... stuff that I've learned about life and of the time I've spent here in the DJ forum. You might find something new and helpful, or you'll disagree with what I'm saying. Not my problem. It's not listed as "best tip" first but as different things that pop to my mind.
1. Women might seem scary but if you think about it, it's really nothing scary about them. They might embarrass you if front of others when you try to pick them up or they might say something nasty that will make you sad. Those are all feelings.
Humans can't think with 100% logic not man nor woman. But you can prepare yourself by thinking logically. If a girl embarrasses you infront of others it's most likely that you don't know the people to hear the conversation and most likely the ones that listened will forget about it after 10 second since they're thinking about their own stuff. Just think about it yourself, if you see someone fall in a hilarious way you'll laugh for a few seconds then think about it for a minute but you wont remember it after an hour. So picking up or just talking to anyone how ever much you embarrass yourself it doesn't really matter since the world goes on and no one will remember what happened after one hour.
2. Looks, looks, looks. The age old question. Vets say it doesn't matter, new people still belive it does. We will never really know. Since there are guys that are f*ck ugly and get laid all the time as well as super handsome guys that whack the cack all the time.
The best way to put it is: If you think that it does matter then you will always have problems when going out. You won't feel confident which as you know is the essence of pick up. So if you feel like this then YES you should try to make yourself as good looking as possible! Groom yourself VERY well and you can go up in the "HG" scale atleast by 4. If it doesn't work and your face still looks like a monkeys *ss then do a damn plastic surgery. Now you're saying "oh, but I don't want to go THAT far to become goodlooking" well then you will always feel ugly and always unconfident.
UNLESS, you forget about looks and focus on becoming an awesome guy. I promise you, you WILL get laid that is for sure! I would rate myself a 10 but I know that I'm not. When I cloth properly I'm a 8, otherwise I'm a 7. What I like to do is to go with really ugly clothes on and pick up chicks. Until this day I've not seen any difference with me using ugly clothes or nice clothes. So that means that being a 8 or a 7 is no difference if you have game. Now if you think about chicks, a 7 or a 8. Of course the 8 will be hotter... since shes a 8 lol.
Don't whine about looks if you don't do anything to improve them. You can go from a 6 to 8 easily.
3. Why are you a KBJ? Why are 99% of the DJ forums KBJs? Why are 99% of the males in the world KBJs? Because they're scared and worst of all: LAZY!
I'm guilty of this myself. I've been wondering if some people are born as go-getters, thing-doers, girl-f*ckers? Can it really be like that? Are some people born do to stuff and others lazy and scared of trying that wont ever accomplish anything? Is it possible to change from being a p*ssy to becoming a MAN? Well I wont go down with atleast a fight!
I've started going to the gym and dieting correctly. I'm starting school which will take two years and then I'm going to UNI. I want to learn writing better English. I want to learn french. I want to pay my first morgage, then buy another apartment which I'll put for rent. I want to get my very intresting buisness ideas rolling.
The thing is that these are thing that I WANT. The hard part is DOING them. The only important part again is DOING them. Action speaks 10000x more than petty words and thoughts. DO **** or die a looser.
4. The gym is awesome. It's healthy, makes you looks good, builds testoserones, gives you confidence, gets a hobby that's better than "playing WoW & Cs" and best of.......... It's not even time consuming! In a week you've got 168h and you use around 3-4h in the gym. That's about 2%!!!! Think of all the awesome benefits you get from it! You'll get bigger (attracts chicks) you'll become manlier (attracts chicks) your penis will grow by 3inches (a lie).
Seriously it's a investment that will give so much fricking benefit for so little time that it's almost ridicilous! If you go and play pool with your friends you'll be there like 2-3h. What have you learned on these 2-3h? Jack sh*t!
Go train, get awesome, get hot! Can you imagine going to the beach with an awesome body, women looking at you with sex on their mind and guys looking with respect!
There is no need to even speak more about this since you all should be going to the gym by now. It's been said 100 times on this site and now 101.
That's all for today. I'm going to sleep. Hope you found atleast 1 or 2 good things. My favourite is the third. :wave: :rockon:
:crazy:
I was going to fix the spelling errors but I'm really tired and yes my grammer is horrible :nono:
Feel free to add your own jewels and gold.
1. Women might seem scary but if you think about it, it's really nothing scary about them. They might embarrass you if front of others when you try to pick them up or they might say something nasty that will make you sad. Those are all feelings.
Humans can't think with 100% logic not man nor woman. But you can prepare yourself by thinking logically. If a girl embarrasses you infront of others it's most likely that you don't know the people to hear the conversation and most likely the ones that listened will forget about it after 10 second since they're thinking about their own stuff. Just think about it yourself, if you see someone fall in a hilarious way you'll laugh for a few seconds then think about it for a minute but you wont remember it after an hour. So picking up or just talking to anyone how ever much you embarrass yourself it doesn't really matter since the world goes on and no one will remember what happened after one hour.
2. Looks, looks, looks. The age old question. Vets say it doesn't matter, new people still belive it does. We will never really know. Since there are guys that are f*ck ugly and get laid all the time as well as super handsome guys that whack the cack all the time.
The best way to put it is: If you think that it does matter then you will always have problems when going out. You won't feel confident which as you know is the essence of pick up. So if you feel like this then YES you should try to make yourself as good looking as possible! Groom yourself VERY well and you can go up in the "HG" scale atleast by 4. If it doesn't work and your face still looks like a monkeys *ss then do a damn plastic surgery. Now you're saying "oh, but I don't want to go THAT far to become goodlooking" well then you will always feel ugly and always unconfident.
UNLESS, you forget about looks and focus on becoming an awesome guy. I promise you, you WILL get laid that is for sure! I would rate myself a 10 but I know that I'm not. When I cloth properly I'm a 8, otherwise I'm a 7. What I like to do is to go with really ugly clothes on and pick up chicks. Until this day I've not seen any difference with me using ugly clothes or nice clothes. So that means that being a 8 or a 7 is no difference if you have game. Now if you think about chicks, a 7 or a 8. Of course the 8 will be hotter... since shes a 8 lol.
Don't whine about looks if you don't do anything to improve them. You can go from a 6 to 8 easily.
3. Why are you a KBJ? Why are 99% of the DJ forums KBJs? Why are 99% of the males in the world KBJs? Because they're scared and worst of all: LAZY!
I'm guilty of this myself. I've been wondering if some people are born as go-getters, thing-doers, girl-f*ckers? Can it really be like that? Are some people born do to stuff and others lazy and scared of trying that wont ever accomplish anything? Is it possible to change from being a p*ssy to becoming a MAN? Well I wont go down with atleast a fight!
I've started going to the gym and dieting correctly. I'm starting school which will take two years and then I'm going to UNI. I want to learn writing better English. I want to learn french. I want to pay my first morgage, then buy another apartment which I'll put for rent. I want to get my very intresting buisness ideas rolling.
The thing is that these are thing that I WANT. The hard part is DOING them. The only important part again is DOING them. Action speaks 10000x more than petty words and thoughts. DO **** or die a looser.
4. The gym is awesome. It's healthy, makes you looks good, builds testoserones, gives you confidence, gets a hobby that's better than "playing WoW & Cs" and best of.......... It's not even time consuming! In a week you've got 168h and you use around 3-4h in the gym. That's about 2%!!!! Think of all the awesome benefits you get from it! You'll get bigger (attracts chicks) you'll become manlier (attracts chicks) your penis will grow by 3inches (a lie).
Seriously it's a investment that will give so much fricking benefit for so little time that it's almost ridicilous! If you go and play pool with your friends you'll be there like 2-3h. What have you learned on these 2-3h? Jack sh*t!
Go train, get awesome, get hot! Can you imagine going to the beach with an awesome body, women looking at you with sex on their mind and guys looking with respect!
There is no need to even speak more about this since you all should be going to the gym by now. It's been said 100 times on this site and now 101.
That's all for today. I'm going to sleep. Hope you found atleast 1 or 2 good things. My favourite is the third. :wave: :rockon:
:crazy: I was going to fix the spelling errors but I'm really tired and yes my grammer is horrible :nono:
Feel free to add your own jewels and gold.
