yourself a good woman. She works,goes to church,and is not out getting smashfaced drunk on Friday nights. You said on Fridays she helps out at her church,and on Saturdays she doesn't go out because at night because she has church the next day on Sunday. That's just 2 days out of the week where she has other obligations to fulfill. There are still five other days where the two of you can spend time together. So what's the problem?

 

[More Cowbell Please]

Go to church and take her to lunch after. Girls are really horny after church and lunch.

 

[hondo928]

If she is that into church, not so sure the horny will matter, but maybe she's one of those catholic slvts. Or worse shes a born again. But just as I get it said what's wrong with Monday-Thursday

 

[brownbear.]

i'm with Igetit! on this one; i'm failing to see the issue here. it sounds like you found a good girl to me, personally, i'm not so into the whole church-going crowd, but if it works for you where is the problem?

i mean she sounds great on paper, but how is the dynamic when the two of you are alone? if you are getting along and make each-other happy, i would just say; relax, take it slow and treat her right.

good luck buddy!

 

[NotaNewbie]

Forgive me,but I really don't see what the problem is here. You found yourself a good woman. She works,goes to church,and is not out getting smashfaced drunk on Friday nights. You said on Fridays she helps out at her church,and on Saturdays she doesn't go out because at night because she has church the next day on Sunday. That's just 2 days out of the week where she has other obligations to fulfill. There are still five other days where the two of you can spend time together. So what's the problem?

On weekdays she goes to school then work after.

 

[brownbear.]

she's gotta eat sometime, bring a nice meal to her at work/school

i don't know your religious views, but is getting involved with her church somehow an option for you?

 

[Igetit!]

On weekdays she goes to school then work after.

I'm not buying this man. She can't be busy 24/7. If that's the case,then how did you meet her? At her church? On her job? At her school? These are the three places you say she's always at. If that's true,then you must have been at one of these three places when you met her.
However,if you met her somewhere other than these three places,then that means she does have time to spend with you.

Answer me this then: Does she eat? You know,...food? Or is she so busy,does she have so much going on in her life,that she just goes from church to work to school,church to work to school,church to work to school,7 days a week,24 hours a day,with no break in between? My point is this: if she takes the time to eat,then she can have dinner with you. Right? Another thing:if everytime you try to hang out or spend time with her she gives you an excuse without making a counter offer of when the two of you can get together,then she might not be as interested in you as you think. Personally,if every time I'd try to hang out with her she gave me an excuse,every time,then I'd just move on no matter how perfect she is.

 

[Jitterbug]

Achtung!!! One-itis!!! Achtung!!!

If she's interested, she will create openings for you regardless of how busy she is. If she always says she's busy, she isn't keen.

 

[Bossman08]

***** on a Pedestal. Never put a woman above you. You already lost her unless you change your mindstate.

 

[oakraiderz2]

Doesnt sound perfect by a LOONG shot. She doesnt go out...ever? Ghey.